In a talk about understanding and practicing the art of healthy relationships, Katie Hood reveals the five signs you might be in an …

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  1. An unhealthy relationship with narcissists can not be changed for the better with changing the communication or with being more self-aware and caring for each other. Unfortunately, relationships with narcissists cannot be shifted to something better. When someone has the option to leave, they should. But I know not everyone can and want to leave such a relationship.

  2. I've had some markers show up. Yesterday, she said she had a meeting to go over "her" budget. Before that, she rented a car to go to a conference, when I offered for her to use my car.

  3. Thanks to Dr okans for uniting my family back.
    I can't express how I feel now. He told me to have faith and believe and I did . Now my family is back👩‍❤️‍💋‍👨🙇
    and I'm happy with my family.👩‍❤️‍💋‍👨

  4. Thanks to Dr okans for uniting my family back.
    I can't express how I feel now. He told me to have faith and believe and I did . Now my family is back👩‍❤️‍💋‍👨🙇
    and I'm happy with my family.👩‍❤️‍💋‍👨

  5. I searched about healthy relationship here as I feel I needed and this is what I watch. So worthwhile watching for me. Because I just started a relationship with my boyfriend who is kinda calm. Yes. He loves me but he talks little to me. But I want him to talk with me all the time something like that. (So I even think he doesn't love me when he talks less) but after well considering, actually it was me who is so demanding. Thanks for this reminder video..and very helpful comments below.

  6. it's important to look for these signs not just in the other person but also in yourself.

    However, my name (website) gave me information about my partner by helping me access to her phone remotely that was everything I needed to get,.. thank you very much

  7. I'm in an abusive relationship. Very emotional and mental and verbally abusive and even a few times been physically abusive and is very hard not to think that trust that it won't get physically again

  8. I was at a halloween party with my partner, i took a picture with our mutual accquantaince because his outfit was super cool , his arm slightly grazed me and my partner got so mad and angry started yelling ( it was my birthday) . He says im wrong , i keep thinking if im crazy

  9. I noticed what I did to my ex was unhealthy love… Thank you for this Ted talk ☺️now I get to understand my flaws and what area should I improve on. Almost all the unhealthy signs, I did them 😔I realised my mistakes and now it's time for me to work on this and practice the 4 things mentioned at the end of this video. I would like to look back to this video from time to time to remind myself, not to become this person again. I also accept that sometimes I lose control again, but I'm getting better. Each time I will be more mindful. I am not perfect, but at least I'm trying. ☺️I need to grow so I won't hurt anyone.The ability to love better…this is what I wanna improve on🎉

  10. I used to think she and I have gone through same kind of suffering 😔 that's why I felt so connected to her , but I was wrong. Jealousy is okay but if you are purposefuly making them jealous that's wrong 😞. Verbally abusing , body shaming , telling about ex's and crushes when I am not even intrested. You knew so much about romance yet you didn't knew anything about a guy's mentality 😞. You kissed me even when you didn't excepted me completely. You weren't so bad but you weren't so good either 😔. I have lost hopes in finding a love that can give me mental peace ☮️. Do not judge by my profile picture , I was temporarily happy back then.

  11. ❤This talk is really helpful for me
    Everyone can be toxic at some moments in their lives, also ourselves
    Being able to read 5 markers of unhealthy love may lead to better at self improvement
    1. Intensity
    2. Isolation
    3. extreme jealousy
    4. belittling
    5. Volatility

  12. Cinta yang tak sehat punya 5 ciri:

    1. Intensitas

    “Miss you already!” dikirimkan pacarmu, setelah 10 menit kamu pulang rumah. Ini bukan tanda cinta yang sehat, tuntutan untuk selalu berjumpa setiap waktu secara intens adalah cinta yang tak sehat, yang tak memberi ruang bagi masing-masing diri untuk terkoneksi dengan diri sendiri. Intimasi bukan berarti harus selalu bersama 24/7.

    2. Isolasi

    Ketika pasangan menarik Anda dari lingkungan sosial, keluarga, dan support sistem Anda, selamat, Anda sedang diisolasi. Cinta yang sehat adalah cinta yang membiarkan pasangannya berada dalam lingkungan sendiri seraya melibatkan diri dalam aktivitas masing-masing.

    3. Kecemburuan ekstrem

    Dalam periode bulan madu, kamu ingin selalu berdekatan dengan pasangan. Tapi seiring waktu berjalan, kecemburuan menjadi lebih membabibuta. Ini tanda cinta yang tak sehat. Cinta mulai mempertanyakan dengan siapa Anda pergi, kemana Anda, serta segala yang membuat Anda bekerja seperti orang wajib lapor 24 jam sehari.

    4. Meremehkan

    Cinta yagn sehat adalah yang bisa membantu kau lebih percaya diri, bukan melecehkan dan meremehkan Anda.

    5. Volatilitas

    Hubungan putus-nyambung, emosi naik-turun seperti “roller coaster” bukan sesuatu yang sehat. Saling lumat dalam bahaya adalah kredo Romantisisme yang keliru, cinta yang baik adalah yang belajar untuk memasang mindset hubungan panjang tanpa keinginan mengakhiri hubungan.

    Ada beberapa cara yang bisa kita latih dalam keseharian demi membangun cinta yang sehat: komunikasi terbuka, saling menghargai, kebaikan, dan kesabaran.

  13. this was fantastic…. i lived this life for many years, I feel fortunate to have broken away safely … never looked back but it took me awhile to get there. Its hard to see it when you are "in it".

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