I do wish people would properly hydrate their mouth before talking so us suffering from misophonia don't have to endure trigger noises like: 3:42 (or at least close your mouth when you pause talking. Or don't have the mic so close)
I feel like whatever I try I can't be opened up with my dad everytime I go to his house I act like I'm fine cuz I know if I try to open up to him he will get mad like always
It's January 9, 2021, & I think I'm just gonna go watch John Mulaney at this point, cuz my dad's like, "Well I think that horse should stay in the hospital!" & you're like, "Dads will respond to fairness concerns," & I'm like, "WE'RE WELL PAST THAT!" Meanwhile, the horse is like, "I want you all to go murder my vice-horse." & I'm just like okay- okay. okay- okay. okay- okay.
im about to be 16 and i wanna talk to my dad but i ghosted him after a while and i feel really bad.. i just dont know or have the courage to start a conversation again with him and thats like the hardest part for me. only idea i have right now is when i get a new number or phone i would text him but its hard for me right now. after a while he started contacting my mom asking why im not texting him back and i said i didnt wanna talk to him anymore but now i regret saying that because me and him had a really close relationship .
Just to remind anyone reading this, must of the times we're more afraid of what might happen instead of what will actually happen, you will never know the outcome until the thing you're afraid happens.
My dad is 89, hard of hearing, getting physically fragile but has a sharp mind and tongue. He is incredibly opinionated, stubborn and negative. It is so hard to have a conversation with him. He is a catastrophizer. Everything is going to end horribly. I will try these three golden questions. Thank you.
Another point that proves there should be PREREQUISITE behavioural training for all potential and soon to be parents. This skill should exist before some childish nutjob conceives life, then orders and admonishes it, then spouts a variety of excuses for not educating themselves on communication, respect, and neurotic tendencies. fixing yourself is not something you improvise as you go along, while moulding a young, impressionable mind.
We should talk more about coming to solutions , easing problems in our realtions and ending the meaningless fights because they happen and people are not perfect and problems will never end but so our effort to solve them with those we love.
wonderful presentation!!
How I wish this could work on Asian parents…but great techniques though 🙂
i went to say hi to my dad after this and he told me to shut up.
doesn't work on Filipino parents •_•
I was having a panic attack due to everything that’s going on at home, your calming voice eased me into a more comfortable spot. Thank you:)
thanks, I'll do this once he comes back with the milk
Amazing
I do wish people would properly hydrate their mouth before talking so us suffering from misophonia don't have to endure trigger noises like: 3:42 (or at least close your mouth when you pause talking. Or don't have the mic so close)
Imagine having parents who would even let you bring things up
I am glad I saw this! My dad is currently out of the house and we have a conflict going on at the moment
oh I wish fairness was a valid point and wish that I could have, that would solve a lot of things
I feel like whatever I try I can't be opened up with my dad everytime I go to his house I act like I'm fine cuz I know if I try to open up to him he will get mad like always
I tried to be a mediator and ended up searching " what can you do if you don't want to end up like your dad or mom" Pray for me thank you 🙂
It's January 9, 2021, & I think I'm just gonna go watch John Mulaney at this point, cuz my dad's like, "Well I think that horse should stay in the hospital!" & you're like, "Dads will respond to fairness concerns," & I'm like, "WE'RE WELL PAST THAT!" Meanwhile, the horse is like, "I want you all to go murder my vice-horse." & I'm just like okay- okay. okay- okay. okay- okay.
….nice ideas for petty arguments though. =/
Helps a lot. Thank you, really!
Found soo many are with me…✌
Thank You 😀😀😀
with some parents u can have as many golden question as u want, if they don‘t understand the question or just ignore it there is no sense.
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im about to be 16 and i wanna talk to my dad but i ghosted him after a while and i feel really bad.. i just dont know or have the courage to start a conversation again with him and thats like the hardest part for me. only idea i have right now is when i get a new number or phone i would text him but its hard for me right now. after a while he started contacting my mom asking why im not texting him back and i said i didnt wanna talk to him anymore but now i regret saying that because me and him had a really close relationship .
2:23
Amazing speech😍💯
When you're searching for videos about dealing with a bad father and all you can find are cute and useless ted talks. Thanks for nothing.
Wow u opened my eyes I needed it much.. So much.. I'll put this into real life…. Thanks to u to tonsssss
but say, what if theres a language barrier? asking for a friend pls
the way theres a whole ted talk on talking to dads
Just to remind anyone reading this, must of the times we're more afraid of what might happen instead of what will actually happen, you will never know the outcome until the thing you're afraid happens.
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I just broke my dad’s headphone cord I’m gonna go pass away now bye <3
I’m surprised why this video only has 53 thousand views
My dad is 89, hard of hearing, getting physically fragile but has a sharp mind and tongue. He is incredibly opinionated, stubborn and negative. It is so hard to have a conversation with him. He is a catastrophizer. Everything is going to end horribly. I will try these three golden questions. Thank you.
oh i get it, everyone has a "nag" and this is the only way to not fight with them
Thank you very much!!! Just the three minutes of the vid, it already struck right to me!
Another point that proves there should be PREREQUISITE behavioural training for all potential and soon to be parents. This skill should exist before some childish nutjob conceives life, then orders and admonishes it, then spouts a variety of excuses for not educating themselves on communication, respect, and neurotic tendencies. fixing yourself is not something you improvise as you go along, while moulding a young, impressionable mind.
Yeah my parents are not using these
thanks,this didn't help at all.But it did help in other ways, the idea of the golden question is really good
We should talk more about coming to solutions , easing problems in our realtions and ending the meaningless fights because they happen and people are not perfect and problems will never end but so our effort to solve them with those we love.
I absolutely love her voice and the way she enunciates
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Discussion. That’s funny. Father knows best. A father knows enough. It was also a sitcom back in the 50s.
A discussion with the father doesn’t work. Because the father doesn’t need you. Should we test that.
The only thing you get from the fathers, passed down, are their learning disabilities.
No conflict or conversation in these households. Please …
You talked to Billie Eilish and found out the secret. I’m a witch!
Im grounded and I wanna go out so…here I am hehe 😅