Is sex before marriage a sin? Is premarital sex considered fornication and/or sexual immorality in the Bible? What does the Bible …
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Sex before marriage is FORBIDDEN. The whole reason God instituted marriage was to increase the number of his children. He could have just created us all like he did Adam but in his goodness he wanted man and woman AKA husband and wife to share in his creative power. It's a AWESOME power to be able to create new life but God forbid the use of intercourse outside of marriage because the child that could be created needs s father and mother to care for and nurture it .Any type of sex between married couples that INHIBITS the creation of new life like using birth control, sterilization, withdrawal , oral sex to orgasm by the male outside the females body or such perversions like anal sex are all STRICTLY FORBIDDEN. Every act of spousal love MUST BE OPEN TO THE CREATION OF LIFE, NO EXCEPTIONS.
We all know Bible has no reference at all about wedding ceremony in church or anywhere. No wedding ring or marriage vows or marriage certificate mentioned in the Bible. Old Testament and New Testament. What if a man and woman take a pledge among themselves and start living together, have sex and love one another Biblically in all respects? Are not they married in the sight of God? Did I tell you most couples despite having had church weddings, marriage certificates, wedding rings, live separated (though not divorced by law), live as divorced? Biblically God sees what you are in your married life in heart and deeds, despite not having all government and church proofs
I had have sex before marriage and for so long afterword she left and god isolated myself for a reason I knew what I did was wrong and I I also knew god has something better in store for me for very long I’ve been listening to what he is saying and I’m doing so well in staying on the straight and narrow path I’m just glad god was able to close a door for me that would eventually lead me to more sexual immorality and im glad that through Christ I am made new 🙏
It's hard to imagine not doing anything sexual with my girlfriend for many more years until we're out of college and have stable jobs before we get married, but I pray that God will give us the strength to endure.
When interpreting these verses I think we should consider the realities of the time e.g. no contraceptive method other than killing the fetus (if the boy friend runs away). In modern times, casual sex between consenting partners using contraceptive method (e.g. pills … ) does not harm anyone. Having said that under the law things are binary and would be a sin (i think).
i dont think sex before marriage is godly but these verses dont prove that. it just says sexual immorality youre inferring sex before marriages falls into that category but there is not textual evidence for that. in fact those verse seem to be talking mostly adultery
(FACTS OVA FEELINGS). MAN DID NOT WRITE THE TUU tRUTH REAL ORIGINAL BIBLE WOMBMEN/WOMEN/ GODDESSES WROTE BIBLE WHO WERE CALLED THE 12 SYSBLES THIS IS WERE THE WORD BIBLE COMBS FROM. THIS IS WERE THE 12 DISCIPLES COMBS FROM MAN CAME ALONE ON HIS EGO TRIP AND MADE HIMSELF A GOD. AND TOOK WOMBMAN/WOMAN GODDESS OUT THE BIBLE FOR SHE IS WISDOM THE COMFORTER THE HOLY SPHERE-IT. SPHERE-IT OF THE HER-RI-CAINE FOR EACH ONE BARES HER NAME. FOR SHE IS THE TUU ORIGNAL CARBON BLACK IN HUE GODDESS FOR WOMBMAN/WOMAN/GODDESS SENT GOD/MAN TO eARTH TO BEE FRUITFUL AND MULTIPLY TO CREAIGHT MOOR CARBON BLACK IN HUE GODS/GODDESS OUT THE IMAGINE OF HER. LOOK AT THE WORD WATT COMBS FIRST WO-MAN /WOMBMAN/FE-MALE. INSIDE THE WOMBMAN EVERY BEING IS SHE. HER WOMAN FIRST. JUST AZ THE WOMAN HAS A CLITORIS SO DOES MALE THE COLITORS GLANDS GROWS OVA-SIZE AND BECOMB PENIS. THE ONLY DIFFERENCE IS UR/ MAN VAGINA HAS CAME OUT. EVERY SENSE MAN TOOK CONTROL MADE HIMSELF A GOD HE HAS FUCK UP TOXIC WOMAN GARDEN OF EDEN AND THE PPL OF THIS WHRILD HAS BEEN FUC UP EVERY SENSE. THAS NOT YOUNIVERSAL LAWS. .ITS NOT NICE TO FOOL MOTHER NATURE. eARTH IS MY BODY! WATER IS MY BLOOD! AIR IS MY BREATH! FIRE IS MY SPHERE-IT. EYE EVERYTHING THAS IN EXISTENCE THA CANNOT BEE DEFINE!
(FACTS OVA FEELINGS). WEE OPT TO THIS eARTH TO lEARN AND GROW. EU CANNOT lEARN AND GROW STUCK IN ONE BOX. A MARRIAGE IS NOT PUTTING A RING ON SOMEONES FINGER. WEN EU R SIGNING A MARRIAGE LICENSE EU R SIGNING A BLOOD CONTRACT SCARIFICE. UR NATURE OVA TO SOMEONE ELSE SIG-NATURE/SIN. THAS NOT YOUNIVERSAL LAWS. THAS MAN LAW. MAN SYSTEM. COMB OUT OF HER. ONCE EU HAVE LEARN FROM THA PERSON WEATHER ITS NEGATIVE R POSITIVE. TIME MOVE ONE AND GROW. A MARRIAGE IS WEN UR SOLE AND SPHERE-IT IS BALANCE WITH SELF AND EU BECOMB ONE WHOLE WITH SELF
This has been the clear historic biblical teaching of God's desire and normal societal practice for hundreds of years. Only very recently, in mainly Western society, has this been abandoned by those who don't follow God's biblical teachings
So, a couple who has been together for years, perhaps share a house together and kids, but aren't married, are still fornicating? I find some stuff complicated. Our society has changed so much; nowadays, marriage has become a business (probably it always has been). Once you have sex with someone, you immediately start bonding with that person. Your soul binds with another person and becomes one. That's why breakups are so hard.
Through the Bible, several verses caution men to not have sex with prostitutes; otherwise, they will bind their souls to a prostitute, etc. Also, Adam and Eve didn't have the marriage rituals we have nowadays. In fact, the wedding ring comes from pagan ceremonies. So what is right?
Please just don't have sex before marriage. I have done nothing, but suffer as a result of the consequences of pre-marital sex and I hate the day I ever did that.
Being a husband or wife most people don't want to be and you can blame feminism for that hardly enyone wants to be a husband and wife now they want to change the name of marriage possibly to there liking
I just found out what "soaking" is…sigh…The LORD will clean up and refine His Church. Thank you for this discussion. The fear of the LORD is our treasure. The fear of the LORD is clean.
If you are burning with passion get married to a fellow believer like 1 Corinthians 7 says (paraphrase). I know by experience that it is possible through Christ to overcome sexual immorality and not act on evil thoughts. Let's not find loopholes. Satan is exploiting these things.
I am tired of wickedness on the earth. The LORD is pure and holy so how should we be? Judgement begins with the household of God. If you messed up ask for forgiveness and move forward. Like this video says, there is a place for sex which is undefiled: marriage.
something i have never heard addressed is it is mathematically and logistically impossible for everyone to marry, even if everyone wanted to, and not everyone does. so if what you say is true that means god is prejudiced against and discriminates against the unmarried. correct me if i am wrong but i suspect you believe god loves us all. so which is it? if sex is only moral in marriages how can god love everyone? was god unaware not everyone would marry? if you never marry are you supposed to die a virgin? there are two versions of sex outside of marriage: unmarried people having sex and married people straying. does not every passage you quoted apply to married people straying? the term "pre marital" should not exist, for sex or anything else. i do not want to ban marriage, but the idea being married is an achievement or crazier yet an obligation is beyond insane
father! brother! thank you for helping me! I promise you! no matter what happens! I will never have sex before marriage"I will only have sex with the one I love! I promise you! no matter what!
Even if you remain totally free of all sexual thoughts, feelings, and acts prior to marriage, this does not guarantee that your marriage will be problem-free. This does not guarantee that you won't feel pain or disappointment in your marriage.
Even if you're both serious Christians and have checked off all the right Christian boxes, marriage still brings pain and struggle. Because this is part of LIFE.
No pastor wants to tell you this, but it's the truth.
You are wrong about sex before marriage, in my opinion. Those passages mentioning adultery and immoratlity is addressing the issues of those times when Israelites and Christians were getting involved in pagan orgies, beastiality etc. If God was against sex before marriage he would have explicitly said it. People like you damage Christianity by imposing bullshit, overreaching and unsensical and unbiblical rules on people, essentialy driving them away from the faith
The Bible never says premarital sex is wrong…. Premarital sex is not even mentioned in the Bible once… God actually condones request for men to impregnate women who are not their wives in Genesis 38 … the only response I ever get for that is “ that was a long time ago “ I thought God was the same yesterday today and forever??? 🤔 plenty of characters in scripture have concubines and are never chastised … or more than one wife … like David Solomon or Abraham …bigamy or poligamy were never outlawed until 1000 years AD by Judaism … still legal in Islam … the only scriptural verse suggested is in Timothy where Pastors are to be “husbands of one wife” … but this rule is for pastors … btw I don’t advocate premarital sexual relations nor multiple marriages wives… or concubines …. But the Bible just is silence on this …. Pornea or fornication ….term it’s not exclusive….
This doesn’t make sense, because your point of this video was that sex inside of marriage is the cure for sexual immorality but you can be sexually immoral in marriage by lusting after your wife or husband
Marrige = Sex in the Bible. Marrige where church priest “marry” you is NOT biblical. Majority of churches are from satan. I am in monk mode and I see Jesus in spirit every day. Follow Jesus, not wordly tradition.
Knowing the consequences of falling into sin helps to acquire knowledge to reflect on the anguish and suffering that committing sin brings. =>> Hosea 4:6 6 My people are destroyed for lack of knowledge. Because you have rejected knowledge, I also will reject you from being priest for Me; Because you have forgotten the law of your God, I also will forget your children
Well, since we’re all created in Gods image why do we have the need for fortification then? Without or without marriage, is the forbidden fruit simply the ability the sin but the wisdom to know the difference ? If that’s the case, this world is full of sin no matter what the cost. I.e. sexual, lust, gluttony, etc. so the real question is then, how does someone turn away from this sin a Goldy manner? If so, how does one wash away the sins of her or his past when that person maybe had a child that is soo damn beautiful even in the making of sin they protruded life? See, not everything is perfect even Gods creation. So, we must be forgiven automatically even when we realize this. Because we are only human in the end
Im sorry im going to say it. i believe in god and this makes no sense . I call bullshit. The bible has said a lot of things that have been proven to be untrue. And are all the animals in the animal kingdom wed. No they are not and what about life on other planets are they wed. do they even have males or females. I am sorry but the bible makes rules based on the understanding of the time with no proper understanding of the future nor correct preditions of what has been or will be. I have come to understand that god is real and i can see him everyday. And he is far greater then you can understand and such notions are well beneath him. And he would not waste his time on such things. You said jesus walked on water like it was amazing. I say the truth is far more spectacular. A universe with black holes know as quasars that can crush a galaxy into a small ball the size of a coin and then break it up into dust an scatter it across the universe like salt across a table. Its not about comparing one version of god against another , no its about calling out the lies of the past so that we can truly gain a undertanding of god in the future , For such notions of sex out of marriage being a sin is the mind set of a small child a con man needing a congrigation or a caveman showing a scientist the way forward. Oh god is real but im sorry but he will not be found in that bible.
I admitted that i have committed sins in sex before marriage and outside marriage that i can't control before, but i prayed sincerely to my Father God to forgive me and control my lust but, when I'm praying it control my lust, hunger and obsession of sex as if it doesn't lessen but it worsen so i just control and discipline myself not to be jealous of what the others is doing which is wrong and a great sins by doing it also. That's why i always repent and ask forgiveness through prayers. And I prayed too that I'll only have sex with a right girl in a right time to make myself pure and clean and in the eyes of God. As a king of the World like king David i just wait for the right time That's why i don't lose patience to wait to those who really love snd serve me from now and for eternity. Marriage and sex is sacred and it is a gift for us human from God but in a right ways, right person, right place. Those who practice and doing it in a wrong ways will surely be tormented and punish in the lake of fire in hell. But as a chosen snd destined as King of the World there is a consideration like a chosen king of Israel 🇮🇱 but in a right persons, right place and right time with respect and sincerity. And even as a chosen king there's still Commandments of God not to do it, like king David he committed sin by killing Uriah his soldier just to marry his wife Batsheba because he like and in loved with her so much even he has many wives and that is his sin to God by ordering the killing of Uriah. The sin of King Solomon his son also is he broke the command of God to him not to marry foreigners that doesn't know God of Israel 🇮🇱, that is his sin also despite that he has many with 700 wives and 300 concubines but still he married foreigners that don't know God of Israel and that is his sin too that make God angry with him and say, "The kingdom is cut off in you there's no king that will replace you in your descendants. That's the time Jerusalem was attacked and they destroyed Jerusalem Wall.
Sex before marriage is FORBIDDEN. The whole reason God instituted marriage was to increase the number of his children. He could have just created us all like he did Adam but in his goodness he wanted man and woman AKA husband and wife to share in his creative power. It's a AWESOME power to be able to create new life but God forbid the use of intercourse outside of marriage because the child that could be created needs s father and mother to care for and nurture it .Any type of sex between married couples that INHIBITS the creation of new life like using birth control, sterilization, withdrawal , oral sex to orgasm by the male outside the females body or such perversions like anal sex are all STRICTLY FORBIDDEN. Every act of spousal love MUST BE OPEN TO THE CREATION OF LIFE, NO EXCEPTIONS.
Wrong! The Bible clearly states Thou shalt not commit adultery. That is all if you don't get married you don't commit adultery.
We all know Bible has no reference at all about wedding ceremony in church or anywhere. No wedding ring or marriage vows or marriage certificate mentioned in the Bible. Old Testament and New Testament. What if a man and woman take a pledge among themselves and start living together, have sex and love one another Biblically in all respects? Are not they married in the sight of God? Did I tell you most couples despite having had church weddings, marriage certificates, wedding rings, live separated (though not divorced by law), live as divorced? Biblically God sees what you are in your married life in heart and deeds, despite not having all government and church proofs
What is marriage, is it a certificate, a ring a ceremony…?What if there is no such thing as sex before marriage what if its flesh meeting flesh
Practice makes perfect.
Thank you for this!! 😭😭 Now i understand more on it 👍.
I had have sex before marriage and for so long afterword she left and god isolated myself for a reason I knew what I did was wrong and I I also knew god has something better in store for me for very long I’ve been listening to what he is saying and I’m doing so well in staying on the straight and narrow path I’m just glad god was able to close a door for me that would eventually lead me to more sexual immorality and im glad that through Christ I am made new 🙏
It's hard to imagine not doing anything sexual with my girlfriend for many more years until we're out of college and have stable jobs before we get married, but I pray that God will give us the strength to endure.
When interpreting these verses I think we should consider the realities of the time e.g. no contraceptive method other than killing the fetus (if the boy friend runs away). In modern times, casual sex between consenting partners using contraceptive method (e.g. pills … ) does not harm anyone. Having said that under the law things are binary and would be a sin (i think).
i dont think sex before marriage is godly but these verses dont prove that. it just says sexual immorality youre inferring sex before marriages falls into that category but there is not textual evidence for that. in fact those verse seem to be talking mostly adultery
There’s so many benefits to remaining celibate I wish more people did it personally, I’m going through my own celibacy journey.
(FACTS OVA FEELINGS). MAN DID NOT WRITE THE TUU tRUTH REAL ORIGINAL BIBLE WOMBMEN/WOMEN/ GODDESSES WROTE BIBLE WHO WERE CALLED THE 12 SYSBLES THIS IS WERE THE WORD BIBLE COMBS FROM. THIS IS WERE THE 12 DISCIPLES COMBS FROM MAN CAME ALONE ON HIS EGO TRIP AND MADE HIMSELF A GOD. AND TOOK WOMBMAN/WOMAN GODDESS OUT THE BIBLE FOR SHE IS WISDOM THE COMFORTER THE HOLY SPHERE-IT. SPHERE-IT OF THE HER-RI-CAINE FOR EACH ONE BARES HER NAME. FOR SHE IS THE TUU ORIGNAL CARBON BLACK IN HUE GODDESS FOR WOMBMAN/WOMAN/GODDESS SENT GOD/MAN TO eARTH TO BEE FRUITFUL AND MULTIPLY TO CREAIGHT MOOR CARBON BLACK IN HUE GODS/GODDESS OUT THE IMAGINE OF HER. LOOK AT THE WORD WATT COMBS FIRST WO-MAN /WOMBMAN/FE-MALE. INSIDE THE WOMBMAN EVERY BEING IS SHE. HER WOMAN FIRST. JUST AZ THE WOMAN HAS A CLITORIS SO DOES MALE THE COLITORS GLANDS GROWS OVA-SIZE AND BECOMB PENIS. THE ONLY DIFFERENCE IS UR/ MAN VAGINA HAS CAME OUT. EVERY SENSE MAN TOOK CONTROL MADE HIMSELF A GOD HE HAS FUCK UP TOXIC WOMAN GARDEN OF EDEN AND THE PPL OF THIS WHRILD HAS BEEN FUC UP EVERY SENSE. THAS NOT YOUNIVERSAL LAWS. .ITS NOT NICE TO FOOL MOTHER NATURE. eARTH IS MY BODY! WATER IS MY BLOOD! AIR IS MY BREATH! FIRE IS MY SPHERE-IT. EYE EVERYTHING THAS IN EXISTENCE THA CANNOT BEE DEFINE!
(FACTS OVA FEELINGS). WEE OPT TO THIS eARTH TO lEARN AND GROW. EU CANNOT lEARN AND GROW STUCK IN ONE BOX. A MARRIAGE IS NOT PUTTING A RING ON SOMEONES FINGER. WEN EU R SIGNING A MARRIAGE LICENSE EU R SIGNING A BLOOD CONTRACT SCARIFICE. UR NATURE OVA TO SOMEONE ELSE SIG-NATURE/SIN. THAS NOT YOUNIVERSAL LAWS. THAS MAN LAW. MAN SYSTEM. COMB OUT OF HER. ONCE EU HAVE LEARN FROM THA PERSON WEATHER ITS NEGATIVE R POSITIVE. TIME MOVE ONE AND GROW. A MARRIAGE IS WEN UR SOLE AND SPHERE-IT IS BALANCE WITH SELF AND EU BECOMB ONE WHOLE WITH SELF
This has been the clear historic biblical teaching of God's desire and normal societal practice for hundreds of years.
Only very recently, in mainly Western society, has this been abandoned by those who don't follow God's biblical teachings
Great point
What if I did in case my gf seduced me and I couldn't controlled myself… 😭
So, a couple who has been together for years, perhaps share a house together and kids, but aren't married, are still fornicating? I find some stuff complicated. Our society has changed so much; nowadays, marriage has become a business (probably it always has been). Once you have sex with someone, you immediately start bonding with that person. Your soul binds with another person and becomes one. That's why breakups are so hard.
Through the Bible, several verses caution men to not have sex with prostitutes; otherwise, they will bind their souls to a prostitute, etc. Also, Adam and Eve didn't have the marriage rituals we have nowadays. In fact, the wedding ring comes from pagan ceremonies. So what is right?
Please just don't have sex before marriage. I have done nothing, but suffer as a result of the consequences of pre-marital sex and I hate the day I ever did that.
Does it say in the Bible. That I have to have sex. I don't want sex. Simple.
Why do I have to have sex , at all . Sex is disgusting and gross. Don't like sex at all. 2002 was the last time I have had sex . I don't want sex .
Being a husband or wife most people don't want to be and you can blame feminism for that hardly enyone wants to be a husband and wife now they want to change the name of marriage possibly to there liking
But he forgive the lady who was an prostitute right
I just found out what "soaking" is…sigh…The LORD will clean up and refine His Church. Thank you for this discussion. The fear of the LORD is our treasure. The fear of the LORD is clean.
If you are burning with passion get married to a fellow believer like 1 Corinthians 7 says (paraphrase). I know by experience that it is possible through Christ to overcome sexual immorality and not act on evil thoughts. Let's not find loopholes. Satan is exploiting these things.
I am tired of wickedness on the earth. The LORD is pure and holy so how should we be? Judgement begins with the household of God. If you messed up ask for forgiveness and move forward. Like this video says, there is a place for sex which is undefiled: marriage.
Islam forbidden sex before marriage and sex outside marriage , Islam is the true religion not Christianity
something i have never heard addressed is it is mathematically and logistically impossible for everyone to marry, even if everyone wanted to, and not everyone does. so if what you say is true that means god is prejudiced against and discriminates against the unmarried. correct me if i am wrong but i suspect you believe god loves us all. so which is it? if sex is only moral in marriages how can god love everyone? was god unaware not everyone would marry? if you never marry are you supposed to die a virgin? there are two versions of sex outside of marriage: unmarried people having sex and married people straying. does not every passage you quoted apply to married people straying? the term "pre marital" should not exist, for sex or anything else. i do not want to ban marriage, but the idea being married is an achievement or crazier yet an obligation is beyond insane
father! brother! thank you for helping me! I promise you! no matter what happens! I will never have sex before marriage"I will only have sex with the one I love! I promise you! no matter what!
Then the question becomes, when are you considered to be married?
Even if you remain totally free of all sexual thoughts, feelings, and acts prior to marriage, this does not guarantee that your marriage will be problem-free. This does not guarantee that you won't feel pain or disappointment in your marriage.
Even if you're both serious Christians and have checked off all the right Christian boxes, marriage still brings pain and struggle. Because this is part of LIFE.
No pastor wants to tell you this, but it's the truth.
You are wrong about sex before marriage, in my opinion.
Those passages mentioning adultery and immoratlity is addressing the issues of those times when Israelites and Christians were getting involved in pagan orgies, beastiality etc.
If God was against sex before marriage he would have explicitly said it.
People like you damage Christianity by imposing bullshit, overreaching and unsensical and unbiblical rules on people, essentialy driving them away from the faith
The old testament just says who you can and can't have sex with.
Wouldn’t sex before marriage be marriage before adultery?
Show me the scripture where it states the vows and the ceremony
The Bible never says premarital sex is wrong…. Premarital sex is not even mentioned in the Bible once… God actually condones request for men to impregnate women who are not their wives in Genesis 38 … the only response I ever get for that is “ that was a long time ago “ I thought God was the same yesterday today and forever??? 🤔 plenty of characters in scripture have concubines and are never chastised … or more than one wife … like David Solomon or Abraham …bigamy or poligamy were never outlawed until 1000 years AD by Judaism … still legal in Islam … the only scriptural verse suggested is in Timothy where Pastors are to be “husbands of one wife” … but this rule is for pastors … btw I don’t advocate premarital sexual relations nor multiple marriages wives… or concubines …. But the Bible just is silence on this …. Pornea or fornication ….term it’s not exclusive….
This doesn’t make sense, because your point of this video was that sex inside of marriage is the cure for sexual immorality but you can be sexually immoral in marriage by lusting after your wife or husband
Marrige = Sex in the Bible. Marrige where church priest “marry” you is NOT biblical. Majority of churches are from satan. I am in monk mode and I see Jesus in spirit every day. Follow Jesus, not wordly tradition.
‘God designed it that way’ is extremely illusive. We don’t know there is a god. Theism is absurd.
Knowing the consequences of falling into sin helps to acquire knowledge to reflect on the anguish and suffering that committing sin brings. =>> Hosea 4:6
6 My people are destroyed for lack of knowledge.
Because you have rejected knowledge,
I also will reject you from being priest for Me;
Because you have forgotten the law of your God,
I also will forget your children
Well, since we’re all created in Gods image why do we have the need for fortification then? Without or without marriage, is the forbidden fruit simply the ability the sin but the wisdom to know the difference ? If that’s the case, this world is full of sin no matter what the cost. I.e. sexual, lust, gluttony, etc. so the real question is then, how does someone turn away from this sin a Goldy manner? If so, how does one wash away the sins of her or his past when that person maybe had a child that is soo damn beautiful even in the making of sin they protruded life? See, not everything is perfect even Gods creation. So, we must be forgiven automatically even when we realize this. Because we are only human in the end
The problem is there's just too many people who think about SELF.
Im sorry im going to say it. i believe in god and this makes no sense . I call bullshit. The bible has said a lot of things that have been proven to be untrue. And are all the animals in the animal kingdom wed. No they are not and what about life on other planets are they wed. do they even have males or females. I am sorry but the bible makes rules based on the understanding of the time with no proper understanding of the future nor correct preditions of what has been or will be. I have come to understand that god is real and i can see him everyday. And he is far greater then you can understand and such notions are well beneath him. And he would not waste his time on such things. You said jesus walked on water like it was amazing. I say the truth is far more spectacular. A universe with black holes know as quasars that can crush a galaxy into a small ball the size of a coin and then break it up into dust an scatter it across the universe like salt across a table. Its not about comparing one version of god against another , no its about calling out the lies of the past so that we can truly gain a undertanding of god in the future , For such notions of sex out of marriage being a sin is the mind set of a small child a con man needing a congrigation or a caveman showing a scientist the way forward. Oh god is real but im sorry but he will not be found in that bible.
My hormones real high rn and I needed this cuz it's so hard to not think of it right now when I'm this younge and in college.
I admitted that i have committed sins in sex before marriage and outside marriage that i can't control before, but i prayed sincerely to my Father God to forgive me and control my lust but, when I'm praying it control my lust, hunger and obsession of sex as if it doesn't lessen but it worsen so i just control and discipline myself not to be jealous of what the others is doing which is wrong and a great sins by doing it also. That's why i always repent and ask forgiveness through prayers. And I prayed too that I'll only have sex with a right girl in a right time to make myself pure and clean and in the eyes of God. As a king of the World like king David i just wait for the right time That's why i don't lose patience to wait to those who really love snd serve me from now and for eternity. Marriage and sex is sacred and it is a gift for us human from God but in a right ways, right person, right place. Those who practice and doing it in a wrong ways will surely be tormented and punish in the lake of fire in hell. But as a chosen snd destined as King of the World there is a consideration like a chosen king of Israel 🇮🇱 but in a right persons, right place and right time with respect and sincerity. And even as a chosen king there's still Commandments of God not to do it, like king David he committed sin by killing Uriah his soldier just to marry his wife Batsheba because he like and in loved with her so much even he has many wives and that is his sin to God by ordering the killing of Uriah. The sin of King Solomon his son also is he broke the command of God to him not to marry foreigners that doesn't know God of Israel 🇮🇱, that is his sin also despite that he has many with 700 wives and 300 concubines but still he married foreigners that don't know God of Israel and that is his sin too that make God angry with him and say, "The kingdom is cut off in you there's no king that will replace you in your descendants. That's the time Jerusalem was attacked and they destroyed Jerusalem Wall.
That's why over 60% of Christians have premarital sex anyway, pretty close to the unbelieving population.