SHOCKING! What do Pastor Chris Oyakhilome and Dr. Mensa Otabil have to say about men who marry two wives?
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The teaching that you should divorce the rest wives and stick to the first wife is Premised on two fulcrum.
1. IF YOU WISH THAT GOD SHOULD SANCTIFY AND USE YOU TO OPERATE IN THE DEACONRY AND THE FIVEFOLD MINISTRY AND NOT BRING REPROACH TO THE KINGDOM. Meaning you must comply with the demand of husband of one wife.
2. YOU WANT TO FULFIL THE CHRIST REQUIREMENTS FOR A NON ADULTEROUS PURITY IN MARRIAGE. This is because sleeping with more than one woman is Adultery. So you stick to sleeping with only the wife of your youth, your first wife recognised by the bible. See Malachi 2:14 Yet you say, “For what reason?” Because the Lord has been witness Between you and the wife of your youth, With whom you have dealt treacherously; Yet she is your companion And your wife by covenant.. Also see St. Matthew 19:9 And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery.
But this teaching is contested because of a desire to make God bend his rules to satisfy our lustful desires and hardness of heart.
David put away all his wives at the end of his life and so maintained the purity that perfected his kingly and Priestly office. Also After Return from Babylon the children of Israel did put away wives to maintain Spiritual purity. So putting away wives peaceably for Spiritual Purity purpose is practiced by Kings, priests and the people of God in the bible
So the prescription is not for everybody. If you are satisfied with being a Christian and making heaven only, keep your two wives. You will have two thorns Pricking you for the rest of your days as Apostle Paul said for married individualsin 1 Corinthians 7..
But should you desire Spiritual Purity, the Deaconry and the fivefold leadership Ministry, you must do something about your polygamous label. Restitution peaceably with the other wives before witnesses (as you married them before witnesses.) Is the only way to go.
Amen & Amen: The wisdom of God is foolishness to men, you cannot eat your cake and still have it, the Bible Word of God in Luke 16:18 clearly reveals that divorce is a sin and wages of sin is death – One ground for divorce in any court of law is adultery, polygamy in all ramifications is unrepentant adultery or being caught red handed in adultery – Polygamy is a sin for Christians worldwide, how will a husband feel if his wife has many husbands ✝️🙏🕯
The first pastor didn't answer the question, why? Why refer them to their pastor? If it happened before being born again, he has to abide by one and send the other away (but must make necessary provisions for her before she leaves), they all cannot stay together. Period.
Recall what jesus Christ told the rich man that wanted to follow Christ, it was almost impossible to sell all he had, give to the poor and follow Christ. In the same way, telling the 2nd and other wives to go is a very difficult rule to abide by. But it still remains the 'hard saying, who can hear it?' That is the hard way/truth to go by.
Any man who is in Christ is a new creature old things(sinful behaviour, traditional practices, old life style) have passed away, behold all things( under the supervision of God' words and principles) become new
The scripture also speak against many pastors who divorce and remarry..she two is a second wife.. he commits adultery even if the wife cheats herself on him and he has all the reason to divorce.. if he remarries he also commits adultery as it is written in Mark 10 after the disciples asked him in a secluded place concerning this matter… why doesnt the preachers sound the alarm on many divorced pastors who have remarried and never forgave their wife of their youth but is preaching FORGIVENESS TO THE WORLD… THE GOSPEL IS A GOSPEL OF FORGIVENESS… why are men in the pulpit with their second and third wife… These men are liars and not of the faith…CHRIST TOLD US this is a harrrd saying and only to them who can recieve it … Pastor CHRIS divorced and remarry amd must sitdown… he doing it wrong.. No different than the fake prophet having two at the same time… no difference..hes on his second.. after paul said seek not to be separated ..after christ said if any divorce his wife he cause her to commit adultery and commit aduktery against her in MARK 10.. so only APOSTLE AROME OSAYI AND APOSTLE GINO JENNINGS HAVE THE TESTIMONY OF PURITY…
Y does everyone SKIP THE VERSES AFTER JESUS SAID IF A MAN LEAVES HIS WIFE BECAUSE SHE CHEATS… ([[[He himself must become a eunuch for the kingdom of heaven as it is written]]]])))
First thing first God only recognizes one marriage one not tow , the question is which one ok none I'll tell you why .
1 ) when you become Born again do we understand the term Born again Born again means you start over you have the chance to start over. Got it right not stay in what you where already in that may not have been the perfect will of God and to continue there . that's not Being born again. this is why you will always hear Christ say go and more . No more the word that proceeds this is Repent it means to stop what you are doing and go and do it God's way . When you are a Child of God mans culture your Culture what it is saying then and what it is saying now does not superceded that Culture of the Kingdom. And what does the Culture of the Kingdom Tech well lest take it from the king himself it was not so from the beginning Christ said so get back to what it was . mat 19 :8 . And note Christ was addressing and endorsing a one spouse marriage.
2 ) kingdom marriage is endorsed by God this is not what we do culturally It is what God has join together not what culture if we go this way than that is to say that even the ungodly nations of the old and even now all there marriages are blessed by God not so. as a kingdom child you can sanctify your marriage to an unsaved spouse and that is if you choose to that has nothing to do with God and notice Spouse ( not spouse's. ) So in a case as explained in this video the thing to do is to Repent start over go back and do it God's way . It's not what man thinks it is what God Says.
But this wasn’t God’s choice, God says that the two ( one man one woman) shall be one flesh,, but because of sin, greed, lust, why all of this happened, not because of God allowed it, He never sanction it ,
The teaching that you should divorce the rest wives and stick to the first wife is Premised on two fulcrum.
1. IF YOU WISH THAT GOD SHOULD SANCTIFY AND USE YOU TO OPERATE IN THE DEACONRY AND THE FIVEFOLD MINISTRY AND NOT BRING REPROACH TO THE KINGDOM. Meaning you must comply with the demand of husband of one wife.
2. YOU WANT TO FULFIL THE CHRIST REQUIREMENTS FOR A NON ADULTEROUS PURITY IN MARRIAGE. This is because sleeping with more than one woman is Adultery. So you stick to sleeping with only the wife of your youth, your first wife recognised by the bible. See Malachi 2:14 Yet you say, “For what reason?”
Because the Lord has been witness
Between you and the wife of your youth,
With whom you have dealt treacherously;
Yet she is your companion
And your wife by covenant..
Also see St. Matthew 19:9 And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery.
But this teaching is contested because of a desire to make God bend his rules to satisfy our lustful desires and hardness of heart.
David put away all his wives at the end of his life and so maintained the purity that perfected his kingly and Priestly office.
Also After Return from Babylon the children of Israel did put away wives to maintain Spiritual purity.
So putting away wives peaceably for Spiritual Purity purpose is practiced by Kings, priests and the people of God in the bible
So the prescription is not for everybody. If you are satisfied with being a Christian and making heaven only, keep your two wives. You will have two thorns Pricking you for the rest of your days as Apostle Paul said for married individualsin 1 Corinthians 7..
But should you desire Spiritual Purity, the Deaconry and the fivefold leadership Ministry, you must do something about your polygamous label. Restitution peaceably with the other wives before witnesses (as you married them before witnesses.) Is the only way to go.
Peace to our hearts Amen.
Amen & Amen: The wisdom of God is foolishness to men, you cannot eat your cake and still have it, the Bible Word of God in Luke 16:18 clearly reveals that divorce is a sin and wages of sin is death – One ground for divorce in any court of law is adultery, polygamy in all ramifications is unrepentant adultery or being caught red handed in adultery – Polygamy is a sin for Christians worldwide, how will a husband feel if his wife has many husbands ✝️🙏🕯
“A bishop then must be blameless, the husband of one wife, vigilant, sober, of good behaviour, given to hospitality, apt to teach.”
There is nothing to discuss here let the three fools know no one is buying their nonsense
God have mercy
Really
The last days!!!
The first pastor didn't answer the question, why? Why refer them to their pastor? If it happened before being born again, he has to abide by one and send the other away (but must make necessary provisions for her before she leaves), they all cannot stay together. Period.
Recall what jesus Christ told the rich man that wanted to follow Christ, it was almost impossible to sell all he had, give to the poor and follow Christ. In the same way, telling the 2nd and other wives to go is a very difficult rule to abide by. But it still remains the 'hard saying, who can hear it?' That is the hard way/truth to go by.
Personally I don't see a problem because those who claim to have one, they have extra. Is that not having two wives.
Any man who is in Christ is a new creature old things(sinful behaviour, traditional practices, old life style) have passed away, behold all things( under the supervision of God' words and principles) become new
Confused people
See what the white man brought to us in the name of religion is running us mad and divided
Totally agree, the word ofGod is clear about marriage and leadership.
The scripture also speak against many pastors who divorce and remarry..she two is a second wife.. he commits adultery even if the wife cheats herself on him and he has all the reason to divorce.. if he remarries he also commits adultery as it is written in Mark 10 after the disciples asked him in a secluded place concerning this matter… why doesnt the preachers sound the alarm on many divorced pastors who have remarried and never forgave their wife of their youth but is preaching FORGIVENESS TO THE WORLD…
THE GOSPEL IS A GOSPEL OF FORGIVENESS… why are men in the pulpit with their second and third wife…
These men are liars and not of the faith…CHRIST TOLD US this is a harrrd saying and only to them who can recieve it …
Pastor CHRIS divorced and remarry amd must sitdown… he doing it wrong.. No different than the fake prophet having two at the same time… no difference..hes on his second.. after paul said seek not to be separated ..after christ said if any divorce his wife he cause her to commit adultery and commit aduktery against her in MARK 10.. so only APOSTLE AROME OSAYI AND APOSTLE GINO JENNINGS HAVE THE TESTIMONY OF PURITY…
Y does everyone SKIP THE VERSES AFTER JESUS SAID IF A MAN LEAVES HIS WIFE BECAUSE SHE CHEATS…
([[[He himself must become a eunuch for the kingdom of heaven as it is written]]]])))
What about Elkanah in 1Samuel 1:1?
This guy is lieing on youtube for the world who dont know better.
Some of the wives can leave voluntarily
I agree with pastor chris.. if you are already married you cant send your wives away..
But if you are a born again preacher, you cant marey another wife..
First thing first God only recognizes one marriage one not tow , the question is which one ok none I'll tell you why .
1 ) when you become Born again do we understand the term Born again Born again means you start over you have the chance to start over. Got it right not stay in what you where already in that may not have been the perfect will of God and to continue there . that's not Being born again. this is why you will always hear Christ say go and more . No more the word that proceeds this is Repent it means to stop what you are doing and go and do it God's way . When you are a Child of God mans culture your Culture what it is saying then and what it is saying now does not superceded that Culture of the Kingdom. And what does the Culture of the Kingdom Tech well lest take it from the king himself it was not so from the beginning Christ said so get back to what it was . mat 19 :8 . And note Christ was addressing and endorsing a one spouse marriage.
2 ) kingdom marriage is endorsed by God this is not what we do culturally
It is what God has join together not what culture if we go this way than that is to say that even the ungodly nations of the old and even now all there marriages are blessed by God not so. as a kingdom child you can sanctify your marriage to an unsaved spouse and that is if you choose to that has nothing to do with God and notice Spouse ( not spouse's. ) So in a case as explained in this video the thing to do is to Repent start over go back and do it God's way . It's not what man thinks it is what God Says.
Adam and Eve first and last Marriage Two will be one. Not three after adulteress or adultery
Then where in the bible it told you to married two wives?
But this wasn’t God’s choice, God says that the two ( one man one woman) shall be one flesh,, but because of sin, greed, lust, why all of this happened, not because of God allowed it, He never sanction it ,