Many of humanity’s greatest problems stem not from a shortfall of technical or financial intelligence, but what we term emotional …
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The conversation here has taken a fascinating turn (fascinating for us at least): we see a lot of comments that want to suggest that emotional intelligence does not exist/has been made up/is not a thing. We assume that what people mean by this is that science, especially neuroscience, cannot clearly identify a separate part of the mind that can be referred to as Emotional Intelligence. This is perhaps very true. But it somewhat bypasses our point. We're not looking for scientific validation, we're simply pointing out certain emotional faculties which can be more or less developed in people – and can be fostered by a good surrounding culture. We're surprised too at the line of argument that suggests that the idea of Emotional Intelligence was invented by 'stupid' people to make themselves feel better about not having achieved anything. This seems unnecessarily harsh – because achievement comes in many forms and the ability to understand human nature is as valid a pursuit as the ability to (for example) play basketball or cook well.
I feel like im learning this more recently now that im a bit older. I can understand the algorithm of other’s behavior but learning to keep my own in check
Apart from what other's have shared here. The way i understand it is Emotional intelligence is one’s ability to not quickly jump to conclusions based on one’s emotions and rather be objective in situations that needs it.
Emotional intelligence is how to channel your emotion according to the situation but not be an emotional fool and stick to worthless emotions. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HzT4uMYgtPk
Molti distinguono le emozioni in positive e negative, i più lungimiranti individuano in ciascuna emozione una valenza positiva e una negativa. L'ottica MDPAC supera entrambe queste concezioni ancorate al predominio della sfera razionale e considera la sfera emotiva esclusivamente in senso protettivo. Le emozioni non hanno bisogno dell'intelligenza: semmai è il contrario. L'emozione interviene per rinforzare i pensieri positivi e per trasformare la tendenza dell'individuo a dare importanza in modo rigido e ipergiudicante alla propria sfera cognitiva a discapito di tutte le altre sfere tentando di PROTEGGERCI dai pensieri negativi che abbiamo circa noi stessi: non sono capace, sono debole, non sono importante, non posso gestirlo, non posso sopportarlo, io sono impotente, io non ho il controllo, io non sono una brava persona, io non mi merito, etc. Continuiamo a confondere il sistema d'allarme con l'incendio. Ad esempio una zebra vede un leone, ha paura, scappa e si salva la vita. Noi esseri umani per effetto della neocorteccia continuiamo a pensare all'evento o lo anticipiamo: quindi il problema sono le emozioni oppure i pensieri negativi. In realtà le emozioni sono come l'oro nell'arte del kintsugi ed è proprio ciò che consente il passaggio dal pensiero negativo a quello positivo. Le emozioni non sono qualcosa da gestire, ma il regolatore del sistema INDIVIDUO.
"Someone prefers to focus on positive thinking to counteract the negative, but algebra teaches us that by multiplying two numbers of opposite sign we always get a negative product, whereas emotions are like a mirror so that if the thought is positive, they reflect positivity. if it is negative (less for less it is more) they can transform the attitude of the person in a positive way" (Antonio Cisternino in the interview on Radio Cusano Campus).
Ricordiamo di non confondere le emozioni con i sentimenti, i comportamenti o i meccanismi di difesa.
This is such bull 😂 don’t trust your mind, take pills. Don’t trust your body, take hormones. And don’t trust your emotions, they are probably the opposite of what you feel actually. And make sure to monitor those around you at all times to better serve them.
The conversation here has taken a fascinating turn (fascinating for us at least): we see a lot of comments that want to suggest that emotional intelligence does not exist/has been made up/is not a thing. We assume that what people mean by this is that science, especially neuroscience, cannot clearly identify a separate part of the mind that can be referred to as Emotional Intelligence. This is perhaps very true. But it somewhat bypasses our point. We're not looking for scientific validation, we're simply pointing out certain emotional faculties which can be more or less developed in people – and can be fostered by a good surrounding culture. We're surprised too at the line of argument that suggests that the idea of Emotional Intelligence was invented by 'stupid' people to make themselves feel better about not having achieved anything. This seems unnecessarily harsh – because achievement comes in many forms and the ability to understand human nature is as valid a pursuit as the ability to (for example) play basketball or cook well.
Thank you for sharing 🙂
Im only here because I forgot to do my chores bruh, my mom made me watch this and write a whole paper about EI💀
Aka school of life, life will teach you how to behave :/
Like this
I think the person with the greatest emotional intelligence ever was Jesus.
I feel like im learning this more recently now that im a bit older. I can understand the algorithm of other’s behavior but learning to keep my own in check
Наша учительница сказала выучить этот видео и мне было так лень но потом стало интересно и я могу пересказывать а не раскатать 😅
Fucking garbage I cant even understood your shit
Apart from what other's have shared here. The way i understand it is Emotional intelligence is one’s ability to not quickly jump to conclusions based on one’s emotions and rather be objective in situations that needs it.
Might learn something from this..
Any other autistic adults here?
Amazing
The topic of EQ goes so deep, beyond anyone's imagination, including mine. It is what governs our IQ.
Love the art on this!
Emotional intelligence is how to channel your emotion according to the situation but not be an emotional fool and stick to worthless emotions.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HzT4uMYgtPk
Molti distinguono le emozioni in positive e negative, i più lungimiranti individuano in ciascuna emozione una valenza positiva e una negativa. L'ottica MDPAC supera entrambe queste concezioni ancorate al predominio della sfera razionale e considera la sfera emotiva esclusivamente in senso protettivo. Le emozioni non hanno bisogno dell'intelligenza: semmai è il contrario. L'emozione interviene per rinforzare i pensieri positivi e per trasformare la tendenza dell'individuo a dare importanza in modo rigido e ipergiudicante alla propria sfera cognitiva a discapito di tutte le altre sfere tentando di PROTEGGERCI dai pensieri negativi che abbiamo circa noi stessi: non sono capace, sono debole, non sono importante, non posso gestirlo, non posso sopportarlo, io sono impotente, io non ho il controllo, io non sono una brava persona, io non mi merito, etc. Continuiamo a confondere il sistema d'allarme con l'incendio. Ad esempio una zebra vede un leone, ha paura, scappa e si salva la vita. Noi esseri umani per effetto della neocorteccia continuiamo a pensare all'evento o lo anticipiamo: quindi il problema sono le emozioni oppure i pensieri negativi. In realtà le emozioni sono come l'oro nell'arte del kintsugi ed è proprio ciò che consente il passaggio dal pensiero negativo a quello positivo. Le emozioni non sono qualcosa da gestire, ma il regolatore del sistema INDIVIDUO.
"Someone prefers to focus on positive thinking to counteract the negative, but algebra teaches us that by multiplying two numbers of opposite sign we always get a negative product, whereas emotions are like a mirror so that if the thought is positive, they reflect positivity. if it is negative (less for less it is more) they can transform the attitude of the person in a positive way" (Antonio Cisternino in the interview on Radio Cusano Campus).
Ricordiamo di non confondere le emozioni con i sentimenti, i comportamenti o i meccanismi di difesa.
http://mdpac.blogspot.com/?m=0
Excellent video !
This is such bull 😂 don’t trust your mind, take pills. Don’t trust your body, take hormones. And don’t trust your emotions, they are probably the opposite of what you feel actually. And make sure to monitor those around you at all times to better serve them.