Mama Helen was preaching in London over the weekend at a local church. She looked in a good space to be honest. Nigeria is not the Bastion of Spirituality with all its prayer platforms and Mega Ministries and Prophets it is made out to be be. No one is perfect and this includes the GO and their proponents.
Well said. The only thing Nigerians like to remember is that the bible said a wise woman builds her house but they conveniently forget the role of a man in the making the marriage work too.
Well said my dear. God does not hate divorce. He hates the treacherous dealings that led to divorce. People don't read the full chapter of the section of the Bible that talked about divorce. Divorce doesn't just happen, something terribly bad led to it. Our society is full of ignorant and narrow minded people. May God deliver them🙏.
Thank you Summer for this topic! It is so sad that couples for the sake of keeping up appearances, would remain in a marriage and continue to die for decades instead of parting ways with each other. May the good Lord help us see that marriage is not and will never be compulsory for all!
Thank you so much ..am a pastor in India, my wife committed adultery, because I kept it away and secretly left. The church turn against me for this. Pls I will love if you can take of my story
Did not want to expose her, so I decide to separate ,and working on our divorce, but she turn and said am the one who left without telling why..this affect my ministry..if I had stay and murder they will say Nigeria pastor kill, I will like you to make video on me and my work in India. Am a citizen here.. have my own school and social work, and ministry..sometimes I have Noone to carry my voice ..but been following your post since 3 years now..and thanks for all you doing. Pastor David
I am with you on this. A lot of people are deleting each other diabolically. Trust me on this sister. People will go to spiritual places and delete rather than come out openly
Summer, my pastor and his wife don't live in the same house. They come together every Sunday for show and they both have different slaves. Sorry "protocol". He got multiple people pregnant and choir girls fight over him. I quit the church last year!
Questions: 1. Who is the originator of marriage? God. 2. Who has given valid scriptural reason for divorce? God 3. Even when there is valid reason what did apostle Paul says in 1 Corinthians 7:10 partly "To the married people I give instructions, not I but the Lord…" My point is, from the bible view point not man, NO HUMAN SHOULD RECOMMEND A DIVORCE… because "…I hate divorce,”(Malachi 2:16)
If the late osinachi had filed for divorce with the cumulative amount of red flags in the marriage, chances are , she could be alive today as opposed to ending it all through avoidance of stigmatization.
Summer: The truth is very upopular. When it is spoken,those who love to wallow in untruth, in darkness and dark deeds will attempt to muzzle truth-speakers with characterization such as, "you are attacking." Speak it boldly though they will forebear.
African pastors are very proud. It is difficult to live with them. A man who tell one to come and tell the other go, you cannot tell them anything. Their suggestion is final. It can sometimes be like a military regime, obey before complaints. No woman want to be treated like a slave, it just a matter of time.
No one is saying that divorce is a good thing. But, if a relationship is not working try to make it work. If it didn't work, take a walk to avoid regrettable circumstances that may occur. There is no moral justification for staying in a toxic relationship.
Hi Summer…!
Romance is a lie
Ndi God said .
Hello Sis
In Nigeria people love living in denial of truth, something has happened yet,they're giving excuses
Mama Helen was preaching in London over the weekend at a local church. She looked in a good space to be honest. Nigeria is not the Bastion of Spirituality with all its prayer platforms and Mega Ministries and Prophets it is made out to be be. No one is perfect and this includes the GO and their proponents.
Thank you Sis Summer for saying it as it is. It takes two to tango even in marriage. May God bless you real good (Amen)
He said the sister has private jet.
Summer, the so-called brother, made no sense. He was very condescending. So full of himself. Rubbish!
Well said. The only thing Nigerians like to remember is that the bible said a wise woman builds her house but they conveniently forget the role of a man in the making the marriage work too.
Well said my dear. God does not hate divorce. He hates the treacherous dealings that led to divorce. People don't read the full chapter of the section of the Bible that talked about divorce. Divorce doesn't just happen, something terribly bad led to it. Our society is full of ignorant and narrow minded people. May God deliver them🙏.
👍👍👍🙏Summer for pointing that out… THE STIGMATIZATION! When you listen to some Nigerians, it like divorce is a crime or being single is a crime…
Very true, many marriages over buh still live together just to keep appearances
Summer as usual you are correct
Thank you Summer for this topic! It is so sad that couples for the sake of keeping up appearances, would remain in a marriage and continue to die for decades instead of parting ways with each other. May the good Lord help us see that marriage is not and will never be compulsory for all!
Well said Summer. Better to divorce and go their separate ways peacefully than to delete each other.
So true one person can not make marriage work, like they used to confuse us that it is the work of a woman. All na lies!
Thank you so much ..am a pastor in India, my wife committed adultery, because I kept it away and secretly left. The church turn against me for this. Pls I will love if you can take of my story
Did not want to expose her, so I decide to separate ,and working on our divorce, but she turn and said am the one who left without telling why..this affect my ministry..if I had stay and murder they will say Nigeria pastor kill, I will like you to make video on me and my work in India. Am a citizen here.. have my own school and social work, and ministry..sometimes I have Noone to carry my voice ..but been following your post since 3 years now..and thanks for all you doing. Pastor David
📌a highly articulate discussion centered around high profile marriages💪💪
I am with you on this.
A lot of people are deleting each other diabolically. Trust me on this sister. People will go to spiritual places and delete rather than come out openly
Summer, my pastor and his wife don't live in the same house. They come together every Sunday for show and they both have different slaves. Sorry "protocol". He got multiple people pregnant and choir girls fight over him. I quit the church last year!
Questions:
1. Who is the originator of marriage? God.
2. Who has given valid scriptural reason for divorce? God
3. Even when there is valid reason what did apostle Paul says in 1 Corinthians 7:10 partly "To the married people I give instructions, not I but the Lord…"
My point is, from the bible view point not man, NO HUMAN SHOULD RECOMMEND A DIVORCE… because "…I hate divorce,”(Malachi 2:16)
If the late osinachi had filed for divorce with the cumulative amount of red flags in the marriage, chances are , she could be alive today as opposed to ending it all through avoidance of stigmatization.
You are so on point dear
Complement of the season Summer love you
Summer: The truth is very upopular. When it is spoken,those who love to wallow in untruth, in darkness and dark deeds will attempt to muzzle truth-speakers with characterization such as, "you are attacking." Speak it boldly though they will forebear.
Divorce can happen to anyone guys focus on your own it takes God’s Grace to keep it together. 2:36
I agree with you 💯
African pastors are very proud. It is difficult to live with them. A man who tell one to come and tell the other go, you cannot tell them anything. Their suggestion is final. It can sometimes be like a military regime, obey before complaints. No woman want to be treated like a slave, it just a matter of time.
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Grant.
No one is saying that divorce is a good thing. But, if a relationship is not working try to make it work. If it didn't work, take a walk to avoid regrettable circumstances that may occur. There is no moral justification for staying in a toxic relationship.
Summer, you are on point on this.
A lot of couple are suffering and smiling in their marriages. Prefer to be in that position so the world will not count them as divorcee.
God hates a lot of things that we but they choose to hold unto divorce. Really sad.