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I am very happy to find this video, as well as I also learned a lot from the comments of all my friends. I hope I can be a good parent to my child, thank you
I wish my mom enforced rules like these parents do. There's no reason to be angry at her because she's only done what she's thought is right for me but it's made me into a spoiled brat, wanting me to live as a kid for as long as possible because of how early she lost her innocence.
Good advices. But..too simplified. A teenager mostly won't listen to you (no matter what approach you use to explain to them, sever or friendly), he or she will complain, say that everybody else allows that what she/he has done or wants to do,except you, that he/she has no freedom at all (despite the fact that it often is not true at all), won't listen to you at all but p.ssed off go to her/his room. You try to explain later again, give arguments, but it is still like talking to the wall. In teenage time it is you against them. At least in heads of teenagers. No, parents are not perfect, some of them are also terrible, but neither you, dear teenagers, are simple to deal with. In your period of life you fight with your parents. In period of lives of your parents, they fight with Life. You know one side of life, and we know that side too. We were very young and teenagers too. But we know the other side of life, which you still don't know. You think that you know all and that everything finishes well always, but, trust me, it doesn't. Open your eyes and observe very big number of people who ruined their lives. They are all around. And all of that usually starts in your age. You choose your path. And we just want to save you from the wrong one, from pain, from deep troubles. Trust me, in case of letting you do whatever you want, and then facing up with very bad consequences for your life, you'd hate us for not stopping you. So, rather hate us Now, than later when it could be late for fixing up.
My mom and I had an argument a few days ago, we are okay now. I tried a difference approach, I gave her water and tried to explain to her why relationships often break apart and one of the reason is of lack of communication. It was all good but she always interrupts me and when she does, she would start telling her story of how she was always helping her sisters even if they are not helping her and she would get emotional and starts accusing me of being too selfish etc. At that point, I would just stare at her dead in the eyes, like let me speak! I'm trying to fix everything here and you are playing the victim card. We are okay after her emotional moment without me being able to explain what I am supposed to say because of it.
Honestly, I get the message yall are trying to convey, but, I just feel like this is not realistic. I’ve talked to my kid this way… she’s 14. Just take a second and think how that really played out. It just doesn’t happen this way. It doesn’t matter if you say no and set boundaries in the kindest way and they will still slam the door and say this is unfair…. Etc., I like the video very much! But it’s just not realistic. I mean this in the most genuine way. Blessings♥️🙏🏾
I like the first example. You can and should definetely enforce reasonable consequences so your kid learns from their mistake, but it doesn't have to be done in an aggressive manner. I love how the dad set the consequence but was still gentle and calm, so the teen accepted the consequence gracefully.
Bro when I was a kid my parents were amazing I mean amazing but the more I’m growing the more they shout they always hate me I wish I can be a child again 😞
I didn't treat like the perfect way when i was in a teenage, but this didn't enforce me to go on bad or wrong thinking, or even made me hate my parents. Personally, I would say that the conflicts and the devastating relationships among families in western culture relate to your way of upbringing and raising your children. It is all about how to respect your parents, which without them you wouldn't exist!
Yh ive tried but I've come to the conclusion my mum is just a narcissist living alone would help if only I could've afford it's really annoying because I could've turned out much more mentally stable than I am rn
Parents need to understand that they are not in control. I have a 15 yo daughter…and she is completely free to make her own choices without any punishment or consequences from me.
I have never told her to do anything, she does it if she wants to. Like…she hates cleaning…so I don't make her….I clean everything!
If we have a disagreement about something…we both sit down and talk about it. I never get angry or annoyed, I want to know what she has to say. And MOST times I side with her.
Whatever her choice is, IF I can fulfill that choice for her, I give it to her….its not my place to make choices for her!
This is awesome! Thank you for doing this video! I love this. Cheers from Southern California-Imperial County and Baja North Mexico 🙂 Congratulations. Great Video. Bullying And School Violence Advocacy Program.
I am very happy to find this video, as well as I also learned a lot from the comments of all my friends. I hope I can be a good parent to my child, thank you
Yeah… We don't talk I am listening and my mom is screaming. It's bean like this for over 3-4 years. I'm so happy 🙃
God i wish my parents talked to me so gently
The dislikes are from parents who says "My house my rules" S.DFLJDSEIFDJSEFD
I finally told my mother that we needed to work on our relationship. It was along conversation but I got through it
Yorh if my parents talked like this to me in this manner yorh 😀😀i would be happy
Eyo Grade 8 online
here because of a fricking module
aint nobody gonna talk about the bad acting though
if my dad is like this i would leave as soon as possible
UHMmMMM why am I Watching This. ;-;
If my dad shouted at me I’d probably cap his ass
I wish my parents were like this.I dont think in reality this could ever happen with my parents.
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i wish my parents knew this
Alguien del lebla xd
I wish my mom enforced rules like these parents do. There's no reason to be angry at her because she's only done what she's thought is right for me but it's made me into a spoiled brat, wanting me to live as a kid for as long as possible because of how early she lost her innocence.
is this how healthy conversations work, they're like awkward
Good advices. But..too simplified. A teenager mostly won't listen to you (no matter what approach you use to explain to them, sever or friendly), he or she will complain, say that everybody else allows that what she/he has done or wants to do,except you, that he/she has no freedom at all (despite the fact that it often is not true at all), won't listen to you at all but p.ssed off go to her/his room. You try to explain later again, give arguments, but it is still like talking to the wall. In teenage time it is you against them. At least in heads of teenagers. No, parents are not perfect, some of them are also terrible, but neither you, dear teenagers, are simple to deal with. In your period of life you fight with your parents. In period of lives of your parents, they fight with Life. You know one side of life, and we know that side too. We were very young and teenagers too. But we know the other side of life, which you still don't know. You think that you know all and that everything finishes well always, but, trust me, it doesn't. Open your eyes and observe very big number of people who ruined their lives. They are all around. And all of that usually starts in your age. You choose your path. And we just want to save you from the wrong one, from pain, from deep troubles. Trust me, in case of letting you do whatever you want, and then facing up with very bad consequences for your life, you'd hate us for not stopping you. So, rather hate us Now, than later when it could be late for fixing up.
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My mom and I had an argument a few days ago, we are okay now. I tried a difference approach, I gave her water and tried to explain to her why relationships often break apart and one of the reason is of lack of communication. It was all good but she always interrupts me and when she does, she would start telling her story of how she was always helping her sisters even if they are not helping her and she would get emotional and starts accusing me of being too selfish etc. At that point, I would just stare at her dead in the eyes, like let me speak! I'm trying to fix everything here and you are playing the victim card. We are okay after her emotional moment without me being able to explain what I am supposed to say because of it.
That's why I'm here. I am still pissed.
#accurate
Please more videos like this.
Having empathy teaches your children to be empathetic more often than not. More productive conversations happen with it.
Me crying all the time i watch this because my parent do all the wrong things and dont want to change
And they wonder why I'm not close to them 🤨
Watching this after my parents grounding me for a month after waking up late for school..
i wish my parents were like this 🙂 they never wanted to hear me out
Honestly my step dad yells and finds so thing to complain about and put it all on me when I get home that’s why I hate being home.
Good dream
The saddest part of video is that all the veiwers are teens
Honestly, I get the message yall are trying to convey, but, I just feel like this is not realistic. I’ve talked to my kid this way… she’s 14. Just take a second and think how that really played out. It just doesn’t happen this way. It doesn’t matter if you say no and set boundaries in the kindest way and they will still slam the door and say this is unfair…. Etc., I like the video very much! But it’s just not realistic. I mean this in the most genuine way. Blessings♥️🙏🏾
I like the first example. You can and should definetely enforce reasonable consequences so your kid learns from their mistake, but it doesn't have to be done in an aggressive manner. I love how the dad set the consequence but was still gentle and calm, so the teen accepted the consequence gracefully.
Me watching this as a 15 year old to learn how to talk to my parents. Lol me trying to be as caring as their parent
Bro when I was a kid my parents were amazing I mean amazing but the more I’m growing the more they shout they always hate me I wish I can be a child again 😞
Has anyone talked about the belt ?
I didn't treat like the perfect way when i was in a teenage, but this didn't enforce me to go on bad or wrong thinking, or even made me hate my parents. Personally, I would say that the conflicts and the devastating relationships among families in western culture relate to your way of upbringing and raising your children.
It is all about how to respect your parents, which without them you wouldn't exist!
I'm so tempted to send this to my parents
I wish I knew how to talk like this
My daughter is 10 and trying to learn as much as possible so that we can have a healthy relationship. This helped.
*me watching this at 13 incase I ever become a parent in the future 💀
I aspire to never be like the parents and adults in my life.
انا عربي عراقي وياريت اهلنا هيج 💔😣
Yh ive tried but I've come to the conclusion my mum is just a narcissist living alone would help if only I could've afford it's really annoying because I could've turned out much more mentally stable than I am rn
Parents need to understand that they are not in control. I have a 15 yo daughter…and she is completely free to make her own choices without any punishment or consequences from me.
I have never told her to do anything, she does it if she wants to. Like…she hates cleaning…so I don't make her….I clean everything!
If we have a disagreement about something…we both sit down and talk about it. I never get angry or annoyed, I want to know what she has to say. And MOST times I side with her.
Whatever her choice is, IF I can fulfill that choice for her, I give it to her….its not my place to make choices for her!
When parents try this, teens: I can be even more disrespectful…. Unrealistic
is there anybody who comes from 9th english book? (Azerbaijian)
This is awesome! Thank you for doing this video! I love this. Cheers from Southern California-Imperial County and Baja North Mexico 🙂 Congratulations. Great Video. Bullying And School Violence Advocacy Program.
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