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Oh my God I'm watching and crying This is such a powerful lesson. As as Marriage counselor my heart resonates with everything that's being shared..thank you pastor K and pastor M
I had the chance to marry a nurse and a preacher . I chose the preacher. We ended the marriage after three years . Abusive Christian relationship is the most common but unspoken dark topic happening in the body of Christ !
What I learnt from the video is that no one should ignore the red flags you see before marriage no matter the man of God that nudges you on or any so-called prophecy that you must marry a particular person.
I think you guys were never married because the first girl you married had already married before (traditional marriage)..
But your understanding about marriage is disturbing, and that is why you married an already married woman instead of telling her to return to her husband, who she wedded traditionally.
Coming on TV and saying that divorce is not sin and remarrying after divorce is not sin is like rewriting the bible. If you are no more comfortable with the teachings of the bible, you should go start your own religion.
Hear the word of the Lord
Malachi 2:16 “For the LORD God of Israel says That He hates divorce, For it covers one’s garment with violence,” Says the LORD of hosts. “Therefore take heed to your spirit, That you do not deal treacherously.”
Luke 16:18 Whosoever putteth away his wife, and marrieth another, committeth adultery: and whosoever marrieth her that is put away from her husband committeth adultery.
Romans 7:2 For the woman which hath an husband is bound by the law to her husband so long as he liveth; but if the husband be dead, she is loosed from the law of her husband. 7:3 So then if, while her husband liveth, she be married to another man, she shall be called an adulteress: but if her husband be dead, she is free from that law; so that she is no adulteress, though she be married to another man.
But pastor kingsley collect from pastor olumide in this interview sha.. i am sure pastor kingsley go reach house massage him body. I have a friend like that, if him dey talk, i dey go far make person no come use beating kill me in d name of narrating story.. lol….
I can relate… divorce I painful. Especially when you love your partner. Its been 4 years since my divorce I have not gotten over it . I have tormenting dreams. I miss my family. Everyone has spoken to her, our pastors have spoken to her she still won't come back. Divorce is bad. if you can still work on your marriage please do. Put your best in it.
Dear Pastor Olumide the Lord will help your ministry work . Your children will definitely look for you at the appointed time. May God Bless you and keep you in Jesus Name Amen. I can feel your pain
It is well😢 God help me too I also caused my hubby pain too. But when the Lord showed me my wrong i became so sad. I didnt even know that i was destroying my home. My hubby and i are sperated but i pray God restores us. Amen
Wow i have had pastor Olumide as a mentor for a while now. Listening to this i now know where the wisdom is coming from, experience is the best teacher indeed
Can I now say after listening to your divorce experience that our destinies will always meet us despite our faith and believes. The story of Job can't be left out in this case.
There are always different sides to this story. I believe your wife had her obvious faults but I also hope you didn't take advantage of them to cause her emotional damage. Most abuse are not physical. Some are emotional blackmail. I believe if there is more love, it could heal even a damaged person.
I went though the exact same thing a year ago. They are called narcist. The earlier you get out of such relationship the better for you .I remembered how I use to beg for peace…They always think they are better than you and being with you was just a privilege for you, All your effort and opinion will never count, they will rather seek validation elsewhere..last part no matter the effort you put in that relationship it will never be enough.
The truth is that Pastor Olumide married a Narcissist! Unfortunately many christians and Pastors know nothing about Narcissism! A Narcissist is unmarriageable! No matter how long you keep up with them they must dump you! Currently they wrecking havoc in Christian marriages and leave marriage counsellors and Pastors confused! They are strange human beings! Half demon! Half human! They are from hell!
Pastor sir when I listened to this other pastors testimony, I was wondering in my heart because he said God gave him that wife , the scriptures says the blessings of God makes rich he adds no sorrow to it . If there was challenges from the devil I believe God will never let him down , because he God says I am God of all flesh is there anything too hard for me JEREMIAH 32 V 27 , HE ANDSWERD on the affirmative in chapter 32 v 17 that noting is hard for him , all good and perfect gift commeth from God . Psalm 138 v 8 says God shall perfect that which concerns us . If he claimed he heard from God that that was his wife I wonder why he now finally gave up , not handling all to God , God says my blessings make rich I add no sorrow to it .
You are supposed to know she has been possessed with a spirit husband, principalities,so you married someone else's woman. She needed to get delivered.that is why she was getting angry always
What he came out to say if not because I know God personally I would have been discouraged in Christian faith , I know God will never forsake his children that cries to him deeply , if he says he can't get to his kids anymore, if he deeply talks to jehovah on those kids matter God will make them Call him and they will relate very well , I know jehovah he makes wars to cease , brakes the bows , and sett chariots on fire , please sir I deeply felt his pain tell him , God I know turns things around for Good .
1 Corinthians 7:39 – The wife is bound by the law as long as her husband liveth; but if her husband be dead, she is at liberty to be married to whom she will; only in the Lord.
Mark 10:12 – And if a woman shall put away her husband, and be married to another, she committeth adultery.
Romans 7:2 – For the woman which hath an husband is bound by the law to her husband so long as he liveth; but if the husband be dead, she is loosed from the law of her husband.
1 Corinthians 7:10-14 10 And unto the married I command, yet not I, but the Lord, Let not the wife depart from her husband:
11 But and if she depart, let her remain unmarried or be reconciled to her husband: and let not the husband put away his wife.
To Pastor Dr. Olumide Emmanuel, Dear sir, I'm greatly humbled to hear of your marital testimony directly from you for the very first time in decades of listening to you.
My humble observations from my personal convictions are as follows:
Marriage is a Sacred Divine Institution. As a Sacred Institution, it's terms of admittance is set my The Most High Jesus Christ, The Supreme CEO of the Marriage Institution.
In Luke 16:18, The Most High Jesus Christ clearly Said: "ANYONE who DIVORCES his wife and MARRIES another woman COMMITS ADULTERY, and the man who MARRIES a DIVORCED woman COMMITS ADULTERY."
In Mark 10:11-12, The Most High Jesus Christ also Said, "ANYONE who DIVORCES his wife and MARRIES another woman COMMITS ADULTERY against her. And if she DIVORCES her husband and MARRIES another man, she COMMITS ADULTERY."
From the Authority of The Very Words of The Most High Jesus Christ, I humbly submit to you, sir, that your first marriage was an adulterous and sinful marriage since the woman you married had divorced three times.
This culture of returning dowry is invalid before God. "He that puts his hand in the plough and looks back is not fit for the kingdom."
It is the current woman that you married that is your FIRST LEGITIMATE wife before God if she is not a divorcee.
I don't know if it was because the first one had an American citizenship that you were carried away about marrying her so that your kids will have American citizenship.
That lady was just a vampire. She behaved like a typical ungodly American woman who has no regards for anyone. They are mostly vampires who come to kill, steal and destroy.
I give God all the GLORY for saving you from an adulterous relationship in the name of marriage. God really loves you specially, sir!
It is now that you are correctly and Legitimately married in the eyes of God.
In Genesis 17:1, God told father Abraham, of blessed and beautiful memory, "…WALK BEFORE ME AND BE THOU PERFECT…"
The Most High Jesus Christ is The One Who gives us the Constitution to live by. Not this corrupt constitution of mere mortals that legalizes rebellion and abomination against the Consuming Fire.
It is either God's Wonderful Way or we all perish. God is the Ancient of Days and so are all His Ways. His Word does not bend to accommodate anyone. It is either His Way or we perish. Our predicament cannot change God's Word!
I have a lady that we were to get married in the early 2000. She has British citizenship. Her parents made the grave mistake of returning back to Nigeria in the early 80s when people don't need visa to travel to UK.
Things went very bad for them and poverty struck them like a roaring lion to the point that they could not pay rent.
Someone accommodated them in a one small room. They had 6 lovely kids. 2 in UK and 4 in Nigeria.
It was where I was to deliver the British-Nigerian girl from being raped was where we became friends, the parents knew me and they will not let me go. The more I don't want to come closer, the more they wanted me desperately but sincerely.
They were Christians. We became friends. She fell in love with me and I was strict about the opposite relationship. We got along all the same.
We courted. I was told their whole story by her parents. I was so angry that her family members and denomination refused to help them by sending the Britons back to UK after decades as they were financially capable even if it was on credit. They could pay back. But Nigerian primitive wickedness didn't allow them.
I supported them greatly. Sponsored a business for her now late father, a British trained engineer, that yielded 1.8million in 1999 from where they were returned back to UK after 3 years of knowing them.
She wholeheartedly promised to be faithful and good to me. But just few months in UK, she opened up to someone who disvirgined her, got her pregnant and she returned my ring in cold-blood and she married him with brazen and mindless audacity. Everyone was shocked at what she had turned into.
Friends in Nigeria from both family were transfixed in cold consternation by her brazen wickedness.
I got so afraid of women that I became more Heavenly focused and passionate. After all, marriage is not a commandment.
She and her brother went back in January 2000. Before then, I sent her for analogue typing training where she did marvelously well and then, computer training in 1998 where she greatly excelled. She was so proficient in typing that she almost doesn't make mistakes unless the manuscript has mistake in it. This talent helped her greatly in UK when she traveled in 2000.
Few years later, she divorced her husband and wanted me back which she told me directly. I shared The Master's Command with her about divorce and remarriage in Luke 16:18 and Mark 10:11-12.and she wasn't happy at all. Today, she's cohabiting with another man and giving birth to children.
But more sadly, for her 23 years in UK together with her brother, they have never sent me one cent not even when I had serious financial challenges.
So, divorce and remarriage is a great sin before The Ancient of Days, unless either of the couple is dead.
Me am not ready to go to Hell Fire for any reason at all, however small. We are even more closer to Hell Fire than Heaven since Hell Fire is under the earth. I can't take the risk to gamble with my soul. Any scriptural issue that is contentious, it is better to be on the safe side than to risk it. We are talking about EVERLASTING LIFE here o.
It is better I get to Heaven and The Most High Jesus Christ tells me that Apostle Paul was right if I had married a divorced woman, than to be told that His Verdict in Mark 10:11-12 and Luke 16:18 were irrefutable. I cannot risk it ooo… He has the Final Say o.
It is far better to remain single o than to marry a divorced man or woman.
But I profusely THANK GOD who graciously delivered you from an adulterous marriage and now you are rightly and legitimately married before God.
Oh my God I'm watching and crying
This is such a powerful lesson. As as
Marriage counselor my heart resonates with everything that's being shared..thank you pastor K and pastor M
I had the chance to marry a nurse and a preacher . I chose the preacher. We ended the marriage after three years . Abusive Christian relationship is the most common but unspoken dark topic happening in the body of Christ !
What I learnt from the video is that no one should ignore the red flags you see before marriage no matter the man of God that nudges you on or any so-called prophecy that you must marry a particular person.
I think you guys were never married because the first girl you married had already married before (traditional marriage)..
But your understanding about marriage is disturbing, and that is why you married an already married woman instead of telling her to return to her husband, who she wedded traditionally.
Coming on TV and saying that divorce is not sin and remarrying after divorce is not sin is like rewriting the bible. If you are no more comfortable with the teachings of the bible, you should go start your own religion.
Hear the word of the Lord
Malachi 2:16 “For the LORD God of Israel says That He hates divorce, For it covers one’s garment with violence,” Says the LORD of hosts. “Therefore take heed to your spirit, That you do not deal treacherously.”
Luke 16:18 Whosoever putteth away his wife, and marrieth another, committeth adultery: and whosoever marrieth her that is put away from her husband committeth adultery.
Romans 7:2 For the woman which hath an husband is bound by the law to her husband so long as he liveth; but if the husband be dead, she is loosed from the law of her husband. 7:3 So then if, while her husband liveth, she be married to another man, she shall be called an adulteress: but if her husband be dead, she is free from that law; so that she is no adulteress, though she be married to another man.
Deep
Chaiiiiiiiiii
You have truly been through a lot Papa. May the Lord Heal you Completely
Thank you for being you Dr Olumide God will continue to bless and strength you and your ministry
Chai this man has suffered!!! Wow!!
Your ministry is born out of your mystery…hmmmmm
Wow!!
But pastor kingsley collect from pastor olumide in this interview sha.. i am sure pastor kingsley go reach house massage him body. I have a friend like that, if him dey talk, i dey go far make person no come use beating kill me in d name of narrating story.. lol….
This was so educative ❤😂😂😂😂😂😂
I can relate… divorce I painful. Especially when you love your partner. Its been 4 years since my divorce I have not gotten over it . I have tormenting dreams. I miss my family. Everyone has spoken to her, our pastors have spoken to her she still won't come back. Divorce is bad. if you can still work on your marriage please do. Put your best in it.
There are loads to learn from this video, however, wetin una two dey chop, you really full.
Thank you for sharing sir, I went through the same and divorced, I can relate… Encouraged…
Divorce and remarriage REMAINS a SIN !!. The word of God cannver be changed by any pastor no mattet how influencial he may be.
In order to learn from history, you must document it,learn from it, so that history doesn't repeat itself.
Wow! Amazing Dr Olumide…..
We need to listen to her own side of the story, I can't believe you alone, you are a human being like me.
You might not agree, it is most likely she was heavily under an influence. But most people won't agree.
Dear Pastor Olumide the Lord will help your ministry work . Your children will definitely look for you at the appointed time. May God Bless you and keep you in Jesus Name Amen. I can feel your pain
I think I understand his pain. When you are tried in the area you think is your strength. I believe God will heal you Sir. I know this.
It is well😢
God help me too
I also caused my hubby pain too. But when the Lord showed me my wrong i became so sad.
I didnt even know that i was destroying my home.
My hubby and i are sperated but i pray God restores us. Amen
Man of God saw the red flags but ignored. God was gracious enough to show him the red flags before marriage but he ignored.
Wow i have had pastor Olumide as a mentor for a while now. Listening to this i now know where the wisdom is coming from, experience is the best teacher indeed
Lord have mercy..
We thank God for his grace over Dr Olumide life , I wish I could hear the woman's story .
Omo! X 1000
This life testimony is a blessing to the body of Christ
Can I now say after listening to your divorce experience that our destinies will always meet us despite our faith and believes. The story of Job can't be left out in this case.
Thanks!
There are always different sides to this story. I believe your wife had her obvious faults but I also hope you didn't take advantage of them to cause her emotional damage. Most abuse are not physical. Some are emotional blackmail. I believe if there is more love, it could heal even a damaged person.
I went though the exact same thing a year ago. They are called narcist. The earlier you get out of such relationship the better for you .I remembered how I use to beg for peace…They always think they are better than you and being with you was just a privilege for you, All your effort and opinion will never count, they will rather seek validation elsewhere..last part no matter the effort you put in that relationship it will never be enough.
The truth is that Pastor Olumide married a Narcissist! Unfortunately many christians and Pastors know nothing about Narcissism! A Narcissist is unmarriageable! No matter how long you keep up with them they must dump you! Currently they wrecking havoc in Christian marriages and leave marriage counsellors and Pastors confused! They are strange human beings! Half demon! Half human! They are from hell!
Pastor sir when I listened to this other pastors testimony, I was wondering in my heart because he said God gave him that wife , the scriptures says the blessings of God makes rich he adds no sorrow to it . If there was challenges from the devil I believe God will never let him down , because he God says I am God of all flesh is there anything too hard for me JEREMIAH 32 V 27 , HE ANDSWERD on the affirmative in chapter 32 v 17 that noting is hard for him , all good and perfect gift commeth from God . Psalm 138 v 8 says God shall perfect that which concerns us . If he claimed he heard from God that that was his wife I wonder why he now finally gave up , not handling all to God , God says my blessings make rich I add no sorrow to it .
Scriptures says all good and perfect gift commeth from God
You are supposed to know she has been possessed with a spirit husband, principalities,so you married someone else's woman. She needed to get delivered.that is why she was getting angry always
I am pastor Tony Uwaibi, please she is also extremely dehumanized by Spirit of marine spirit the most terrible spirit
What he came out to say if not because I know God personally I would have been discouraged in Christian faith , I know God will never forsake his children that cries to him deeply , if he says he can't get to his kids anymore, if he deeply talks to jehovah on those kids matter God will make them Call him and they will relate very well , I know jehovah he makes wars to cease , brakes the bows , and sett chariots on fire , please sir I deeply felt his pain tell him , God I know turns things around for Good .
I understand his pain
She was not healed.
I pray God healed her in Jesus name (Amen).
Sir,were you led to marry this woman?
Na man turn this woman to something else.
I have lived and worked with divorcees.
Many are just product of heart breaks who did not heal.
Such great similarity in the story
So men sef they ignore red flag….ooga o
Sir thank God for your story
I once a victim 2017
Hmmnnn some women re just problem to them self
1 Corinthians 7:39 – The wife is bound by the law as long as her husband liveth; but if her husband be dead, she is at liberty to be married to whom she will; only in the Lord.
Mark 10:12 – And if a woman shall put away her husband, and be married to another, she committeth adultery.
Romans 7:2 – For the woman which hath an husband is bound by the law to her husband so long as he liveth; but if the husband be dead, she is loosed from the law of her husband.
1 Corinthians 7:10-14
10 And unto the married I command, yet not I, but the Lord, Let not the wife depart from her husband:
11 But and if she depart, let her remain unmarried or be reconciled to her husband: and let not the husband put away his wife.
To Pastor Dr. Olumide Emmanuel,
Dear sir,
I'm greatly humbled to hear of your marital testimony directly from you for the very first time in decades of listening to you.
My humble observations from my personal convictions are as follows:
Marriage is a Sacred Divine Institution. As a Sacred Institution, it's terms of admittance is set my The Most High Jesus Christ, The Supreme CEO of the Marriage Institution.
In Luke 16:18, The Most High Jesus Christ clearly Said: "ANYONE who DIVORCES his wife and MARRIES another woman COMMITS ADULTERY, and the man who MARRIES a DIVORCED woman COMMITS ADULTERY."
In Mark 10:11-12, The Most High Jesus Christ also Said, "ANYONE who DIVORCES his wife and MARRIES another woman COMMITS ADULTERY against her. And if she DIVORCES her husband and MARRIES another man, she COMMITS ADULTERY."
From the Authority of The Very Words of The Most High Jesus Christ, I humbly submit to you, sir, that your first marriage was an adulterous and sinful marriage since the woman you married had divorced three times.
This culture of returning dowry is invalid before God. "He that puts his hand in the plough and looks back is not fit for the kingdom."
It is the current woman that you married that is your FIRST LEGITIMATE wife before God if she is not a divorcee.
I don't know if it was because the first one had an American citizenship that you were carried away about marrying her so that your kids will have American citizenship.
That lady was just a vampire. She behaved like a typical ungodly American woman who has no regards for anyone. They are mostly vampires who come to kill, steal and destroy.
I give God all the GLORY for saving you from an adulterous relationship in the name of marriage. God really loves you specially, sir!
It is now that you are correctly and Legitimately married in the eyes of God.
In Genesis 17:1, God told father Abraham, of blessed and beautiful memory, "…WALK BEFORE ME AND BE THOU PERFECT…"
The Most High Jesus Christ is The One Who gives us the Constitution to live by. Not this corrupt constitution of mere mortals that legalizes rebellion and abomination against the Consuming Fire.
It is either God's Wonderful Way or we all perish. God is the Ancient of Days and so are all His Ways. His Word does not bend to accommodate anyone. It is either His Way or we perish. Our predicament cannot change God's Word!
I have a lady that we were to get married in the early 2000. She has British citizenship. Her parents made the grave mistake of returning back to Nigeria in the early 80s when people don't need visa to travel to UK.
Things went very bad for them and poverty struck them like a roaring lion to the point that they could not pay rent.
Someone accommodated them in a one small room. They had 6 lovely kids. 2 in UK and 4 in Nigeria.
It was where I was to deliver the British-Nigerian girl from being raped was where we became friends, the parents knew me and they will not let me go. The more I don't want to come closer, the more they wanted me desperately but sincerely.
They were Christians. We became friends. She fell in love with me and I was strict about the opposite relationship. We got along all the same.
We courted. I was told their whole story by her parents. I was so angry that her family members and denomination refused to help them by sending the Britons back to UK after decades as they were financially capable even if it was on credit. They could pay back. But Nigerian primitive wickedness didn't allow them.
I supported them greatly. Sponsored a business for her now late father, a British trained engineer, that yielded 1.8million in 1999 from where they were returned back to UK after 3 years of knowing them.
She wholeheartedly promised to be faithful and good to me. But just few months in UK, she opened up to someone who disvirgined her, got her pregnant and she returned my ring in cold-blood and she married him with brazen and mindless audacity. Everyone was shocked at what she had turned into.
Friends in Nigeria from both family were transfixed in cold consternation by her brazen wickedness.
I got so afraid of women that I became more Heavenly focused and passionate. After all, marriage is not a commandment.
She and her brother went back in January 2000. Before then, I sent her for analogue typing training where she did marvelously well and then, computer training in 1998 where she greatly excelled. She was so proficient in typing that she almost doesn't make mistakes unless the manuscript has mistake in it. This talent helped her greatly in UK when she traveled in 2000.
Few years later, she divorced her husband and wanted me back which she told me directly. I shared The Master's Command with her about divorce and remarriage in Luke 16:18 and Mark 10:11-12.and she wasn't happy at all. Today, she's cohabiting with another man and giving birth to children.
But more sadly, for her 23 years in UK together with her brother, they have never sent me one cent not even when I had serious financial challenges.
So, divorce and remarriage is a great sin before The Ancient of Days, unless either of the couple is dead.
Me am not ready to go to Hell Fire for any reason at all, however small. We are even more closer to Hell Fire than Heaven since Hell Fire is under the earth. I can't take the risk to gamble with my soul. Any scriptural issue that is contentious, it is better to be on the safe side than to risk it. We are talking about EVERLASTING LIFE here o.
It is better I get to Heaven and The Most High Jesus Christ tells me that Apostle Paul was right if I had married a divorced woman, than to be told that His Verdict in Mark 10:11-12 and Luke 16:18 were irrefutable. I cannot risk it ooo… He has the Final Say o.
It is far better to remain single o than to marry a divorced man or woman.
But I profusely THANK GOD who graciously delivered you from an adulterous marriage and now you are rightly and legitimately married before God.
Congratulations, sir!
Wonderful! Thanks Pastor OE and Pastor K
There are many Christian husbands suffering for all these Please Help them !