The claim that the female orgasm is just as natural and should be just as expected as the male orgasm is a controversial one, …

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  1. Most women are attracted to men who put their own needs before hers, so the pleasure disparity is not a surprise. If women selected more giving men this would not be an issue, but this will never happen.

  2. This lady speaking from books not real grounded experience of her own. Doing surveys on basically inexperienced students is not helpful either. Reading novels on how to drive a car does not make a great driver or instructor.

  3. Guys who can get it the easiest have a real hard time caring about the other person. The guys who have to work a little harder are going to give it their all to get the call back. Just my non-scientific observation.

  4. This is not even close to my experience over the past 30 plus years.
    The simple answer to your question is for woman to move on, if I guy doesn’t get the job done. Go find a guy that knows what he’s doing.

  5. “Why are men having so many more orgasms than women “. Answer.

    Men take responsibility for their own orgasm. Women do not. There is no law that states that a women cannot 1. Be self aroused ( warmed up ) well before penetration , and 2. Cent get herself off during penetration. Now. I agree with what will be yelled at me. “ the guy Should do it “. Sure. If she opens her mouth and tells him what to do. If she doesn’t. It on her. Men can’t guess. And if we do. We’re wrong. 99 % of the time. Just as the host says. All women don’t like the same thing. Not even close. So how does a guy know ? Minus playing the guessing game ? He doesn’t. So women. Wake up and speak. And use you’re 10 digits.

  6. Most men by far would kill to have a woman who is truly orgasmic. This false premise that men are indifferent I think comes from the large number of women who for whatever reason have never experienced an actual orgasm and they want to blame something.

  7. I like her topic and she is very accurate in her talk. but come on. your not a man if you cant please your woman. I abide by a 3-1 ratio. I want her to have 3 O's to my 1. if your less than that your not doing your job men!

  8. I don't know where she got that "4 minutes to orgasm" for men. Seems like manipulation of statistics where she included outliers and multiple climaxes back to back. Obviously, if a man reaches climax 3 times in a row it's going to take longer each time, averaging out to 4 minutes. However, I can tell you that when talking about the first climax in 24 hours, 30 seconds to orgasm in men is possible in the right circumstances. Ever heard of a woman orgasming in 30 seconds in any circumstance? I certainly have not.

    This talk seems right at first glance only because its veneer of equality obscures all errors, and because she really does promote some good messages throughout. That shouldn't make it immune to criticism.

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