dating q&a from a Christian perspective! this is a q&a video sharing my advice and opinions on your dating questions. I talked …
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I hope you guys enjoy a bit of a different video about dating! Timestamps below for specific questions! Thanks to everyone for asking questions, praying this helps some of you out.
1:52– Advice for waiting for the one when you’ve been single? 3:31– How to avoid idolizing your significant other? 4:58– Should you date someone who doesn’t share the same faith as you but supports your beliefs? 7:22– What boundaries should you put up while dating? 10:57– How to not compare your relationship to other Christian relationships? 12:29– Why would someone do premarital counseling? Is it helpful? 13:22– Is it okay if I expect support to be reciprocated and not one party fully supporting the other solely? 14:50– Can you spend too much time with your significant other? 15:19– How to discern confusion when dating someone who doesn’t have clear intentions? 16:28– How has your faith strengthened your relationship? 17:35– How to handle dating around and not finding someone who fits?
I was about to date a non-believer then I realized it isn't worth it. My boundaries/moral beliefs doesn't align with his. I'll continually pray for a Godly guy and wait.
That's a funny email. Every sermon I've been to about this topic stresses the man's role and more often then not only the man's role. We are called the knuckle heads, the undeserving etc. And that once we take the position we must love and by love I mean being permissive about everything without power to correct or to escape. One preacher said that quoting scripture to an abberent wife is abuse. Yet somehow we need to be spiritual leaders as well. Everything is on us yet in the modern church we have no agency. Everything and anything is our fault and if you go to counseling they will tell you to love more and man up. Right now I'm firmly in monk mode. I understand why the apostle Paul did what he did and said what he said. I can think of no reason to teather myself to another human being that would be of greater value than the kingdom of God. This video is spot on when you say marriage is not the be all end all.
What's really scary are all of the "Christian" girls who are willing to have sex out of marriage… Saying that both Anal, and oral sex are not affecting their pure virginity.
Thank you so so much! That gave me so much strength in my current situation and those were exactly the right words that I needed. I will definitely read the book
Bless you 🙂 Sadly life will teach you that you cant hide behind stories, but anyway… Being truthful to partner and what you expect from them is a nail in this clip 🙂
Chances of finding 'the one' = 7 billion to one. Chances of finding 'the one' who is the following: bible believing, pure, intelligent, educated, cultured, beautiful, funny = zero. Wow, my happiness on Christmas Eve is painfully low. Soul mates???? I spend more time with the squirrels in my garden! Michelle, you are beautiful though and articulate.
Hi Michelle, just a minor correction, you are saved by accepting Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior AND repenting of your sins. 😁 Since you got married two years ago, I just wanted to say congratulations! I hope you and your husband have a fantastic Godly marriage!! 😇😇
Let Gods spirit dictate what is good and evil. Counseling is not needed, boundaries not needed, prayer always when the spirit leads. Allow God to guide you snd your spouse to prevent humanstic christianity. Jesus died for our sins so lets be obedient not sinfully disruptful. Congratulations be fruitful and mutiply!
John 3:16 “For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life
I hope you guys enjoy a bit of a different video about dating! Timestamps below for specific questions! Thanks to everyone for asking questions, praying this helps some of you out.
1:52– Advice for waiting for the one when you’ve been single?
3:31– How to avoid idolizing your significant other?
4:58– Should you date someone who doesn’t share the same faith as you but supports your beliefs?
7:22– What boundaries should you put up while dating?
10:57– How to not compare your relationship to other Christian relationships?
12:29– Why would someone do premarital counseling? Is it helpful?
13:22– Is it okay if I expect support to be reciprocated and not one party fully supporting the other solely?
14:50– Can you spend too much time with your significant other?
15:19– How to discern confusion when dating someone who doesn’t have clear intentions?
16:28– How has your faith strengthened your relationship?
17:35– How to handle dating around and not finding someone who fits?
I am new here and I love God!!
How do I find the words to tell her….?
I'm in love with stacie's brother…..
Thank you!!
1:32 me and other Born Again Christian men watching 💔 lol but Anyway congratulations sister 😁👍
I was about to date a non-believer then I realized it isn't worth it. My boundaries/moral beliefs doesn't align with his. I'll continually pray for a Godly guy and wait.
That's a funny email. Every sermon I've been to about this topic stresses the man's role and more often then not only the man's role. We are called the knuckle heads, the undeserving etc. And that once we take the position we must love and by love I mean being permissive about everything without power to correct or to escape. One preacher said that quoting scripture to an abberent wife is abuse. Yet somehow we need to be spiritual leaders as well. Everything is on us yet in the modern church we have no agency. Everything and anything is our fault and if you go to counseling they will tell you to love more and man up. Right now I'm firmly in monk mode. I understand why the apostle Paul did what he did and said what he said. I can think of no reason to teather myself to another human being that would be of greater value than the kingdom of God. This video is spot on when you say marriage is not the be all end all.
Michelle you’re sooo pretty 💕I listen to your podcast and never knew what you looked like
I'm not Christian or religious at all but I appreciate this point of view and your advice because I am tired of hook up culture.
The idolizing your significant other question is actually a good question, I never thought about it.
Why find "the one" when you can find many. Lol.
If you are a Christian.
Dating?
That's the Worlds way
Courtship is closer to a Christian way.
1st get things in order.
God 1st
Love Him, Love Yourself
If you DONT have those 2
Settled.
DO NOT MOVE FORWARD.
1st
Is God you Lord?
Do you know what that MEANS.
NOT just EMPTY WORDS.
Soul Mates.
The Worlds Terms again.
Do we " choose " how we live?
Or have we DIED to SELF.
We SURRENDER our life to God.
He PAID THE ULTIMATE PRICE IN LOVE.
DIED FOR YOU.
so He OWNS US.
if we believe and accept His Sacrifice.
Then its Christ who LIVES in US.
NOT US WHO LIVE.
He will PROVIDE ALL OUR NEEDS.
wants are ANOTHER THING.
What
Who
Why
We WANT
Is USUALLY OUR FLESH.
Depend on God to MEET YOUR NEEDS.
Not a Spouse.
Primary NEEDS God provides
Secondary NEEDS spouse provides
ONLY what God CALLS FOR US TO MEET FOR OUR SPOUSE.
and vice versa.
Love
God is Love and DEFINES LOVE.
Be YOURSELF.
act and be WHO God created you to be.
NOT ACT OR PERFORM TO
WIN who you WANT.
God DOESNT give you a spouse who is IDENTICAL to YOU.
if so YOU WOULD NEED THEM.
Different on purpose.
Would you listen to your friends on Having Heart Surgery
Or someone who is Educated and Skilled in the area you NEED.
As a teen I hated my parents.
I was Unplanned and Unloved in their
House.
I DIDNT have God then.
I DID IT SO WRONG.
40 years later I look back at ALL THE WRECKAGE
And wish I had Loving, open
Transparent parents who actually LOVED ME.
I'm living it for ALL MANKIND.
Love OTHERS.
Joseph
God provided for him.
He Loves Joseph and He met his NEEDS.
What's really scary are all of the "Christian" girls who are willing to have sex out of marriage… Saying that both Anal, and oral sex are not affecting their pure virginity.
So very wise. Loved this video, especially when you discussed boundaries. Keep up the great work!
Amen! Know the honeymoon phase will die, there are no "soul mates," and love is committing to the choice you've made!
So good Michelle!
Thank you so so much! That gave me so much strength in my current situation and those were exactly the right words that I needed. I will definitely read the book
So much wisdom in this video, the Holy Spirit so clearly speaks through you 🙂 Thank you for sharing
I love your sharing Michelle:) Thanks and God bless your marriage
Bless you 🙂 Sadly life will teach you that you cant hide behind stories, but anyway… Being truthful to partner and what you expect from them is a nail in this clip 🙂
Chances of finding 'the one' = 7 billion to one. Chances of finding 'the one' who is the following: bible believing, pure, intelligent, educated, cultured, beautiful, funny = zero. Wow, my happiness on Christmas Eve is painfully low. Soul mates???? I spend more time with the squirrels in my garden! Michelle, you are beautiful though and articulate.
Thank you 🎉
I feel like some of y’all are brainwashed by your pastor
Hi Michelle, just a minor correction, you are saved by accepting Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior AND repenting of your sins. 😁
Since you got married two years ago, I just wanted to say congratulations! I hope you and your husband have a fantastic Godly marriage!! 😇😇
P.S Great video. Thank you for making it.
Let Gods spirit dictate what is good and evil. Counseling is not needed, boundaries not needed, prayer always when the spirit leads. Allow God to guide you snd your spouse to prevent humanstic christianity. Jesus died for our sins so lets be obedient not sinfully disruptful. Congratulations be fruitful and mutiply!
How do you know if you are ready to have a Christain Boyfriend?
What are the signs that a guy really like you??
John 3:16
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life
i have a question but it’s been two years since this video so i’m not sure if you will answer it
Very helpful!!🙌🏻🙌🏻