Men shouldn't pursue wahmen. Men should allow women to come to them, and then choose from there, which one is the best. Pursue a wahman, and your life will be ruined.
"At this point you've probably dated a lot…" no sir, I have not. Do I know what I want in a woman, yes a godly one. Beyond that, kind still figuring that out… but I know a few things.
I've only dated two girls in my life the first girl just like me for me and then the second girl I didn't really get along with her that much didn't really understand what it was all about dating at the time but now I'm 23 and never had a girl since so I don't even know where to even start
Ok, first off, there's a new thing called "the talking stage," It's another human form way of how to get a love partner, dating, courting, and arranged marriage isn't biblical its human methods and strategies to get marriage and relationship started, the bible never directly said we must only stick to this person and focus on her or him unless it's your wife or husband, so the truth is if you like it or not its ok to look for other options as long as the principle of the goldem rule is followed but the motive is were it can lead to sin but should not be intended for sexual immorality, the bible never said anything else, everything else is opinion and I respect yours that's personal of your own method (romans 14), but truthfully in this time and age the best advice any Christian can give is to learn to adapt and let the principles of the word of God guide the way how you adapt to fulfill a desire God placed in your heart if it's a relationship or a job
But in this time and age a lot of things culture explain aren't even directly said in the bible, so whats wise is to use biblical principles, so in most cases sexual immorality is wrong so friends with benefits and stuff like that should be out the window
Being a 40 year old single Christian man with no kids who’s done it all wrong in a multitude of approaches, my whole preconception of dating in general is really in question. I’m starting to wonder if being celibate is even enough, and if dating should resemble something closer to a friendship without any intimacy at all. In my experiences I’ve come to realize whatever level of bond you develop with a partner inversely affects your future relationships. I feel like the only way to not negatively impact future relationships is to completely avoid emotionally bonding with a dating partner until you propose. And, yeah I know, that doesn’t seem to make a whole lot of sense either. I’m lost 🤷♂️🤣
Dude I sliped up and told her would you like our marriage to be with a lot of people or just family she was a lil flabergasted then I pđayed it off as a man with the plan
A few days ago I asked out two different girls with this same line. “Hey would you, not now but a few years into the future, want to get married and have a dozen children?” Haha both no’s, but that’s ok.
Personally I’m torn between my desire for a wife and children and a desire especially as a new Christian to spend more time just God and I. I’ve only just started to feel His joy and it’s beautiful.
Growing up I was the primary male role model for 3 different broken families. It frankly made me hate women, men and mankind frankly. But Jesus has healed me. The wounds are so freshly closed. I don’t think I’m really ready for a relationship.
Not to mention that I’m working on getting my life together after my feet were crushed. I’m working on becoming a bookkeeper so I can have a good earning part time career whilst I continue to do insane amounts of rehab & training.
And I know that as a husband I’d be expected to provide. So I’d rather stay single for now until I get my life together to a certain degree.
My pastor told me that him & his wife got married and neither of them even had jobs. That seems so foreign to me. Seems to be that all that was required was genuine faith in Christ. But these days it seems a lot more transactional.
I mean it’s fair enough I suppose.
I’ve met many women who’ve been interested but women are scary. They can get pregnant! Who knew lol. But seriously I avoided sex and dating as much as I could in my youth and my head feels like it’s about to pop off sometimes. But I’m trying to have faith in Gods timing because I avoided opportunities for so long and so I don’t want to make a rushed decision. I’m turning 30 this year and I’m happy to wait till 35. Even 40. Even though the twitch in my brain is telling me otherwise lol.
Yeah this is toward the men. However, Christian men, protect your heart first with your intention. Lots of Christian women out there are not always what she display. Some want to just eat at your table and not put anything on it. Be careful men.
Dating on the other side of divorce…is a whole LOT different than 20 years ago as a single person. In short… whatever you thought you knew, through it out.
You can have all of the attributes that she finds attractive, give her space, don't give her space…be upfront with intentions, develop a safe friendship…it's all relative to her experience and healing or lack there of.
How are people so casual in this topic? “God knows my heart” , It’s between me and God”, “I repented”, “well so and so did things wrong got pregnant and now married”… All of this as they are casually “dating” and in full fornication. No one bats an eyelash at church anymore, and church leaders and influencers seldom address this. The brothers at church are in full fornication, and still desire a godly woman… I don’t understand 🤯
Meanwhile, me, being as clear as possible: hey, just want to let you know that I’m interes- Girl in church: nope. Me: 😮 *felt like she just stomp on my heart right there
I just met a woman about a month ago and I believe she’s the woman that God has for me. I’ve been very open, honest and clear about my intentions. That is one of the things that she likes the most about me. I just told her yesterday that she’s the woman that I’m going marry and look in her eyes was of pure joy. God is good. She is such a godly woman. She puts the Lord first in her life. She has all the fruits of the spirit. She’s patient, understanding, kind, gentle, submissive, and everything just clicks between us.
Ladies y’all need to stop with the hopelessness. Godly single men exist. They might be rare but they are no rarer than Godly single women. I get it though. I’m a 24 year old single God fearing man sometimes I think I’ll never find a Single Godly woman, but that belief is an arrogant one to hold.
“Look here, you who say, “Today or tomorrow we are going to a certain town and will stay there a year. We will do business there and make a profit.” How do you know what your life will be like tomorrow? Your life is like the morning fog—it’s here a little while, then it’s gone. What you ought to say is, “If the Lord wants us to, we will live and do this or that.” Otherwise you are boasting about your own pretentious plans, and all such boasting is evil.” James 4:13-16
Women want the men with the biggest bag and how much cash and prizes she can lift Christian women are no better than non christian I do not need to protect them
These guys are so out of touch.
Needed this! Thank you brother Alan!
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Its always the men's fault , women are never to blame
Yes will I stay the side chick or are you getting a divorce and wife-ing me
Men shouldn't pursue wahmen. Men should allow women to come to them, and then choose from there, which one is the best. Pursue a wahman, and your life will be ruined.
Where the whole video?
"At this point you've probably dated a lot…" no sir, I have not. Do I know what I want in a woman, yes a godly one. Beyond that, kind still figuring that out… but I know a few things.
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I been single my whole life bruh im just done being lonley
So tell a women your intentions without even knowing them? Walk up to a random women in church and tell her your intentions?
Denzel Washington
How am i supposed to be better at finding a significant other if im alone
Does anyone have insight in the millennial kingdom on earth
are we going to be able to marry and have kids with our glorified bodies
What if I’m only 16 but im to lonely to wait until im 18
Theology of the body is great on this stuff
Very informative
I've only dated two girls in my life the first girl just like me for me and then the second girl I didn't really get along with her that much didn't really understand what it was all about dating at the time but now I'm 23 and never had a girl since so I don't even know where to even start
Ok, first off, there's a new thing called "the talking stage," It's another human form way of how to get a love partner, dating, courting, and arranged marriage isn't biblical its human methods and strategies to get marriage and relationship started, the bible never directly said we must only stick to this person and focus on her or him unless it's your wife or husband, so the truth is if you like it or not its ok to look for other options as long as the principle of the goldem rule is followed but the motive is were it can lead to sin but should not be intended for sexual immorality, the bible never said anything else, everything else is opinion and I respect yours that's personal of your own method (romans 14), but truthfully in this time and age the best advice any Christian can give is to learn to adapt and let the principles of the word of God guide the way how you adapt to fulfill a desire God placed in your heart if it's a relationship or a job
But in this time and age a lot of things culture explain aren't even directly said in the bible, so whats wise is to use biblical principles, so in most cases sexual immorality is wrong so friends with benefits and stuff like that should be out the window
You look like Denzel Washington 😮
This dude hates women and can barely control his temper in alot of videos, so that I'm shocked he even posts it. This is not someone to follow.
RC Sproul once said men are most impacted by being fired and divorce, and he prepares years for his job but hardly studies for marriage
Alhamdulillah
Amen
Being a 40 year old single Christian man with no kids who’s done it all wrong in a multitude of approaches, my whole preconception of dating in general is really in question. I’m starting to wonder if being celibate is even enough, and if dating should resemble something closer to a friendship without any intimacy at all. In my experiences I’ve come to realize whatever level of bond you develop with a partner inversely affects your future relationships. I feel like the only way to not negatively impact future relationships is to completely avoid emotionally bonding with a dating partner until you propose. And, yeah I know, that doesn’t seem to make a whole lot of sense either. I’m lost 🤷♂️🤣
Dude I sliped up and told her would you like our marriage to be with a lot of people or just family she was a lil flabergasted then I pđayed it off as a man with the plan
Sadly this is happening in the church and it is very disheartening. I expect more from my Christian brothers.
A few days ago I asked out two different girls with this same line. “Hey would you, not now but a few years into the future, want to get married and have a dozen children?” Haha both no’s, but that’s ok.
Personally I’m torn between my desire for a wife and children and a desire especially as a new Christian to spend more time just God and I. I’ve only just started to feel His joy and it’s beautiful.
Growing up I was the primary male role model for 3 different broken families. It frankly made me hate women, men and mankind frankly. But Jesus has healed me. The wounds are so freshly closed. I don’t think I’m really ready for a relationship.
Not to mention that I’m working on getting my life together after my feet were crushed. I’m working on becoming a bookkeeper so I can have a good earning part time career whilst I continue to do insane amounts of rehab & training.
And I know that as a husband I’d be expected to provide. So I’d rather stay single for now until I get my life together to a certain degree.
My pastor told me that him & his wife got married and neither of them even had jobs. That seems so foreign to me. Seems to be that all that was required was genuine faith in Christ. But these days it seems a lot more transactional.
I mean it’s fair enough I suppose.
I’ve met many women who’ve been interested but women are scary. They can get pregnant! Who knew lol. But seriously I avoided sex and dating as much as I could in my youth and my head feels like it’s about to pop off sometimes. But I’m trying to have faith in Gods timing because I avoided opportunities for so long and so I don’t want to make a rushed decision. I’m turning 30 this year and I’m happy to wait till 35. Even 40. Even though the twitch in my brain is telling me otherwise lol.
Am I tripping? What happened to this guys voice
Yeah this is toward the men. However, Christian men, protect your heart first with your intention. Lots of Christian women out there are not always what she display. Some want to just eat at your table and not put anything on it. Be careful men.
i dont think so there is a wife for me in this stupid world. FR.
Dating on the other side of divorce…is a whole LOT different than 20 years ago as a single person. In short… whatever you thought you knew, through it out.
You can have all of the attributes that she finds attractive, give her space, don't give her space…be upfront with intentions, develop a safe friendship…it's all relative to her experience and healing or lack there of.
How are people so casual in this topic? “God knows my heart” , It’s between me and God”, “I repented”, “well so and so did things wrong got pregnant and now married”… All of this as they are casually “dating” and in full fornication. No one bats an eyelash at church anymore, and church leaders and influencers seldom address this. The brothers at church are in full fornication, and still desire a godly woman… I don’t understand 🤯
Meanwhile, me, being as clear as possible: hey, just want to let you know that I’m interes-
Girl in church: nope.
Me: 😮
*felt like she just stomp on my heart right there
I just met a woman about a month ago and I believe she’s the woman that God has for me. I’ve been very open, honest and clear about my intentions. That is one of the things that she likes the most about me. I just told her yesterday that she’s the woman that I’m going marry and look in her eyes was of pure joy. God is good. She is such a godly woman. She puts the Lord first in her life. She has all the fruits of the spirit. She’s patient, understanding, kind, gentle, submissive, and everything just clicks between us.
This us helpful thanks
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So they're acting like every other guy in the world? Got it
Exactly on point with the message
i move toward a friends first approach, just cause you have chemistry quickly does not mean you are compatible with them and ready to commit.
There can be serious issues with becoming to involved, to fast, But if your dating. your dating to marry.
Why date to marry a person i dont even know?
Ladies y’all need to stop with the hopelessness. Godly single men exist. They might be rare but they are no rarer than Godly single women. I get it though. I’m a 24 year old single God fearing man sometimes I think I’ll never find a Single Godly woman, but that belief is an arrogant one to hold.
“Look here, you who say, “Today or tomorrow we are going to a certain town and will stay there a year. We will do business there and make a profit.” How do you know what your life will be like tomorrow? Your life is like the morning fog—it’s here a little while, then it’s gone. What you ought to say is, “If the Lord wants us to, we will live and do this or that.” Otherwise you are boasting about your own pretentious plans, and all such boasting is evil.”
James 4:13-16
🙏🙏🙏💯 Absolutely! Thank you, 😊
Are Christians supposed to date in the first place 🤔?
Women want the men with the biggest bag and how much cash and prizes she can lift Christian women are no better than non christian I do not need to protect them
So what if you have never dated and have no experience whatsoever in dating?
Amen 🙏🏿