This teaching is unchristian. Christianity centers on kindness and patience, and pastors should not discourage people from these virtues. Instead, this teaching focuses on expecting rewards from others for being kind and patient—and then being disappointed when those rewards don’t come.
A true Christian should not fixate on people—their ingratitude or lack of appreciation—but rather on God. It is God who rewards kindness and patience, not people. So there is no need to complain when others fail to recognize or appreciate these qualities.
I said no to what felt like ever increasing responsibilities in ministry, and it wasn’t received. The end result, I eventually withdrew. After many attempts to get leadership to respect my availability, time, and other responsibilities, I became exhausted and frustrated.
I went through same. My small sister nearly became a dropout cos.nobody was ready to assist her finish her education when our father went down with stroke. At At 22yrs when I.had just school I took it upon myself to go to her aid.My salary was just a pittance but managed to get her through. After going through she went about saying it was through her own effort cos she had a gift scholarship that she was able to go through. I can't say it all but I give all to God who is the greatest judge
Truth❤
This is good but somehow sounds like it’s being repeated.
This is me. I have learnt through experience. I have been praying God for some is wisdom..
Help me God.
Thank you so much ❤
Thank you sir🙏
Reminds me of my brother who i locked off for life. What a selfish bastard.
This teaching is unchristian. Christianity centers on kindness and patience, and pastors should not discourage people from these virtues. Instead, this teaching focuses on expecting rewards from others for being kind and patient—and then being disappointed when those rewards don’t come.
A true Christian should not fixate on people—their ingratitude or lack of appreciation—but rather on God. It is God who rewards kindness and patience, not people. So there is no need to complain when others fail to recognize or appreciate these qualities.
I said no to what felt like ever increasing responsibilities in ministry, and it wasn’t received. The end result, I eventually withdrew. After many attempts to get leadership to respect my availability, time, and other responsibilities, I became exhausted and frustrated.
Kindness without boundaries leads to disrespect.
I went through same. My small sister nearly became a dropout cos.nobody was ready to assist her finish her education when our father went down with stroke. At At 22yrs when I.had just school I took it upon myself to go to her aid.My salary was just a pittance but managed to get her through. After going through she went about saying it was through her own effort cos she had a gift scholarship that she was able to go through. I can't say it all but I give all to God who is the greatest judge
Let me use it with a wisdom 🙏 in Jesus name AMEN I will never use it at a long way
Thank you man of God 🙏
Am so relieved because of guidance for sure,
Thank you jesus 🙏 thank you God.
People must appreciate when others are showing them love kindness and respect.
I give gifts and have noticed people dont even say thank you anymore.
I was like that without boundaries. I have learnt and now there's alot of balance
Being kind doesn't mean kiss people's behind 👈🏿rewind.
If follks can't respect my boundaries they can't be around me that's fine with me I'm going to still sleep soundly cause I know Jesus found me.
Setting boundaries 👉🏿doesn't👈🏿 mean you're bitter.
My mom just sent me this . God knows I needed to hear this .
Now learn to say no and set boundaries on April 28 , 2026
Because they was having SEX with HIM AT THE Hospital AND they told HziM it's not REzAL
Amen 🙏 thanks for this message
That's how people treat's me they get mad if I have baundaries
Amen 🙏
This is my story
“Being nice over 40, you can have it all shorty!” – Redman
This people don’t have nothing good to do.this idiots they don’t have a heart.
I used to listen Dr Munroe with my father. Thank you for sharing, this message is so needed. ❤🙏
Amen 🙏
This is naked truth
I regret knowing this too late
Amen sound words