What is the best way to discipline youth? In today’s episode, I’m going to talk about the different ways that parents discipline their …
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I need some advice, because I don't know what else to do. I have a 14 year old son that is completely unmotivated to do his work. Now I've already taken everything away, create a reward system, counseling, prayer and more. Has anyone ever had to deal with this problem or know anyone who has. I'm to the point of trying to figure out how to raise money to send him to a military boarding school
I think this would make more sense if this video started from the end. I would switch the steps around. Relationship and calmness need to be taught first. I think the relationship being focus would even help us watching to receive this message. Most of us are adverse to even hearing the word rules or discipline and shut down. So many studies are showing that its the relationship that makes the difference. Correction without relationship equals rebellion. My plan is to copy your steps starting with the last things first. Thanks for these tips.
So I have a 16 year old that speaker into my 14 year to misbehaving. All because I will not let him leave the house. My 16 year has learn this behavior for other people. He was a great kids happy he listen and not I Really see the same way the other people got to my son is the way he is getting my 14 year. I did get help but that didn't go no where. It stayed in the problem area for everyday with the help. I had to even tell the help to move from this problem area its the same thing everyday.
I’ve tried this mostly but my 14 yo son melts down & I take his privileges away as a consequence but nothings working. I’ll try it this way more closely.
Children need consequences for their behavior. No such thing as perfect. How many of your children came from Trauma? Each child is unique. Each child needs their own set of boundaries. You cannot lump everyone in a box.
In covid…my kid turned into a young man and his behaviour is completely changed…he got addicted to be online as many as 12 hrs a day!! And learnt to answer back to us…
I need some advice, because I don't know what else to do. I have a 14 year old son that is completely unmotivated to do his work. Now I've already taken everything away, create a reward system, counseling, prayer and more. Has anyone ever had to deal with this problem or know anyone who has. I'm to the point of trying to figure out how to raise money to send him to a military boarding school
Can u take my youth
I need help😭
This seems complicated. What about for business owning busy parents??
I think this would make more sense if this video started from the end. I would switch the steps around. Relationship and calmness need to be taught first. I think the relationship being focus would even help us watching to receive this message. Most of us are adverse to even hearing the word rules or discipline and shut down. So many studies are showing that its the relationship that makes the difference. Correction without relationship equals rebellion. My plan is to copy your steps starting with the last things first. Thanks for these tips.
So I have a 16 year old that speaker into my 14 year to misbehaving. All because I will not let him leave the house. My 16 year has learn this behavior for other people. He was a great kids happy he listen and not I Really see the same way the other people got to my son is the way he is getting my 14 year. I did get help but that didn't go no where. It stayed in the problem area for everyday with the help. I had to even tell the help to move from this problem area its the same thing everyday.
Thank you. This has been a huge help. My daughter is 14, she continues to lie to us.
I’ve tried this mostly but my 14 yo son melts down & I take his privileges away as a consequence but nothings working. I’ll try it this way more closely.
It’s a daily battle every day is an argument
Children need consequences for their behavior. No such thing as perfect. How many of your children came from Trauma? Each child is unique. Each child needs their own set of boundaries. You cannot lump everyone in a box.
And our stupid counselors psychologists are you that you need to take things away
How late is to late to start teaching this skills?
Oh my goodness I came here to find out what ACTUAL DISCIPLINE TO USE MEANING WHAT CONSEQUENCES DO YOU USE!!!!
In covid…my kid turned into a young man and his behaviour is completely changed…he got addicted to be online as many as 12 hrs a day!! And learnt to answer back to us…
What are some good consequences?? I need help with that!!
Excellent video!
Excellent… do you want to adopt my 16 yo for few days ?