My error was going to man for what I should have been going to God for. A marriage of the flesh is no fun. But God is so faithful and loving that He will restore you, heal you, forgive you & still bless you. There is life after divorce. His ways are not our ways. He doesn’t go back on His word. He knows the plans He has for us a future and a hope even when we jack it up. I am speaking from my own experience then and where God has brought me today. I am blessed going in and going out.
Excellent Video! Sorry for chiming in, I would love your opinion. Have you thought about – Taparton Returning Love Takeover (probably on Google)? It is an awesome one off guide for learning how to stop divorce without the headache. Ive heard some unbelievable things about it and my mate finally got astronomical success with it.
44 yrs then divorced. This preacher has hit all the right spots…”God, renew a right & steadfast spirit within me. Do not cast me away from your presence, do not take away thy Holy Spirit from me, create in me a new heart, restore the joy of your salvation & sustain me with a willing spirit!”
what happens when your spouse is verbally, emotionally, and physically abusive? I tried staying for too many years and finally realized he didn’t even like me! He never loved me from the start and I probably would have ended up dead if I would have stayed. i pray for everyone who has separated and or divorced…its not God’s will but there are times when God will lead you out of the marriage and into a life he had already planned for you!!
God Bless everyone!!!
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@Rosser Scott i agree with your response. I saw that fact years ago and tried to approach it with him. It turned out he was too afraid and didn’t want to change. I realized that I can’t help if he won’t let me. I understood that his pain is something only God can heal but I couldn’t and wouldn’t stick around for all the abuse and pain he was putting on me and our children. He has many deep issues and I pray for him everyday. Its just sad and frustrating watching someone not care about themselves and wreck their lives right in front of you. I pray for all of us who are hurting. Please ask Jesus to help and heal you! He is here with us all and I feel the Holy Spirit everyday in all things I do. Praise be to God!
You may separate but biblically you are to remain single. He is still your covant spouse. You cannot remarry or take in another man. You are to pray for him and ask God to change his heart. 🙏 Amen
Divorce is the most hurtful and painful experience ever, I don’t wish it for anyone . How do you pick yourself up after so many nights and days with this “special person” , wow guys 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 . When I’ve recovered or have healed I will come back here and comment , this is so difficult 💔
@Adam Lorenz Let there be Light – Let there be Love – Let there be muic ! Let the Healing begin now and forever in the name of YAHUSHUA – Ahmein- Praise YAH
HalleluYAH Hugs from Holland !
Word of truth! So many valuable things and people that are overlooked because one thinks he is doing right by God by “proving love/holding the family together” truth be told in my experience the closest people to me were the most toxic…
Very insightful, the way he broke down how to manage each stage brings hope. I’m going trough that process now and it feels confusing, uncertain, powerless, angry etc. etc. is a roller coaster of emotions. All I can say is God help me.
I had those same emotions when I got divorced 19 years ago. I even went through bad relationships to fill that void worse mistake ever. Now that I’m focusing on God I’m more free now and it feels good. Stay strong and focus on God He will take good care of you. God bless
I’m signing the papers tomorrow. Don’t know if I can go through it. I will have to be strong and get back to god. He will heal my broken heart. Thank you for this video.
Amen!!! When dealing with my divorce I would speak 24/7 Psalms 34:18 “The Lord is near to the brokenhearted”….I thank God for bringing me through…the best decision I’ve ever made was to give my heart to the Lord & trust him…I will use my singleness to GLORIFY only him because he is worthy!!
@Majidah Smith, M.A I’m praying all day every day. If not depressed it makes you mad especially if you ain’t cheating, fighting, or something crazy to cause harm.
Yes, it’s VERY embarrassing. My ex and I stood before more than 200 people and vowed that we were believers at our wedding. I even led a single’s ministry. Then after almost 7 years of marriage we separated and he ultimately divorced me when he had an affair. I do regret separating from him, but he refused to stop drinking and using porn and those vile “chat” sites. I fasted and prayed for reconciliation, but he wanted out. He was suffering from mental and emotional strongholds from childhood trauma. I continue to intercede for him because The LORD. has led me to do so. But, yes..I feel so ashamed and embarrassed. Oftentimes like a bad witness for Christ.
If you are looking for a way to win your ex back forever,
I can introduce you to Mr OLOWO, a very powerful spell caster who helped me bring back my husband after he ghost me out for almost a year. Message him on whatsapp for help via + 2348089339042.i promise i will tell the world about him!
I was happily married for one year which means I was in the honeymoon phase when my husband cheated and then asked for divorce. Wow 😳
I noticed my husband (a physician) whom I thought was the love of my life and I his based on his own confession to me, begin distancing himself only about 6 months into our marriage and one year of our engagement. He (whom) I found out was a serial cheater and a womanizer. I found out through his phone. He ran out of lies and told me he wanted a divorce. I’ve never felt more pain. It’s been now about 18 months into separation. This message has contributed to the healing of my broken heart 💔
@Lorette Maufor ..You’re so welcome! Fasting is a bondage breaker. Remember, your spouse is not your enemy…he’s being used. “Opponents must be gently instructed, in the hope that God will grant them repentance leading them to a knowledge of the truth, and that they will come to their senses and escape from the trap of the devil, who has taken them captive to do his will.” (2 Timothy 2:25-26) God bless you sister!
Your story mirrors mine. Was only in for 2months and discovered he is a serial cheater. Once I outed him, he became the devil himself. Treated me so bad I could not believe it. Through all this I still love him.
O my god I’m so glad I found this message my wife left me after 21 years of marriage and I been struggling to move forward. I was just messing with my phone and this message just spoke deeply into my spirit thank you so much pastor. Mae god continue to use you in a mighty way.
Peggy Hall I hear what you’ve said but I don’t get that from the end of this message. And there are so many different pastors and preachers teaching differently on this matter it just leaves you to search the word and pray for wisdom. Some have even stood for there marriage to be restored or to walk with the spirit not seeking another spouse. Than all of a sudden they get a new revolution and start preaching that remarry is of God all things are new. And if God divorced Israel than we can divorce and remarry.🤷🏽♀️
Luther, live for God. If she is still alive; marry her again or stay single.If you marry another you would be committing adultery.
Tom Will where do you read in scripture to back up what you say?
Praise God brother. Thank God for leading you to this message for you. You are healed by his stripes.And you can marry again your wife left you. You did not leave her. I pray that in time God will allow you to find the right women for you. God Bless.
Thanks for the Video! Apologies for butting in, I would love your opinion. Have you heard the talk about – Taparton Returning Love Takeover (google it)? It is a good exclusive product for learning how to stop divorce minus the headache. Ive heard some amazing things about it and my old buddy Taylor at last got astronomical success with it.
If that happens then it is the wrong church. I went through a divorce in November 2018. My church was amazing! They helped me when we were separated. They helped me when I didn’t have much money and I was trying to get away from a nutcase with 2 young kids and a baby in the NICU. My family is doing better now and I owe part of that to the support of my church family and a lot of amazing people from my parent’s church. My church helped me move and provide for my kids.
Yes that is what I experienced, was made to feel like a leper and so much judgement from people I felt would be there ,very painful experience at that stage of separation, separated 5 yrs from 39 yr marriage , this message has really helped me see the stages I went through , I’m grateful for the one person that stayed and walked and prayed with me through the healing I’m at today Praise God
I was about to get married TWICE but it never happened… I like to think that God has delivered me from those previous relationships.
My error was going to man for what I should have been going to God for. A marriage of the flesh is no fun. But God is so faithful and loving that He will restore you, heal you, forgive you & still bless you. There is life after divorce. His ways are not our ways. He doesn’t go back on His word. He knows the plans He has for us a future and a hope even when we jack it up. I am speaking from my own experience then and where God has brought me today. I am blessed going in and going out.
@LUKE 6:46 truth
Amen
Awesome! This encourages me as well!❤
Excellent Video! Sorry for chiming in, I would love your opinion. Have you thought about – Taparton Returning Love Takeover (probably on Google)? It is an awesome one off guide for learning how to stop divorce without the headache. Ive heard some unbelievable things about it and my mate finally got astronomical success with it.
@somethintru1 Very likely. God hates divorce and only allows remarriage if your spouse is dead.
44 yrs then divorced. This preacher has hit all the right spots…”God, renew a right & steadfast spirit within me. Do not cast me away from your presence, do not take away thy Holy Spirit from me, create in me a new heart, restore the joy of your salvation & sustain me with a willing spirit!”
what happens when your spouse is verbally, emotionally, and physically abusive? I tried staying for too many years and finally realized he didn’t even like me! He never loved me from the start and I probably would have ended up dead if I would have stayed. i pray for everyone who has separated and or divorced…its not God’s will but there are times when God will lead you out of the marriage and into a life he had already planned for you!!
God Bless everyone!!!
@olivia walton1 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0QevY3ILVsI
That is a message from Dr Miles on the verse of scripture you just used. Let the bible be read in context 🙂
True
how i got my ex lover back by the help of dr Ncube marriage/relationship
specialist. contact him if you need help
WhatsApp contact….. +27657245603
His email Address
drncube03@gmail.com to get your own help.
@Rosser Scott i agree with your response. I saw that fact years ago and tried to approach it with him. It turned out he was too afraid and didn’t want to change. I realized that I can’t help if he won’t let me. I understood that his pain is something only God can heal but I couldn’t and wouldn’t stick around for all the abuse and pain he was putting on me and our children. He has many deep issues and I pray for him everyday. Its just sad and frustrating watching someone not care about themselves and wreck their lives right in front of you. I pray for all of us who are hurting. Please ask Jesus to help and heal you! He is here with us all and I feel the Holy Spirit everyday in all things I do. Praise be to God!
You may separate but biblically you are to remain single. He is still your covant spouse. You cannot remarry or take in another man. You are to pray for him and ask God to change his heart. 🙏 Amen
It is very painful to experience this kind of situation but I encourage you to always think positive and stay away from toxic people.
Divorce is the most hurtful and painful experience ever, I don’t wish it for anyone . How do you pick yourself up after so many nights and days with this “special person” , wow guys 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 . When I’ve recovered or have healed I will come back here and comment , this is so difficult 💔
@Adam Lorenz Let there be Light – Let there be Love – Let there be muic ! Let the Healing begin now and forever in the name of YAHUSHUA – Ahmein- Praise YAH
HalleluYAH Hugs from Holland !
Word of truth! So many valuable things and people that are overlooked because one thinks he is doing right by God by “proving love/holding the family together” truth be told in my experience the closest people to me were the most toxic…
What are toxic people ? People using drugs or alcohol ?
Hurts so bad
Very insightful, the way he broke down how to manage each stage brings hope. I’m going trough that process now and it feels confusing, uncertain, powerless, angry etc. etc. is a roller coaster of emotions. All I can say is God help me.
I had those same emotions when I got divorced 19 years ago. I even went through bad relationships to fill that void worse mistake ever. Now that I’m focusing on God I’m more free now and it feels good. Stay strong and focus on God He will take good care of you. God bless
I’m signing the papers tomorrow. Don’t know if I can go through it. I will have to be strong and get back to god. He will heal my broken heart. Thank you for this video.
Amen!!! When dealing with my divorce I would speak 24/7 Psalms 34:18 “The Lord is near to the brokenhearted”….I thank God for bringing me through…the best decision I’ve ever made was to give my heart to the Lord & trust him…I will use my singleness to GLORIFY only him because he is worthy!!
Tks 4 your post. Going through this journey now
Olando Fuller , guys I’m going through the most in my life. I feel like God has forsaken me? Why me ? I feel like I will end up in depression
@Ann Rita was it embarrassing. That’s how I feel right now. Nothing is final but I’m going with whatever God does.
@Majidah Smith, M.A I’m praying all day every day. If not depressed it makes you mad especially if you ain’t cheating, fighting, or something crazy to cause harm.
Yes, it’s VERY embarrassing. My ex and I stood before more than 200 people and vowed that we were believers at our wedding. I even led a single’s ministry. Then after almost 7 years of marriage we separated and he ultimately divorced me when he had an affair. I do regret separating from him, but he refused to stop drinking and using porn and those vile “chat” sites. I fasted and prayed for reconciliation, but he wanted out. He was suffering from mental and emotional strongholds from childhood trauma. I continue to intercede for him because The LORD. has led me to do so. But, yes..I feel so ashamed and embarrassed. Oftentimes like a bad witness for Christ.
Unless the Lord builds the house they labor in vain. I will wait on the Lord and not rush into anything because I feel alone.
If you are looking for a way to win your ex back forever,
I can introduce you to Mr OLOWO, a very powerful spell caster who helped me bring back my husband after he ghost me out for almost a year. Message him on whatsapp for help via + 2348089339042.i promise i will tell the world about him!
I need restoration in my marriage
I need restoration in my marriage
Me too
I do also. I’m praying daily we be the couple God wants us to be and help me to lead and be a better example.
Me too!
Pray for you
I was scared that Dr Munroe will be too hard on me but he was very fatherly and pastoral. I thank God for him
Amen
I started watching this and I was angry and skeptical but I kept watching, it hurt. but what he said is so true and im glad I watched this
Man,,,, now i have to watch this
John Mo8ore w
I was happily married for one year which means I was in the honeymoon phase when my husband cheated and then asked for divorce. Wow 😳
I noticed my husband (a physician) whom I thought was the love of my life and I his based on his own confession to me, begin distancing himself only about 6 months into our marriage and one year of our engagement. He (whom) I found out was a serial cheater and a womanizer. I found out through his phone. He ran out of lies and told me he wanted a divorce. I’ve never felt more pain. It’s been now about 18 months into separation. This message has contributed to the healing of my broken heart 💔
@Lorette Maufor ..You’re so welcome! Fasting is a bondage breaker. Remember, your spouse is not your enemy…he’s being used. “Opponents must be gently instructed, in the hope that God will grant them repentance leading them to a knowledge of the truth, and that they will come to their senses and escape from the trap of the devil, who has taken them captive to do his will.” (2 Timothy 2:25-26) God bless you sister!
@Chrissy Kaye Well said. God Bless you!!
Your story mirrors mine. Was only in for 2months and discovered he is a serial cheater. Once I outed him, he became the devil himself. Treated me so bad I could not believe it. Through all this I still love him.
@Chrissy Kaye thank you. Will try that. Been praying a lot lately. Will incorporate fasting to it.
I understand. Fasting and praying helps tremendously.
O my god I’m so glad I found this message my wife left me after 21 years of marriage and I been struggling to move forward. I was just messing with my phone and this message just spoke deeply into my spirit thank you so much pastor. Mae god continue to use you in a mighty way.
Amen.
Peggy Hall I hear what you’ve said but I don’t get that from the end of this message. And there are so many different pastors and preachers teaching differently on this matter it just leaves you to search the word and pray for wisdom. Some have even stood for there marriage to be restored or to walk with the spirit not seeking another spouse. Than all of a sudden they get a new revolution and start preaching that remarry is of God all things are new. And if God divorced Israel than we can divorce and remarry.🤷🏽♀️
@Peggy Hall truth.
Luther, live for God. If she is still alive; marry her again or stay single.If you marry another you would be committing adultery.
Tom Will where do you read in scripture to back up what you say?
Praise God brother. Thank God for leading you to this message for you. You are healed by his stripes.And you can marry again your wife left you. You did not leave her. I pray that in time God will allow you to find the right women for you. God Bless.
Wow. What a sermon. Really needed this. I’m at peace with myself now.
Sometimes Divorce is the best thing to ever happen to some.
Wrong
Concur
I Agreee
Amen 🙏🏿 best comment indeed
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Bless this man in heaven. You’re truly sent by God.
Few sermons out there really touch on divorce in both a realistic and spiritual way. This one is exceptional.
Spot on.
wish you never went too soon papa bt thank GOD you’ve left you teachings and sermons
Amen!
Thanks for the Video! Apologies for butting in, I would love your opinion. Have you heard the talk about – Taparton Returning Love Takeover (google it)? It is a good exclusive product for learning how to stop divorce minus the headache. Ive heard some amazing things about it and my old buddy Taylor at last got astronomical success with it.
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Emilly Ogur Ogur So sorry for you!! His teachings are Amazing!! Can’t be anything but God! You know exactly where he is!!! Praise God!
I wish the Church would be more compassionate to those going through divorce. They just treat the people like Lepers.
@Unbroken42 how did you cope with it? I’ve been without my daughter for 28 days. I divorced because of the craziness too and it got real bad..
If that happens then it is the wrong church. I went through a divorce in November 2018. My church was amazing! They helped me when we were separated. They helped me when I didn’t have much money and I was trying to get away from a nutcase with 2 young kids and a baby in the NICU. My family is doing better now and I owe part of that to the support of my church family and a lot of amazing people from my parent’s church. My church helped me move and provide for my kids.
God forgives seven times seven
Amen
Yes that is what I experienced, was made to feel like a leper and so much judgement from people I felt would be there ,very painful experience at that stage of separation, separated 5 yrs from 39 yr marriage , this message has really helped me see the stages I went through , I’m grateful for the one person that stayed and walked and prayed with me through the healing I’m at today Praise God
truth