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  1. Hmm, I respectfully have a different perspective on this message.
    Times have changed sadly so have men, most Godly women i know are trusting God for good men who are kind and will love them like Christ loved the church but that in itself is scare if we can tell ourselves the truth.
    If we ignore the reality of the world we live in today, nothing will change but get worse.
    Alot of people who met their husbands in church sometimes have more terrible marriages than even people out there.
    There are marriages and there are bondages. Some of us also bear witness to the poor treatment metted on our mothers, aunts, loved ones as well growing up. I will never wish it on anyone just so the person can get married early. Even now some of us our sisters, friends, cousins, neighbours are going through hell and most of them married early, married in the church and even met in the church. This discussion is way beyond what we think ,believe or imagine.
    It's not that simple, something is wrong somewhere, we are seeing signs of the tares the devil long sowed and we want to explain it away, its not that simple.

  2. Blame our parents for deceiving us to be good girls…. This generation of men don't value good girls .. they take them for granted..

    Raise the boy child right about commitment. All these videos no dey work.

    My parents time n now are never same

  3. Pastor but most of our men are been killed kept in a prison don't you think this contributed to lots of ladies not finding theirs. Is well God will surely see ladies through in Jesus Christ name🙏🙏🙏

  4. I keep saying it and I will always say it
    Be you a good! Girl! Or Bad girl
    If you meet s man who wants to marry and settle down! Definitely he will marry whoever snd settle down
    The men they meet perhaps is not ready for marriage yet
    Or the lady in question is not comfortable to marry the man ….
    Marriage is not a difficult thing we all have our taste and choices 😊😊

  5. I disagree with pastor tbh is time.
    Many factors contribute to someone getting married.
    1. Some people have family strongholds stopping them from getting married, ancient family covenants, demonic manipulations.
    You think people want to remain single?
    Everyone wants to experience different stages of life. And back in the days too there are still some persons who couldn’t get married.
    2. Today’s men are not ready for marriage, either they are scared of commitment or they are looking for what doesn’t exist.
    3. Sometimes people make mistakes which lead to delay and then they finally get it right and marry when they are older. It happens in different generations, not just these days.
    Finally marriage is not in heaven o. Make una rest . Marriage is not everything.
    You can be married and still not fulfilled in life. Before you make that decision to marry make sure it is with someone you can live with and manage life with.

  6. Good morning Pastor.
    there are more deeper problems than you are bringing out in this message . These are not real examples.
    A faithful man who can find and a virtuous woman who can find? . Let the church start from there. Who gave them the script? uhmm. Godless men and women . Raise a man that fears God, he won't pressure a daughter of God to sleep with her. Raise a woman that fears God. She will walk in the path of light and will not be found in darkness.
    When you see the leaders of the church in sexual scandals, marrying second wives like our precious archbishop Duncan williams. Sir. Pls let's deal with the real issues. It's more spiritual than physical. The church Leadership did the damage. The ladies or men who fall prey to all these you have listed Are not serious Christian. It's the kind of message preached to Christians that are ever learning but never coming to the knowledge of the truth.

  7. Most men nowadays are not even ready to settle down most of them are busy sampling different ladies at the end of the day they end up confused while hurting those ladies and then those ladies in turn start speaking evil against them and their lives become confused…Men why dating a lady you know you can't marry???😅

  8. Churches need to work on the single guys and teach them how to be men. The quality of Christian men has drastically dropped. This is what is keeping many responsible Christian single ladies single.

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