In this thought-provoking video, we dive deep into the age-old debate of whether a man should chase a woman. Exploring various …

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  1. Such a womderful conversation this is. I wonder where women got the idea that they must be chased. Stressing and frustrating a good man who is sincerely ready to settle down. Thank you Pastor K for this liberating message and bringing it home.

  2. I have told guys this and some of them argue with me a woman. I say a woman knows from Day one if you are the one or not. If she’s making you chase her, leave her. She’s not mature. It’s that simple. Show yourself, Make your intentions known, whatever she decides take it like that. If she’s interested and says no to get it to become hard for you, you have a future manipulative wife in your hand. Not worth the stress. Also ladies be careful of men hunting you down. You are just a challenge he wants to conquer and most times such men are insecure

  3. I told my wife in 2019 that if she had acted " hard to get" i would never chase her because i dont believe in it.
    She is convinced a man is suppose to pursue a woman.
    I'm sending this message to her. Loll

  4. 👏🏽Thank you for this clarity PK. It’s a union, partnership that both parties MUST AGREE to go on the journey.
    It’s in tough times that you see the REAL TEAM, finally Success follows because of Mutual Forces been put in as sacrifices for each other.
    GOD Bless you abundantly PK
    This generation must understand Kingdom work mostly Christians

  5. Wow!
    Pastor I completely agree with your line of thought here.
    I have also experienced such situation where my estranged wife told me she married me because our former Pastor persuaded her. She said the man spoke well of me and encouraged her to accept my proposal.
    I was shocked to hear that, after about four years into the marriage.
    Eventually, when I accepted an assignment to pastor one of the church branches, she got angry and said she will never be a part of it, as we did not have such agreement before we got married.
    So, she went to the police, cooked up an allegation against me, and packed and left with our kids.
    I believe if we follow your line of thought, this kind of situation is so avoidable.

  6. PK, pls may I know if this is general in all cases, or there may be exceptionals. For instance, a man convinced by God of a particular lady as a life partner but the lady not in agreement because she has failed to seek the face of God about it since marriage is no where near her priorities at the time?

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