No matter how long a marriage can last .. You should remember that marriage doesn’t sweet alone, it’s bitters too.. so don’t expect pastor Adeboye to come and start telling you the bad side of his marriage.. it’s none of any body business… so it’s a matter of endurance and tolerance., understanding…as far both partners are fine with each other and can tolerate each other ..
What an older parent can see sitting down, a child (younger one) cannot see from a mountain top. Our generations today need to slow down and develop more friendships and seek more mentoring from the older folks.
The problem of marriages nowadays is simple: Young ladies now want to assune EQUALITY and role swapping. See, once u start competing with a man, marriages have problem!
A God fearing man is a priceless asset. He will understand to love his wife to the point of dying for her. In return the wife submits willingly to her head. The relationship is balanced and even the husband knows to reconcile with his wife and wife husband before coming together in prayer. It is not the same with the carnal man who will always stress on his headship without anything to show for it. Ladies first know your calling make sure both of you are of the same breed yes you can be different. Carefully and prayerfully consider the marriage proposal ask others to pray with you. The person you marry can mean you achieve your destiny or you do not.
Mariam, I think celebrating is more of telling/showing how good the person the person you're talking about is, showing what the person does differently and that you really appreciate, he said his wife is submissive despite all odds, I see that as a big celebration of her, just as Morayo's husband sang I found joy, he knows what he was singing about, I can see him celebrating Morayo for what he likes in Morayo and not what he does to Morayo.
Don't blame Adeboye… Just like the majority, his views on life is from an outdated frame of reference. Humanity constantly evolves and what we are currently experiencing is humanity defining new rules or ammendment to the old ones to set precedence of how we survive and coexist henceforth.
Well Endurance is part of love, long suffering and sacrifice are not mutually exclusive from both parties, the man and woman if love is to be a topic of discussion. Read ur bible.
This lepa woman is just speaking grammar and trying to justify things. I respect the woman on black dress is not only just mature in look, but more in brain. It's obvious she's not taking her views from the society – which is great
Who defines successful marriage? Is it how much money, children, etc you both have? I don't believe the society can cos it's never stable and can create confusion hence high rate of divorce. Parties involved should define their union and success according to their faith in God or the law.
I think marital hood is between the couple involved and how you manage it. Everyone's style of how you deal with your relstionship and marriage differs. The formula used might not be good for another couple. Marriage is very difficult, even to live with another person is also difficult. You have to work as a team and respect each other. There must be a connection between each other, anythinh short of this, you'll be deceiving your self. The biblical side of it could be applied if there is communication etc etc. You really dnt need third parties at all. It is easier said than done. My point is nobody is a slave at all. You contribute together with transparency. It doesn't matter if d wife is fanancislly bouyant or not. Don't forget it's a relationship. I can assure pastor Adegboye would not have found it essy?, but bcs he is a pastor and well known . You think he is perfect. In ds modern days, things work differently. Our parents endured, but nowadays. It is different. The divorce rate is just to high all over the place. You cannot only use pastor Adegboye's marital hood as a tool. There are several examples honestly. This is my submission my lovely sisters on your message.
Well done Ms Ugboh, the kingdom language is different. If you are not in the kingdom, you will not understand the language or culture of the kingdom. Daddy Adeboye spoke the old school kingdom language to celebrate his wife. I believe everyone has the freedom to speak and write about personal issues like marriage based on his or her world view or opinion not base on other people’s world view or opinions.
The second lady has it wrong pls, He talked about what his wife does for him, the same way when you post someone on their birthday you talk about how sweet they are to you. You are simply stating why and how much love they give you which is an appreciation. I don't know how that twisted to be selfish and irrelevant.
SUBMISSION As I looked at a woman(Lawyer), I discovered she was married to a carpenter. Looking at the woman (Lawyer), I discovered she was too PROUD of her title and not only that, she is even arrogant before her husband. Looking at such marriage, I discovered it will not stand the test of time. As I looked at a Pastor, I discovered he has a wife that never opens her mouth to utter a WORD(derogatory) and as such, the man was so pleased. As I looked at another Pastor, I discovered he married his wife out of BEAUTY(false) and as a result , did not wait to hear from God if the woman is truly his wife(mystery) or not. Now, looking at the fall of man at the GARDEN of EDEN, I discovered the original PLANS(mystery) of God was for the TWO to live forever in the body of the FLESH through his anointing but because of DISOBEDIENCE, they were meant to LIVE for a TIME (mystery) and a TIME (mystery of mystery) in the FLESH before they will now LIVE forever either happily or not in the soul state. Now before the FALL, woman was equal to the man in all things except ONE THING. What is the thing? What is the thing? Yes, a woman is never, never considered EQUAL with her husband before God but as man fell at the garden, it became even more. Yes, a man is tied to the LAW of God and a woman is tied to the LAW of the man provided she is married to the man. But once the man dies, the woman is no longer TIED(mystery) to the LAW of the man but to another LAW! What law is that ? What law is that? A widow is either tied to the law of Christ if she is a born again or the law of the devil if she is a sinner. Now, talking about a woman being submissive, husband and wife are ONE FLESH but two different SPIRITS living under the same roof. If the spirit of the woman succumb to the spirit of the man, the woman will see herself being SUBMISSIVE but if the spirit of the woman does not succumb to the spirit of the man, the woman will see herself being ARROGANT. Now talking about the SUBMISSIVENESS of the man, it will be by the GRACE of God , seeing the man is truly the HEAD of the woman. A woman wants to put on TROUSERS and the husband shouted at her if she is an HARLOT, now if grace is not given to the woman to restrain herself , the devil might put bitter words into her heart to speak to the husband and when she does, the man might be TEMPTED to do the otherwise if heaven does not release GRACE on the man. Now talking about SUBMISSION, men are the might of God on earth. Writing that, a woman quickly looked at me and was angry. Why looking at me(Writer) that way? Why looking at me that way? Yes, you wrote that men are the might of God, why that? Yes, the God (Jehovah) that created heaven and earth is neither a man nor a woman but he is in the FORM of the FIRST CREATURE – ADAM. On writing that, she quickly shouted "JESUS"! Yes, men are the might of God and the devil knows that too. He(devil) can only CAPTURE a man(might of God) through a woman. Once Eve was captured at the garden of Eden, it was easy to CHAIN(Capture) the man (might of God). Now, still talking about SUBMISSIVENESS, it is not easy for a man and a woman under a ROOF not to have QUARREL, yes, they are not corpse but human hence there will be quarrel but the ability to settle it AMICABLY matters. Now it is not for a WOMAN to stand on her DECISION which her husband OBJECTS to, but for her to use for womanistic behavior to make her husband SUBMIT(MYSTERY) to her decision. What is the womanistic behavior? What is the womanistic behavior? Yes, God in his INFINITE WISDOM has given women power upon the bed. Ability to sweet – talk your husband upon the bed on a matter that he disagreed on. Now once she touches her husband in LOVE and womanistically lowers her VOICE(enticing) and remind the husband on the NEED(mystery ) to accept her own DECISION and God gives the husband grace to ACCEPT upon the bed, that settles it but if upon that bed, the MAN(MIGHT OF GOD) SAYS NO!!! HEAVEN WILL STAMP IT AND IF THE WOMAN DOES THE OTHERWISE, SHE WILL NOT JUST INCUR THE WRATH OF THE HUSBAND BUT OF GOD. IT IS FINISHED! IT IS FINISHED!
Books by the writer is available on Amazon( Search – books by Anthony Orji)
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No matter how long a marriage can last .. You should remember that marriage doesn’t sweet alone, it’s bitters too..
so don’t expect pastor Adeboye to come and start telling you the bad side of his marriage.. it’s none of any body business…
so it’s a matter of endurance and tolerance., understanding…as far both partners are fine with each other and can tolerate each other ..
What an older parent can see sitting down, a child (younger one) cannot see from a mountain top.
Our generations today need to slow down and develop more friendships and seek more mentoring from the older folks.
Awesome, may we all have a blissful marriage In Jesus name, they're good example to us all.
Adeboye is a model on marriage
All points were valid! May everyone have a blessed and happy marriage!
The problem of marriages nowadays is simple: Young ladies now want to assune EQUALITY and role swapping.
See, once u start competing with a man, marriages have problem!
"No matter what you can't avoid nature and what nature as intended for you even in relationships and marriages." – #RaphaelOnochie…Facts or correct?
The Bible holds true in every generation…
A God fearing man is a priceless asset. He will understand to love his wife to the point of dying for her. In return the wife submits willingly to her head. The relationship is balanced and even the husband knows to reconcile with his wife and wife husband before coming together in prayer. It is not the same with the carnal man who will always stress on his headship without anything to show for it. Ladies first know your calling make sure both of you are of the same breed yes you can be different. Carefully and prayerfully consider the marriage proposal ask others to pray with you. The person you marry can mean you achieve your destiny or you do not.
Mariam, I think celebrating is more of telling/showing how good the person the person you're talking about is, showing what the person does differently and that you really appreciate, he said his wife is submissive despite all odds, I see that as a big celebration of her, just as Morayo's husband sang I found joy, he knows what he was singing about, I can see him celebrating Morayo for what he likes in Morayo and not what he does to Morayo.
Can we keep talking about how we can construct good roads and have constant electricity until we actually force the government to do it?
Aunty Mariam! Gbagam! Hit the nail on the head! I can appreciate what the other ladies said though.
Don't blame Adeboye… Just like the majority, his views on life is from an outdated frame of reference. Humanity constantly evolves and what we are currently experiencing is humanity defining new rules or ammendment to the old ones to set precedence of how we survive and coexist henceforth.
Watch out religion, evolution is coming for you.
Ooo yes
Well Endurance is part of love, long suffering and sacrifice are not mutually exclusive from both parties, the man and woman if love is to be a topic of discussion. Read ur bible.
It's a marriage of 52 years not 57 years. She's 72 years of age
This lepa woman is just speaking grammar and trying to justify things. I respect the woman on black dress is not only just mature in look, but more in brain. It's obvious she's not taking her views from the society – which is great
Who defines successful marriage? Is it how much money, children, etc you both have?
I don't believe the society can cos it's never stable and can create confusion hence high rate of divorce.
Parties involved should define their union and success according to their faith in God or the law.
God bless you dear sister; in the middle.
I think marital hood is between the couple involved and how you manage it. Everyone's style of how you deal with your relstionship and marriage differs. The formula used might not be good for another couple. Marriage is very difficult, even to live with another person is also difficult. You have to work as a team and respect each other. There must be a connection between each other, anythinh short of this, you'll be deceiving your self. The biblical side of it could be applied if there is communication etc etc. You really dnt need third parties at all. It is easier said than done. My point is nobody is a slave at all. You contribute together with transparency. It doesn't matter if d wife is fanancislly bouyant or not. Don't forget it's a relationship. I can assure pastor Adegboye would not have found it essy?, but bcs he is a pastor and well known . You think he is perfect. In ds modern days, things work differently. Our parents endured, but nowadays. It is different. The divorce rate is just to high all over the place. You cannot only use pastor Adegboye's marital hood as a tool. There are several examples honestly. This is my submission my lovely sisters on your message.
Well done Ms Ugboh, the kingdom language is different. If you are not in the kingdom, you will not understand the language or culture of the kingdom. Daddy Adeboye spoke the old school kingdom language to celebrate his wife. I believe everyone has the freedom to speak and write about personal issues like marriage based on his or her world view or opinion not base on other people’s world view or opinions.
The wig on one of this ladies though. 😣.
The second lady has it wrong pls, He talked about what his wife does for him, the same way when you post someone on their birthday you talk about how sweet they are to you. You are simply stating why and how much love they give you which is an appreciation. I don't know how that twisted to be selfish and irrelevant.
SUBMISSION
As I looked at a woman(Lawyer), I discovered she was married to a carpenter. Looking at the woman (Lawyer), I discovered she was too PROUD of her title and not only that, she is even arrogant before her husband. Looking at such marriage, I discovered it will not stand the test of time. As I looked at a Pastor, I discovered he has a wife that never opens her mouth to utter a WORD(derogatory) and as such, the man was so pleased. As I looked at another Pastor, I discovered he married his wife out of BEAUTY(false) and as a result , did not wait to hear from God if the woman is truly his wife(mystery) or not. Now, looking at the fall of man at the GARDEN of EDEN, I discovered the original PLANS(mystery) of God was for the TWO to live forever in the body of the FLESH through his anointing but because of DISOBEDIENCE, they were meant to LIVE for a TIME (mystery) and a TIME (mystery of mystery) in the FLESH before they will now LIVE forever either happily or not in the soul state. Now before the FALL, woman was equal to the man in all things except ONE THING. What is the thing? What is the thing? Yes, a woman is never, never considered EQUAL with her husband before God but as man fell at the garden, it became even more. Yes, a man is tied to the LAW of God and a woman is tied to the LAW of the man provided she is married to the man. But once the man dies, the woman is no longer TIED(mystery) to the LAW of the man but to another LAW! What law is that ? What law is that? A widow is either tied to the law of Christ if she is a born again or the law of the devil if she is a sinner. Now, talking about a woman being submissive, husband and wife are ONE FLESH but two different SPIRITS living under the same roof. If the spirit of the woman succumb to the spirit of the man, the woman will see herself being SUBMISSIVE but if the spirit of the woman does not succumb to the spirit of the man, the woman will see herself being ARROGANT. Now talking about the SUBMISSIVENESS of the man, it will be by the GRACE of God , seeing the man is truly the HEAD of the woman. A woman wants to put on TROUSERS and the husband shouted at her if she is an HARLOT, now if grace is not given to the woman to restrain herself , the devil might put bitter words into her heart to speak to the husband and when she does, the man might be TEMPTED to do the otherwise if heaven does not release GRACE on the man. Now talking about SUBMISSION, men are the might of God on earth. Writing that, a woman quickly looked at me and was angry. Why looking at me(Writer) that way? Why looking at me that way? Yes, you wrote that men are the might of God, why that? Yes, the God (Jehovah) that created heaven and earth is neither a man nor a woman but he is in the FORM of the FIRST CREATURE – ADAM. On writing that, she quickly shouted "JESUS"! Yes, men are the might of God and the devil knows that too. He(devil) can only CAPTURE a man(might of God) through a woman. Once Eve was captured at the garden of Eden, it was easy to CHAIN(Capture) the man (might of God). Now, still talking about SUBMISSIVENESS, it is not easy for a man and a woman under a ROOF not to have QUARREL, yes, they are not corpse but human hence there will be quarrel but the ability to settle it AMICABLY matters. Now it is not for a WOMAN to stand on her DECISION which her husband OBJECTS to, but for her to use for womanistic behavior to make her husband SUBMIT(MYSTERY) to her decision. What is the womanistic behavior? What is the womanistic behavior? Yes, God in his INFINITE WISDOM has given women power upon the bed. Ability to sweet – talk your husband upon the bed on a matter that he disagreed on. Now once she touches her husband in LOVE and womanistically lowers her VOICE(enticing) and remind the husband on the NEED(mystery ) to accept her own DECISION and God gives the husband grace to ACCEPT upon the bed, that settles it but if upon that bed, the MAN(MIGHT OF GOD) SAYS NO!!! HEAVEN WILL STAMP IT AND IF THE WOMAN DOES THE OTHERWISE, SHE WILL NOT JUST INCUR THE WRATH OF THE HUSBAND BUT OF GOD. IT IS FINISHED! IT IS FINISHED!
Books by the writer is available on Amazon( Search – books by Anthony Orji)
we are perishing in our marriages in the name of submission.
adeboye has confessed to being a serial fornicator in his younger days…does anyone believe he never terminated an unwanted pregnancy???