Christian kids are indoctrinated. Please let your kids come to their own 21st century opinion. 4000 religions and each one thinks the other 3999 are fake. Well I think all 4000 are fake and the proof is in the history of religion. Thank you internet for showing us that all groups of people pre internet mostly belived in whatever thier parents indoctrinated them with. Now we know religion is just a false hope of life after death wich has been taken from previous religions since the beginning of humanity. Religion has held humanity down for 1000s of years and murdered millions of people in the name of their God. A God who kills the earth's population with a flood, but then tells me that killing is bad, is a hypocrite. That story is in many different religions before the Bibles version.. Gods only exsist in humans minds. So yes, Christian kids should date because there is no sky daddy and life is too short to listen to anything a cult has to say. All religions are a cult. Get out while you can!!
The truth in this video!!! I’m a senior in high school and haven’t had a boyfriend yet; and I wouldn’t have done it any other way! I am so much more mature than all the boys at my school and know for sure that they are not mature enough to date me haha. The pros just don’t outweigh the cons…at all. THANK YOU for this video!!!
I actually agree but to me uni is the time. No high schooler needs to be thinking bout marriage and from my exposure(talking as a kid in dubai) nobody can think bout marriage.
In terms of dating in high school, I think majority of the time, most guys in high school don't have the maturity to handle dating in high school, as it was mentioned in this video. However with that said, I have seen high school relationships that have carried on past high school. That's great, but majority of the time that doesn't happen because guys can't handle the burden and they don't take dating as preparation for marriage. I didn't date anyone in high school, though I might have came close, and honestly it was probably good for me that I didn't. I wasn't totally prepared at the time.
I never thought about it like this but I wonder if part of the current trend of women complaining about "toxic masculinity" starts when they date too young and the poor boys just aren't mature enough to handle feminine emotions so they come off as "toxic" aka not sensitive to the woman's needs.
That’s such a nihilistic way of viewing relationships for high schoolers. Though they lack emotional and psychological intelligence , It’s really not that deep. There are lessons that these kids can learn. Now this just makes Catholics sound like puritans.
Should Christians date at all? No dating in the Bible. Engagement is there after all, as a period where you can still change your mind, but showing to the world you are serious.
1. Find a Christian girl 2. Make sure the relationship is lining up with the bible standards 3. If your going to date the goal should be to marry that person 4. She better make a good mother
I'm 14 and from England. Recently I've been feeling like a terrible christian. I've fallen into a cycle of porn, lying, swearing, stealing. My parents are devout christians and so are some of my friends. Last week I went to a youth event with around 100 young christians. I can't help but find myself comparing myself to all the others. All of them were praying, getting prophetic word/ pictures/ raising their arms etc. But no matter how hard i tried nothing seemed to happen. I can't help but feel evetines is better/ more loved than me. I've had prayers for heeling before but i can be rt seem to hear god. What am I doing wrong? I'm in a very bad place at the moment and have tried to commit suicide before. I self harm and hate my life – this one tiny bit of faith i have is all i seem to be keeping me going. Help please.
Okay, Bob Jones university in Greenville, SC. Only allows to students to date on campus only and in a public place on campus that is chaperone while it is open. BJU is a Fundelmentist Bible only School.
Being afraid of commitment or wanting to keep your options open is something I've heard from many guys, but I've never been able to relate to it myself. I was never afraid of commitment or interested in keeping my options open. I was always very certain if I liked a girl, even back in high school, and I rarely "liked" anyone that way. In fact I can count the women I've liked over the course of the past 36 years of my life on a single hand. Unfortunately I'm painfully shy, though, with pretty low self confidence. My brother was the exact opposite, he was extremely extroverted and loved being the center of attention. And I've often felt like the more extroverted he became, the more shy and introverted I seemed to become, as if I was unintentionally balancing it out. Through some kind of miracle I ended up having long, meaningful relationships with three of those beautiful, wonderful, powerful women in spite of my shyness and lack of confidence. (Not at the same time, of course. :P). But again whenever I've entered into a relationship with someone, it has always been a serious, committed relationship, with the intention to get married, I've never dated casually, I've never quit a relationship because I grew tired of it or felt overwhelmed by the commitment. If anything I felt the commitment was something I wanted to cherish. In fact I vividly remember the extreme gratitude I felt for it every time it happened. The relationship with my first great love ended after she became the victim of rape at the hands of a stranger. The trauma she suffered ended up destroying our relationship, and the fact that it did feels like a terrible failure on my part. We never argued over it or anything, and I certainly tried to support her, but I clearly fell short or she would not have left. She was hurting and I was unable to comfort her sufficiently, or make her feel safe again after what had been done to her. That's on me, and I feel terrible about it. My second great love came years later. Again a beautiful, strong and intelligent woman. Unfortunately she came from a Muslim family, and while she herself was not a practicing Muslim her family made it clear there would be serious consequences if we married without me converting to Islam first. It was definitely a threatening situation, and it still breaks my heart thinking about it. A lot of tears were shed over it by both of us, as well as my mother who absolutely adored her and viewed her as her own daughter. I really hope she is well, and God is watching over her.
I think you should date in highschool if you plan to get married as young as possible. I know a guy who got engaged to a 17 yr old and he's 20 they are both mature for thier age, and I have no doubts it will work out long term.
Currently engaged to my high school girlfriend!
I wish I hadn't dated in high school. It was emotionally damaging
Christian kids are indoctrinated. Please let your kids come to their own 21st century opinion. 4000 religions and each one thinks the other 3999 are fake. Well I think all 4000 are fake and the proof is in the history of religion. Thank you internet for showing us that all groups of people pre internet mostly belived in whatever thier parents indoctrinated them with. Now we know religion is just a false hope of life after death wich has been taken from previous religions since the beginning of humanity. Religion has held humanity down for 1000s of years and murdered millions of people in the name of their God. A God who kills the earth's population with a flood, but then tells me that killing is bad, is a hypocrite. That story is in many different religions before the Bibles version.. Gods only exsist in humans minds. So yes, Christian kids should date because there is no sky daddy and life is too short to listen to anything a cult has to say. All religions are a cult. Get out while you can!!
The truth in this video!!! I’m a senior in high school and haven’t had a boyfriend yet; and I wouldn’t have done it any other way! I am so much more mature than all the boys at my school and know for sure that they are not mature enough to date me haha. The pros just don’t outweigh the cons…at all. THANK YOU for this video!!!
I actually agree but to me uni is the time. No high schooler needs to be thinking bout marriage and from my exposure(talking as a kid in dubai) nobody can think bout marriage.
This is an issue for individual parents. Just butt out.
In terms of dating in high school, I think majority of the time, most guys in high school don't have the maturity to handle dating in high school, as it was mentioned in this video. However with that said, I have seen high school relationships that have carried on past high school. That's great, but majority of the time that doesn't happen because guys can't handle the burden and they don't take dating as preparation for marriage. I didn't date anyone in high school, though I might have came close, and honestly it was probably good for me that I didn't. I wasn't totally prepared at the time.
Cool story with his grandfather flying over Burma in WW2. The 'greatest generation' largely had their priorities in order.
I never thought about it like this but I wonder if part of the current trend of women complaining about "toxic masculinity" starts when they date too young and the poor boys just aren't mature enough to handle feminine emotions so they come off as "toxic" aka not sensitive to the woman's needs.
That’s such a nihilistic way of viewing relationships for high schoolers. Though they lack emotional and psychological intelligence , It’s really not that deep. There are lessons that these kids can learn. Now this just makes Catholics sound like puritans.
I love how these guys are all about parental choice … but don’t mention this once in all of their “advice”.
Should Christians date at all? No dating in the Bible. Engagement is there after all, as a period where you can still change your mind, but showing to the world you are serious.
As soon as you tell them they can't date… then that is exactly what they will do whether you like it or not. It's basic human psychology.
My golden 4 rules
1. Find a Christian girl
2. Make sure the relationship is lining up with the bible standards
3. If your going to date the goal should be to marry that person
4. She better make a good mother
Great conversation!
Arranged marriage solves all the problem✨
Title of Vid Starts @6:08… You're welcome:)
yes
Who is this guy Matt is talking to? He’s great…….ah Jason Evert. I’ve found a new friend.
Hi, I need some help from anyone.
I'm 14 and from England. Recently I've been feeling like a terrible christian. I've fallen into a cycle of porn, lying, swearing, stealing. My parents are devout christians and so are some of my friends. Last week I went to a youth event with around 100 young christians. I can't help but find myself comparing myself to all the others. All of them were praying, getting prophetic word/ pictures/ raising their arms etc. But no matter how hard i tried nothing seemed to happen. I can't help but feel evetines is better/ more loved than me. I've had prayers for heeling before but i can be rt seem to hear god. What am I doing wrong? I'm in a very bad place at the moment and have tried to commit suicide before. I self harm and hate my life – this one tiny bit of faith i have is all i seem to be keeping me going. Help please.
Okay, Bob Jones university in Greenville, SC. Only allows to students to date on campus only and in a public place on campus that is chaperone while it is open. BJU is a Fundelmentist Bible only School.
Romans 10:13
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.
Wow there was a lot of wisdom packed into this short video… (and I'm married!). Thank you both.
Thank you brothers this helps
Being afraid of commitment or wanting to keep your options open is something I've heard from many guys, but I've never been able to relate to it myself. I was never afraid of commitment or interested in keeping my options open. I was always very certain if I liked a girl, even back in high school, and I rarely "liked" anyone that way. In fact I can count the women I've liked over the course of the past 36 years of my life on a single hand.
Unfortunately I'm painfully shy, though, with pretty low self confidence. My brother was the exact opposite, he was extremely extroverted and loved being the center of attention. And I've often felt like the more extroverted he became, the more shy and introverted I seemed to become, as if I was unintentionally balancing it out.
Through some kind of miracle I ended up having long, meaningful relationships with three of those beautiful, wonderful, powerful women in spite of my shyness and lack of confidence. (Not at the same time, of course. :P). But again whenever I've entered into a relationship with someone, it has always been a serious, committed relationship, with the intention to get married, I've never dated casually, I've never quit a relationship because I grew tired of it or felt overwhelmed by the commitment. If anything I felt the commitment was something I wanted to cherish. In fact I vividly remember the extreme gratitude I felt for it every time it happened.
The relationship with my first great love ended after she became the victim of rape at the hands of a stranger. The trauma she suffered ended up destroying our relationship, and the fact that it did feels like a terrible failure on my part. We never argued over it or anything, and I certainly tried to support her, but I clearly fell short or she would not have left. She was hurting and I was unable to comfort her sufficiently, or make her feel safe again after what had been done to her. That's on me, and I feel terrible about it.
My second great love came years later. Again a beautiful, strong and intelligent woman. Unfortunately she came from a Muslim family, and while she herself was not a practicing Muslim her family made it clear there would be serious consequences if we married without me converting to Islam first. It was definitely a threatening situation, and it still breaks my heart thinking about it. A lot of tears were shed over it by both of us, as well as my mother who absolutely adored her and viewed her as her own daughter.
I really hope she is well, and God is watching over her.
I think you should date in highschool if you plan to get married as young as possible. I know a guy who got engaged to a 17 yr old and he's 20 they are both mature for thier age, and I have no doubts it will work out long term.
Thanks for sharing this! I agree wholeheartedly with what you both said here. God bless you both! Peace be with you!