My husband of 30 years was diagnosed with mixed personality disorder borderline and Anti-social. Sorry but with all the years of therapy and me trying to understand him, love him, he ended up being a porn and sex addict. He led a secret double life. When I found out he actually had women coming to our house for sex for years, I told him I was done. I had stayed through his physical and mental health issues but I couldn't take it when he yelled telling me that his "private" life was none of my business. So I told him to go live with one of his women. I also told each of them about each other giving them each other's cell phone numbers. This time he went manic and became homicidal and suicidal. Law enforcement SWAT team protected me but he refused to surrender and shot himself in the heart. I never wanted him to commit suicide but I deserved to live so I called law enforcement. Living with someone with a personality disorder such as borderline and Anti-social is like living in hell. In my husband's case he would rather live a lie but once exposed he wanted us both dead. Hope he's finally resting in peace. I have complex PTSD and in trauma therapy. Never will I ever become involved with anyone who is diagnosed with a personality disorder.
I am shook. When I heard her experiences i just thought -she is me and I am her. I new to even going to therapy/meds/knowledge. Thank you so much. Legit im good crying right now.
I was diagnosed with BPD 10 years ago, but I never took it as “part of me”. I understood that it was my tendency to see life in a certain way, but not a part of me. I tried drugs (psychiatric drugs) for 6 years, but they were so detrimental that I decided to stop. Back then I was studying psychiatry and I saw how much havoc those drugs do. I have been without them for 3 years, my prescription now is: not identifying with my thoughts, surfing and walking in nature every day, eating clean, being honest and using little social media. It was a process, of course, but life has been so much better, specially inside my head.
I feel in love with someone with borderline. I made her my entire world. I learned everything about borderline. Tried to always be understanding of what she was going through and her episodes. Loved her with all my heart. Wanted to marry her. While she mentally and emotionally abused and tortured me for almost two years.I did everything in the relationship. She believed her only job was giving sex.
I was always there for this girl yet her family said I wasn’t good enough for her. I couldn’t believe it. The one guy who was willing to be there for her and not just put up with her but actually accepted her for who she was, wasn’t good enough for them. Her mother was always trying to convince her to leave me. They are elitist and judgmental a holes.
I ended up walking away from my ex after she became physically violent. That will always be a deal breaker for me. We had a child together but she put him up for adoption and I couldn’t stop it. You have very little rights as a man when a woman puts a baby up for adoption and you’re not married to her. What makes me really upset besides her giving away our son is the fact that everything she did to me she is now claiming I did to her.
I never want to see or speak to her again. She is severely mentally ill. If there is a spectrum for borderlines then she is on the far extreme end. With that said, I hope she can find a man someday that can be all that her family thinks she deserves. I personally think she doesn’t deserve anyone until she works on her issues though.
I want to be better but my BPD brain has me so stuck. I split on every therapist and Ghost them. I refuse to get help but if I wanted to di3 I would’ve done it by now…. Idk
OMG me too!We moved every year too! During my high school years I went to school in three different countries,4 schools in 3 yrs. One of which my mother basically kidnapped me.She didn't even tell my father of her plans to leave me in a school overseas. I wondered why she packed so much for a short trip! My psychiatrist told me to "Google BPD" . Thank you so much for your so relatable interview. ❤
Why do I get this so much! But I feel like at 28 I’m still more unstable than my mom ever was. But I’m also taking those steps to figure out what is wrong with me that my mom didn’t.
I have some of those things in my life I always thought that I was weird. I overly text worse case senero and fear kicks in. DBT has helped I still have a hard time opening up. I am greatful you shared your story. I been looking at my self a lit lately and see I judge me hard and others also. I want that to change and when the old thinking hurts kick in the set backs are painful.
I need this intelligent young lady to have a nice chat with my mother, who has BPD. She struggles a lot and in turn my family struggles too. Her self imagine is what suffers the most
I feel like I was listening to myself talking from the parents doing drugs and many different schools. I experienced all the things she said. The difference is I don't have a significant other and it's hard for me to find that. That's been a huge struggle for me.
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My husband of 30 years was diagnosed with mixed personality disorder borderline and Anti-social. Sorry but with all the years of therapy and me trying to understand him, love him, he ended up being a porn and sex addict. He led a secret double life. When I found out he actually had women coming to our house for sex for years, I told him I was done. I had stayed through his physical and mental health issues but I couldn't take it when he yelled telling me that his "private" life was none of my business. So I told him to go live with one of his women. I also told each of them about each other giving them each other's cell phone numbers. This time he went manic and became homicidal and suicidal. Law enforcement SWAT team protected me but he refused to surrender and shot himself in the heart. I never wanted him to commit suicide but I deserved to live so I called law enforcement. Living with someone with a personality disorder such as borderline and Anti-social is like living in hell. In my husband's case he would rather live a lie but once exposed he wanted us both dead. Hope he's finally resting in peace. I have complex PTSD and in trauma therapy. Never will I ever become involved with anyone who is diagnosed with a personality disorder.
Oh honey- you are so brave! Kudos for seeking help- and not stopping till you found what you needed! That is so brave! Getting help breaks the cycle!
I am shook. When I heard her experiences i just thought -she is me and I am her. I new to even going to therapy/meds/knowledge. Thank you so much. Legit im good crying right now.
I'm scare to get help because I'm a single mom and I fear they would take my kids away they are all I got and I'm all they got
I was diagnosed with BPD 10 years ago, but I never took it as “part of me”. I understood that it was my tendency to see life in a certain way, but not a part of me. I tried drugs (psychiatric drugs) for 6 years, but they were so detrimental that I decided to stop. Back then I was studying psychiatry and I saw how much havoc those drugs do. I have been without them for 3 years, my prescription now is: not identifying with my thoughts, surfing and walking in nature every day, eating clean, being honest and using little social media. It was a process, of course, but life has been so much better, specially inside my head.
I feel in love with someone with borderline. I made her my entire world. I learned everything about borderline. Tried to always be understanding of what she was going through and her episodes. Loved her with all my heart. Wanted to marry her. While she mentally and emotionally abused and tortured me for almost two years.I did everything in the relationship. She believed her only job was giving sex.
I was always there for this girl yet her family said I wasn’t good enough for her. I couldn’t believe it. The one guy who was willing to be there for her and not just put up with her but actually accepted her for who she was, wasn’t good enough for them. Her mother was always trying to convince her to leave me. They are elitist and judgmental a holes.
I ended up walking away from my ex after she became physically violent. That will always be a deal breaker for me. We had a child together but she put him up for adoption and I couldn’t stop it. You have very little rights as a man when a woman puts a baby up for adoption and you’re not married to her. What makes me really upset besides her giving away our son is the fact that everything she did to me she is now claiming I did to her.
I never want to see or speak to her again. She is severely mentally ill. If there is a spectrum for borderlines then she is on the far extreme end. With that said, I hope she can find a man someday that can be all that her family thinks she deserves. I personally think she doesn’t deserve anyone until she works on her issues though.
I want to be better but my BPD brain has me so stuck. I split on every therapist and Ghost them. I refuse to get help but if I wanted to di3 I would’ve done it by now…. Idk
OMG me too!We moved every year too! During my high school years I went to school in three different countries,4 schools in 3 yrs. One of which my mother basically kidnapped me.She didn't even tell my father of her plans to leave me in a school overseas. I wondered why she packed so much for a short trip! My psychiatrist told me to "Google BPD" . Thank you so much for your so relatable interview. ❤
Why do I get this so much! But I feel like at 28 I’m still more unstable than my mom ever was. But I’m also taking those steps to figure out what is wrong with me that my mom didn’t.
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Brave Girl!! Wish her lots of success for the future!
I knew what BPD was but didn’t read into it or think it was me. Yesterday I was diagnosed with it and CPTSD.
I have some of those things in my life I always thought that I was weird.
I overly text worse case senero and fear kicks in.
DBT has helped I still have a hard time opening up.
I am greatful you shared your story.
I been looking at my self a lit lately and see I judge me hard and others also.
I want that to change and when the old thinking hurts kick in the set backs are painful.
Sadly
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Mental health staff refuse to treat patients with BPD.
I need this intelligent young lady to have a nice chat with my mother, who has BPD. She struggles a lot and in turn my family struggles too. Her self imagine is what suffers the most
I feel like I was listening to myself talking from the parents doing drugs and many different schools. I experienced all the things she said. The difference is I don't have a significant other and it's hard for me to find that. That's been a huge struggle for me.
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The most damaging emotion is betrayal. I feel like all of my relationships have suffered because I feel others turn their backs on me.