I am dropper student preparing for IIT JEE I am not able to study and i am very scared of getting failed and not getting into any college. I have no one to share my situation with please help me. My preparation was going very smooth but In january 2022 i lost my consistency and was not able to solve good problems and since then I can't focus on studies and going through worst phase of my life. I am from a lower middle class family we donot have enough money to afford for any private college and now i feel very difficult to crack it. my family have high hopes for me but how can i tell them that i am not intelligent enough to crack iit . I donot want my family to get disappoint for me and just doing best of myself I can. Last week I even thought to jump from my terrace at noght but couldn't gather enough courage to do it because I couldn't imagine my family without me crying . I even don't want to disappoint them. I hope I could get into any govt. college doesn't matter which college. I really want to do good in life. And the biggest mistake of my life is to take PCM even though I got 90% in 12th. I hope I could have taken Arts not because I want to escape from my current problem. Everyone please pray for me I could survive.
Mental anguish in your tweens all throughout your twenties is REAL. I feel like the anguish doesn't stop until mid thirties. I feel this as a suicide survivor!
It really hurts, so much. Great speech here really hits the key notes completely real. I don't see hope anymore, even instinctively. Anyway great video best speech I've seen.
You wanna know what's scary. That the statistics have gotten higher not lower since this ted talk. I used to think I'd NEVER deal with depression or suicide. But here I am at 19 fighting through the darkest time of my life. It's scary and lonely. And I don't want to die at all. But I fear living. My church and music has helped me so much. And I pray whoever is reading this. Your not alone. And I won't sugar coat it. Because i wouldn't wish this on my worst enemy. But if you put in the work and the space and time to heal. You WILL see a change.💗
When is the point that nobody cares if you go hungry nobody cares if your liver dye and you have to spend your life alone stranded life isn't worth living
“I would hate the way the sunlight came in my window every morning when I would wake up.”
This statement feels so relatable at this moment in my life. Thank you for being brave enough to continue on and to be here to make such an amazing speech.
Suicide can also be considered as a positive attitude and societies don't like suicide just because of marketing and profits. I "practiced" suicide but someone saved me without 'authorisation". This is all about Corporations and profits because suicide it means no tax and no buyer.
I stayed in a Private Mental Institution for 8 weeks and I still don't understand why suicide is bad? As an example, drinking alcohol is far worst than suicide because ethanol causes addiction and cancer causing miserable lifes for the drinker and family!
1. Suicide happens by someone in your close life the person who are the reason behind suicide is always free that's his mind games playing with suicidal person it could be from your family your boss your friends your relatives your neighbors your teachers 2.who are tortured by this should know this 3. Good laws good government can prevent this
So deep thoughts, we have to admit: we are something even when we do not feel worth it! That's the emotions that all of you felt watching this video. And probably, if you are here for the same reason I'm here, you're still alive, or just want to feel so again. We are incredibily loud if we want it, so young people from all over the world, listen: just talk to the ones who stood with you in this hard times, it could be a new day, finally.
For me it was losing my mother to Covid and then my income due to the year long lockdowns in Pa. now without a miracle I will be homeless and having no one to love in this world makes me want to end it which seems the only thing to do.
Same here I don't want to hurt the people who love me or all the people who've helped me I met so many people who've helped me try to hold on another day and I don't want to hurt them I don't want to hurt my family I think they would be sad think it would be very painful for them if I gave up I don't know what to do anymore my mental health is really bad and having people say go kill yourself doesn't make it better but I thank God for this man who did this talk
I've been there. Hopeless and lost. To the point where you don't care who will hurt because of impulsive actions. Took alot of work and therapy but I found the light
I wanna die
I regret my past so much. Suicide seems like the most reasonable decision
I am dropper student preparing for IIT JEE I am not able to study and i am very scared of getting failed and not getting into any college. I have no one to share my situation with please help me. My preparation was going very smooth but In january 2022 i lost my consistency and was not able to solve good problems and since then I can't focus on studies and going through worst phase of my life. I am from a lower middle class family we donot have enough money to afford for any private college and now i feel very difficult to crack it. my family have high hopes for me but how can i tell them that i am not intelligent enough to crack iit . I donot want my family to get disappoint for me and just doing best of myself I can. Last week I even thought to jump from my terrace at noght but couldn't gather enough courage to do it because I couldn't imagine my family without me crying . I even don't want to disappoint them. I hope I could get into any govt. college doesn't matter which college. I really want to do good in life. And the biggest mistake of my life is to take PCM even though I got 90% in 12th. I hope I could have taken Arts not because I want to escape from my current problem. Everyone please pray for me I could survive.
…you see…it is actually possible to live happy….to be here and get old and have pleasure and fun and it is possible to love it all….amor fati……
Mental anguish in your tweens all throughout your twenties is REAL. I feel like the anguish doesn't stop until mid thirties. I feel this as a suicide survivor!
Wow…I am sure this talk has helped many people from taking their lives. Thank you for posting and please never give up talking about this.
Drama
It really hurts, so much. Great speech here really hits the key notes completely real. I don't see hope anymore, even instinctively. Anyway great video best speech I've seen.
They should offer self assisted suicide painless suicide or euthanasia etc
I was listening to this when I was 15, now I'm back at 22. Something keeps luring me back. This man speaks truths
I have no food no electricity for me or my two day kittensu puppy their the only family l have l thought about suicide but l just can't leave them
As much as suicide is bad. It’s nothing compared to being a school shooter or having a sadistic belief of wanting to hurt other people.
You wanna know what's scary. That the statistics have gotten higher not lower since this ted talk. I used to think I'd NEVER deal with depression or suicide. But here I am at 19 fighting through the darkest time of my life. It's scary and lonely. And I don't want to die at all. But I fear living. My church and music has helped me so much. And I pray whoever is reading this. Your not alone. And I won't sugar coat it. Because i wouldn't wish this on my worst enemy. But if you put in the work and the space and time to heal. You WILL see a change.💗
how do you feel rain drops under your finger tips, at that point they are not raindrops, theyre just water.
I wonder how long I can last simply gritting my teeth together.
Is he off house md Dr Wilson his voice is recognisable but I can't place it
There are times I wanna go and times I don't…certain people keep you holding on… a foodie girl makes me wanna stay and I'm so grateful for her 💕
When is the point that nobody cares if you go hungry nobody cares if your liver dye and you have to spend your life alone stranded life isn't worth living
Nobody cares if you live or die and your stranded and alone with no food going hungry
“I would hate the way the sunlight came in my window every morning when I would wake up.”
This statement feels so relatable at this moment in my life. Thank you for being brave enough to continue on and to be here to make such an amazing speech.
Suicide can also be considered as a positive attitude and societies don't like suicide just because of marketing and profits.
I "practiced" suicide but someone saved me without 'authorisation".
This is all about Corporations and profits because suicide it means no tax and no buyer.
I stayed in a Private Mental Institution for 8 weeks and I still don't understand why suicide is bad?
As an example, drinking alcohol is far worst than suicide because ethanol causes addiction and cancer causing miserable lifes for the drinker and family!
1. Suicide happens by someone in your close life the person who are the reason behind suicide is always free that's his mind games playing with suicidal person it could be from your family your boss your friends your relatives your neighbors your teachers
2.who are tortured by this should know this
3. Good laws good government can prevent this
So deep thoughts, we have to admit: we are something even when we do not feel worth it!
That's the emotions that all of you felt watching this video. And probably, if you are here for the same reason I'm here, you're still alive, or just want to feel so again. We are incredibily loud if we want it, so young people from all over the world, listen: just talk to the ones who stood with you in this hard times, it could be a new day, finally.
That was a really good one thank you
I'll think about suicide everyday I'll just really don't won't too be here I'm hoping one day I'll will kill myself so I'll don't wake up anymore
I do want to live. I just don't want to live as myself.
My life is worth nothing. I want to kill myself this instant anyway!!!
This gets me through instead of going for it. He gets it.
For me it was losing my mother to Covid and then my income due to the year long lockdowns in Pa. now without a miracle I will be homeless and having no one to love in this world makes me want to end it which seems the only thing to do.
0:25 What I feel just takes over… 😔
I love u for this!
Same here I don't want to hurt the people who love me or all the people who've helped me I met so many people who've helped me try to hold on another day and I don't want to hurt them I don't want to hurt my family I think they would be sad think it would be very painful for them if I gave up I don't know what to do anymore my mental health is really bad and having people say go kill yourself doesn't make it better but I thank God for this man who did this talk
I've been there. Hopeless and lost. To the point where you don't care who will hurt because of impulsive actions. Took alot of work and therapy but I found the light
I want to die so bad I wake up everyday and wish today is the day I die