I agree discipline is good but if that’s all a child (9 year old step son) gets and never gets any one on one fun time, then that’s not good. My daughter is 27, her new husband will be 22 the end of the month. They live with me. My grandson really wants “his dad” to spend time with him but he says he’s depressed and needs to play his video games with his friends so he can have a distraction. He has been doing this since Christmas break and it’s almost the end of Jan. My daughter is pregnant too and starting to feel neglected. He laughs and seems like he’s having a great time when he’s playing games and my daughter had a friend and her boyfriend come over to visit and my daughter’s husband laughed and seemed fine with them. I’m wondering if he just doesn’t like her son. I could tell this morning my grandson was very sad. I asked him and he said cause his “dad” wasn’t spending time with him. Of course he was playing a game online with his friend instead. My heart is sad for my grandson who just wants time. Any suggestions?
I grew up in a broken home. My knowledge of disciplining my daughter is sorely lacking. I know I can’t spare the rod but how do I know if I’m being to rough with her? The thought that I scare her worries me sick, she’s a 3 year old.
I don’t know how to do this right. My son is disrespecting his teachers. Not extreme but any comments are disheartening that we are doing the wrong thing
Wow that woman laughing and saying to the Pastor's son that he sounds so old, like he's 60. Her words. More of the reason youth do not respect those that are according to scripture, over them in the Lord. She sits at that table, but she is part of the problem. No respect for her elders.
Hopefully you see this comment as this video was posted over a year ago but, if you could do an episode on disciplining toddlers, that would be really helpful. Godly and appropriate discipline and consequences. Your episode on older children that you can explain, talk out, teach and guide in conjunction with the consequences was great. But translating that to 1 and 2 and even 3 year olds is leaving unanswered question. Would really love your input.
I realized that I respond to my son in particular to my own trauma. I love him so much, when I see him going down a familiar path, men in my family have gone down, I internally panic. The panic it comes out in a horrible tone and it backfires badly. I prayed today and the Holy Spirit directed me to the story of Cain and Able. While I was listening to the audio story, I thought. God was patient, even though Cain did something horribly and he still gave consequences. The Holy Spirit spoke to me that I should do things with love, no matter what! Love and patience, even when he messes up. I do this long enough, my son will see Gods love through me and he will be ok. Praise God and his guidance!
God pray that l would go to Lighthouse for another 50 years and pray that from now on till l die when l go to Lighthouse that l would have Godly behavior.
Praise God for giving us wisdom how to raise our kids best! I therefore bind one to desire to know how one must discipline one's children with love and care while binding to hell every lack of desire to know how one must discipline one's children with love and care in my life, the lives of my family, friends, colleagues, neighbours, acquintances, opponents, the children I teach and the body of Christ, binding to hell every unequal yoke and common share with anyone lacking desire for me, oneself or another to know how one must discipline one's children with love and care, in accordance with this word and proverbs 27:5, ephesians 6:4, luke 6:38, 2 corinthians 6:14-18 in the name and blood of Jesus Christ, amen and hallelujah, glory to God ❤.
It's really sad that people will dismiss authors like John Rosemond, Dr. James Dobson, and Dr. Kevin Leman because of preconceived beliefs about discipline lacking love, compassion, and understanding. It seems that people prefer to ignore where these authors emphasize discipline paired with love and leadership, and instead choose to see what they want to see (what they've made their minds up about these authors based on online misguided reviews).
so many of us parents wonder how to raise our kids with wisdom and not frustration. I used to react too quickly and felt guilty afterward. I wanted to lead with grace but didn’t know where to start. When I discovered the bbook 1-Minute Family Devotions by Simonette Vincent, it helped me slow down and see parenting in a different light. It gave me hope and practical inspiration that changed our family dynamic. My kids started opening up more, and even our nights feel more peaceful. That obook has been such a gift to our home.
I learned parenting young spirits is earlier than we think. We had seasons where prayer felt rushed or skipped. Now even one minute holds meaning because parents sit too. The bbook 1-Minute Family Devotions by Simonette Vincent helped us find that gentle rhythm, slow not rushed.
7yr old with all these spiritual senses? Seems overhyped, self elevation. A lot of past spiritual sensitivity imparting is actually reverse grandfathering into the past what someone has currently.
I am concerned that it’s not the trend to discipline our kids these days, I want to raise kids who will be soldiers in the spiritual life, not snowflakes – surely that’s what the enemy wants! But with love and perseverance – this is a great talk, exactly the balance we need. I’ve read in parent examination of conscience that it’s also sinful not to discipline our kids when appropriate, letting them indulge in certain matters etc. Please let’s speak more about this
IT'S REALLY BIBLICAL: YOU NEED TO DISCIPLINE YOUR CHILDREN.
I'm still single and no children. But I use to help my parents for my siblings. And I don't let them to follow their own way if they are wrong. Becauae I scared for my parents if they want to hurt them and I will just follow because I don't want my parents pinching me and my siblings always because pinching pain or hurt me a lot! It is better ro follow my parents as we FOLLOW G✝️D COMMANDMENTS. That's why I told to my siblings to follow our parents and when I was in 20 years old. I am praying to have a HOLY BIBLE. AND THEN OUR GOOD GOOD HEAVENLY FATHER DADDY, DEAR LORD G❤️🩹D JESUS CHRIST ALMIGHTY✝️HELP ME AND USE MY FRIEND one OF MY Co/Worker. DURING MY BIRTHDAY ON DECEMBER 20, I RECEIVED A GIFT. WHEN I OPEN IT THE BOX IT WAS A HOLY 📚BIBLE. I start to read from: Genesis to Revelation for 8 years through prayers and fasting for my secret to understand HIS VERY WORD. Now I grow my Fath.
WHEN I READ THE HOLY 📚BIBLE. I LEARNED A LOT! WHEN I AM READING FOR MANY YEARS. WITH PRAYERS AND FASTING IN MY SECRET. I CAME TO KNOW MORE OUR DEAREST HEAVENLY DAD, LORD G❤️🩹D JESUS CHRIST ALMIGHTY❤️🩹TO FOLLOW HIM AND MY PARENTS. BECAUSE WHEN I WAS BORN MY PARENTS ONLY WITH ME AND G✝️D WITH ME. I WAS BORN, MY MOTHER GIVE BIRRH TO ME JUST QUICKLY. NO NURSE, NO DOCTOR ONLY MY MOTHER MAKE IT EVERYTHING AND MY FATHER ASSIST HER ONLY. I AM GRATEFUL AND THANKFUL FOR MY PARENTS THAT I AM THE 3RD DAUGHTER OF MY PARENTS AND WE ARE 13 SIBLINGS AND 13 CHILDREN OF OUR DAD AND MOM/MUM. I help them a lot when theur first born died at 6 years old. And the 2nd daughter went to study in another city and I was study in our village and with my other siblings and more to my my parents to plan corn, and vegetables and help for their another children. I PRAISE AND THANKSGIVING TO OUR HEAVENLY DAD, LORD G❤️🩹D JESUS CHRIST ALMIGHTY✝️FOR WE ARE NOT A BROKEN FAMILY.
In Pagadian City, Mindanao-Philippines 🇵🇭 we don't have a housemaid or a nanny. And I am the one the 3rd daughter help a lot to my parents. For everything. Farm, household chores, help my siblings to feed, washing our clothes with own my hands because no washing machine and I need to help my parents to harvest our farm, cooking, help the animals to feed. Like, Carabao, Goat, pig, dog and cat. Taking the round tember to make fire wood because we don't have a gasol or gas for cooking. Bringing water like 2 hours for drinking water. To many works I have to help my parents. When I see the Vision OF OUR HEAVENLY FATHER DAD, LORD G❤️🩹D JESUS CHRIST ALMIGHTY📚HE SAID, COME AND FOLLOW ME, LIKE 3 TIMES. CLOUDS FORM A MAN AND CALLING ME. That's I am prayingvto have the HOLY📚BIBLE. through prayers. GOD USE MY friend. LIKE HOW BORN AGAIN CHRISTIAN WORSHIP HIM IN SPIRIT AND IN TRUTH. I WENT AND FIND THAT CHURCH AND BAPTISED IN HIS HOLY NAME JESUS CHRIST IS THE LORD G❤️🩹D ALMIGHTY. THE HOLY BIBLE IT'S TRUELY OUR ETERNAL LIFE. Be save today. Tommorow it's too late! JESUS SAVES….JESUS SAVES….OUR GODLY THEME SONGS…. THANK YOY LORD G❤️🩹D JESUS CHRIST FOR SAVING MY SOUL from hell and lake of fire! YES AND AMEN AND HALLELUJAH…
I’m struggling with dealing with my 13 yr old stepson. He’s been living with us for a year now. He previously lived with his mother and had no rules, no discipline, didn’t even go to school for over 2 years. I am a mother of 4 adult sons and raised my children completely different. My husband said he never has had to spank his son. It’s driving me crazy that he has talks but there’s no change. My step son has been suspended 5 times this year. I take things away from him, game, tv etc. he continues to get in trouble. He hates that I get on to him. He paints me out as the evil step mother. All I do is what any other mother would do. The difference is it’s steady everyday correction because he’s never had that living with his mother. I’m so exhausted. It’s taking a toll on my marriage. Me and my husband have been together for only 2 years and this is all making me bitter and angry. I can’t do the soft parenting like my husband does. I pray and God does give me peace on hard days. I know he’s going through puberty and I do give him grace when he tries to be a smart mouth. It’s the lack of discipline from my husband that drives me crazy.
This is what Proverbs says about raising children: ㅤ Proverbs 20:11 11 Even a child is known by his doings, whether his work be pure, and whether it be right. ㅤ Proverbs 22:15 15 Foolishness is bound up in the heart of a child; The rod of correction will drive it far from him. ㅤ ㅤ Proverbs 22:6 6 Train up a child in the way he should go, And when he is old he will not depart from it. ㅤ Proverbs 13:24 24 He who spares his rod hates his son, But he who loves him disciplines him promptly. ㅤ ㅤ Proverbs 23:13 13 Do not withhold correction from a child, For if you beat him with a rod, he will not die. ㅤ Proverbs 23:14 14 You shall beat him with a rod, And deliver his soul from hell. ㅤ Proverbs 29:17 17 Correct your son, and he will give you rest; Yes, he will give delight to your soul.
Considering how loud and proud John has always repeated all of Bill Gothards teaching on family, I’d advise never listening to a word he says on how to treat children
WOOOOAHHHHHH I AM ONLY AT 2:38 AND WOW SO SO CONVICTED!!! JESUS!!! THAT IS A WHOLE SERMON!!! TRYING TO RUSH THE PROCESSING IN OUR CHILDREN THAT GOD HIMSELF IS DOING. WOWO WOWOWOW. THIS IS REALLY MESSING ME UP. can we have an altar call after this lol omgosh. i am scared to even keep going cause i might be on the floor ugh. Jesus. this is going to mess me up in the best way possible. i came here because i am so lost on my parenting. i need Jesus to intervene ASAP and you start off the video like this?? wow….sigh…
What about all the studies that show otherwise?
Godly Discipline:
#DONOTbeARubyFrankeoraJodiHildebrandt.
Ever.
All actions are caused by your actions from yesterday.
Firmly. Clearly. Lovingly.
I rebuke the spirit of ruby franke and jodi hildebrandt
I agree discipline is good but if that’s all a child (9 year old step son) gets and never gets any one on one fun time, then that’s not good. My daughter is 27, her new husband will be 22 the end of the month. They live with me. My grandson really wants “his dad” to spend time with him but he says he’s depressed and needs to play his video games with his friends so he can have a distraction. He has been doing this since Christmas break and it’s almost the end of Jan. My daughter is pregnant too and starting to feel neglected. He laughs and seems like he’s having a great time when he’s playing games and my daughter had a friend and her boyfriend come over to visit and my daughter’s husband laughed and seemed fine with them. I’m wondering if he just doesn’t like her son. I could tell this morning my grandson was very sad. I asked him and he said cause his “dad” wasn’t spending time with him. Of course he was playing a game online with his friend instead. My heart is sad for my grandson who just wants time. Any suggestions?
Great talk about discipline without a single example. Learned a lot 👌🏾 lol
I’m just here wondering what the WWE phrase was that he said?
I grew up in a broken home. My knowledge of disciplining my daughter is sorely lacking. I know I can’t spare the rod but how do I know if I’m being to rough with her? The thought that I scare her worries me sick, she’s a 3 year old.
I don’t know how to do this right. My son is disrespecting his teachers. Not extreme but any comments are disheartening that we are doing the wrong thing
I thought this was Paul washer at first glance
All the boys used to say that lol it was ridiculous
Wow that woman laughing and saying to the Pastor's son that he sounds so old, like he's 60. Her words. More of the reason youth do not respect those that are according to scripture, over them in the Lord. She sits at that table, but she is part of the problem. No respect for her elders.
Hopefully you see this comment as this video was posted over a year ago but, if you could do an episode on disciplining toddlers, that would be really helpful. Godly and appropriate discipline and consequences. Your episode on older children that you can explain, talk out, teach and guide in conjunction with the consequences was great. But translating that to 1 and 2 and even 3 year olds is leaving unanswered question. Would really love your input.
I realized that I respond to my son in particular to my own trauma. I love him so much, when I see him going down a familiar path, men in my family have gone down, I internally panic. The panic it comes out in a horrible tone and it backfires badly. I prayed today and the Holy Spirit directed me to the story of Cain and Able. While I was listening to the audio story, I thought. God was patient, even though Cain did something horribly and he still gave consequences. The Holy Spirit spoke to me that I should do things with love, no matter what! Love and patience, even when he messes up. I do this long enough, my son will see Gods love through me and he will be ok. Praise God and his guidance!
Where is the rest 😢😢😢😢😢of
God pray that l would go to Lighthouse for another 50 years and pray that from now on till l die when l go to Lighthouse that l would have Godly behavior.
Do not with- hold discipline from your son; if you beat him with a rod, he will not die" (Prov 23:13).
I have a out of control 14 year single parent freaking aweful to deal with his rebellion
Ee can pray that our children get what they need 💙 u r welcome in the Catholic church:)
If you don't disipline your children, the world will, and will do it without any love or compassion.
It’s very hard for me to talk to my kids they don’t listen
He said Pastor Al Brice is my pastor in Fayetteville NC, covenant live church. Amen.
Does the word of God support a husband spanking his wife I thought that at first nylon my husband is painting when I misbehave
My dad abandoned me and my step dad molested me I need prayers because I am suffering from bitterness and hatred because of it
Could mothers and fathers touch and agree with me please 🙏🏽❤️✝️🫶🏽🙌🏽
I pray my children are able to forgive me and other who have harmed them In whatever way
Dad looks so proud
Praise God for giving us wisdom how to raise our kids best! I therefore bind one to desire to know how one must discipline one's children with love and care while binding to hell every lack of desire to know how one must discipline one's children with love and care in my life, the lives of my family, friends, colleagues, neighbours, acquintances, opponents, the children I teach and the body of Christ, binding to hell every unequal yoke and common share with anyone lacking desire for me, oneself or another to know how one must discipline one's children with love and care, in accordance with this word and proverbs 27:5, ephesians 6:4, luke 6:38, 2 corinthians 6:14-18 in the name and blood of Jesus Christ, amen and hallelujah, glory to God ❤.
As a parent I think I didn’t to hear this❤
Yes. This is helpful. God bless you all
When discipline lacks love it becomes abuse
Proverbs 27:5, had the numbers mixed up
It's really sad that people will dismiss authors like John Rosemond, Dr. James Dobson, and Dr. Kevin Leman because of preconceived beliefs about discipline lacking love, compassion, and understanding. It seems that people prefer to ignore where these authors emphasize discipline paired with love and leadership, and instead choose to see what they want to see (what they've made their minds up about these authors based on online misguided reviews).
so many of us parents wonder how to raise our kids with wisdom and not frustration. I used to react too quickly and felt guilty afterward. I wanted to lead with grace but didn’t know where to start. When I discovered the bbook 1-Minute Family Devotions by Simonette Vincent, it helped me slow down and see parenting in a different light. It gave me hope and practical inspiration that changed our family dynamic. My kids started opening up more, and even our nights feel more peaceful. That obook has been such a gift to our home.
I learned parenting young spirits is earlier than we think. We had seasons where prayer felt rushed or skipped. Now even one minute holds meaning because parents sit too. The bbook 1-Minute Family Devotions by Simonette Vincent helped us find that gentle rhythm, slow not rushed.
Never spank! If you spank a child you’re an abuser 😡😡. Shame on you 🤮🤮🤮
7yr old with all these spiritual senses? Seems overhyped, self elevation. A lot of past spiritual sensitivity imparting is actually reverse grandfathering into the past what someone has currently.
The word of God does not tell you to spank your children.
"Better is an open rebuke than hidden love." Proverbs 27:5
I am concerned that it’s not the trend to discipline our kids these days, I want to raise kids who will be soldiers in the spiritual life, not snowflakes – surely that’s what the enemy wants! But with love and perseverance – this is a great talk, exactly the balance we need. I’ve read in parent examination of conscience that it’s also sinful not to discipline our kids when appropriate, letting them indulge in certain matters etc.
Please let’s speak more about this
Where can I watch the full video?
IT'S REALLY BIBLICAL:
YOU NEED TO DISCIPLINE YOUR CHILDREN.
I'm still single and no children. But I use to help my parents for my siblings. And I don't let them to follow their own way if they are wrong. Becauae I scared for my parents if they want to hurt them and I will just follow because I don't want my parents pinching me and my siblings always because pinching pain or hurt me a lot! It is better ro follow my parents as we FOLLOW G✝️D COMMANDMENTS. That's why I told to my siblings to follow our parents and when I was in 20 years old. I am praying to have a HOLY BIBLE. AND THEN OUR GOOD GOOD HEAVENLY FATHER DADDY, DEAR LORD G❤️🩹D JESUS CHRIST ALMIGHTY✝️HELP ME AND USE MY FRIEND one OF MY Co/Worker. DURING MY BIRTHDAY ON DECEMBER 20, I RECEIVED A GIFT. WHEN I OPEN IT THE BOX IT WAS A
HOLY 📚BIBLE. I start to read from: Genesis to Revelation for 8 years through prayers and fasting for my secret to understand HIS VERY WORD.
Now I grow my Fath.
WHEN I READ THE HOLY 📚BIBLE. I LEARNED A LOT! WHEN I AM READING FOR MANY YEARS. WITH PRAYERS AND FASTING IN MY SECRET. I CAME TO KNOW MORE OUR DEAREST HEAVENLY DAD, LORD
G❤️🩹D JESUS CHRIST
ALMIGHTY❤️🩹TO FOLLOW HIM AND MY PARENTS.
BECAUSE WHEN I WAS BORN MY PARENTS ONLY WITH ME AND G✝️D WITH ME.
I WAS BORN, MY MOTHER GIVE BIRRH TO ME JUST QUICKLY. NO NURSE, NO DOCTOR ONLY MY MOTHER MAKE IT EVERYTHING AND MY FATHER ASSIST HER ONLY. I AM GRATEFUL AND THANKFUL FOR MY PARENTS THAT I AM THE 3RD DAUGHTER OF MY PARENTS AND WE ARE 13 SIBLINGS AND 13 CHILDREN OF OUR DAD AND MOM/MUM. I help them a lot when theur first born died at 6 years old. And the 2nd daughter went to study in another city and I was study in our village and with my other siblings and more to my my parents to plan corn, and vegetables and help for their another children. I PRAISE AND THANKSGIVING TO OUR HEAVENLY DAD, LORD
G❤️🩹D JESUS CHRIST ALMIGHTY✝️FOR WE ARE NOT A BROKEN FAMILY.
In Pagadian City, Mindanao-Philippines 🇵🇭 we don't have a housemaid or a nanny. And I am the one the 3rd daughter help a lot to my parents. For everything. Farm, household chores, help my siblings to feed, washing our clothes with own my hands because no washing machine and I need to help my parents to harvest our farm, cooking, help the animals to feed. Like, Carabao, Goat, pig, dog and cat. Taking the round tember to make fire wood because we don't have a gasol or gas for cooking. Bringing water like 2 hours for drinking water. To many works I have to help my parents. When I see the Vision OF OUR HEAVENLY FATHER DAD, LORD
G❤️🩹D JESUS CHRIST ALMIGHTY📚HE SAID, COME AND FOLLOW ME, LIKE 3 TIMES. CLOUDS FORM A MAN AND CALLING ME. That's I am prayingvto have the HOLY📚BIBLE. through prayers. GOD USE MY friend. LIKE HOW BORN AGAIN CHRISTIAN WORSHIP HIM IN SPIRIT AND IN TRUTH. I WENT AND FIND THAT CHURCH AND BAPTISED IN HIS HOLY NAME JESUS CHRIST IS THE LORD G❤️🩹D ALMIGHTY.
THE HOLY BIBLE IT'S TRUELY OUR ETERNAL LIFE. Be save today. Tommorow it's too late! JESUS SAVES….JESUS SAVES….OUR GODLY THEME SONGS…. THANK YOY LORD
G❤️🩹D JESUS CHRIST FOR SAVING MY SOUL from hell and lake of fire! YES AND AMEN AND HALLELUJAH…
I’m struggling with dealing with my 13 yr old stepson. He’s been living with us for a year now. He previously lived with his mother and had no rules, no discipline, didn’t even go to school for over 2 years. I am a mother of 4 adult sons and raised my children completely different. My husband said he never has had to spank his son. It’s driving me crazy that he has talks but there’s no change. My step son has been suspended 5 times this year. I take things away from him, game, tv etc. he continues to get in trouble. He hates that I get on to him. He paints me out as the evil step mother. All I do is what any other mother would do. The difference is it’s steady everyday correction because he’s never had that living with his mother. I’m so exhausted. It’s taking a toll on my marriage. Me and my husband have been together for only 2 years and this is all making me bitter and angry. I can’t do the soft parenting like my husband does. I pray and God does give me peace on hard days. I know he’s going through puberty and I do give him grace when he tries to be a smart mouth. It’s the lack of discipline from my husband that drives me crazy.
This is what Proverbs says about raising children:
ㅤ
Proverbs 20:11
11 Even a child is known by his doings,
whether his work be pure, and whether it be right.
ㅤ
Proverbs 22:15
15 Foolishness is bound up in the heart of a child;
The rod of correction will drive it far from him.
ㅤ
ㅤ
Proverbs 22:6
6 Train up a child in the way he should go,
And when he is old he will not depart from it.
ㅤ
Proverbs 13:24
24 He who spares his rod hates his son,
But he who loves him disciplines him promptly.
ㅤ
ㅤ
Proverbs 23:13
13 Do not withhold correction from a child,
For if you beat him with a rod, he will not die.
ㅤ
Proverbs 23:14
14 You shall beat him with a rod,
And deliver his soul from hell.
ㅤ
Proverbs 29:17
17 Correct your son, and he will give you rest;
Yes, he will give delight to your soul.
Considering how loud and proud John has always repeated all of Bill Gothards teaching on family, I’d advise never listening to a word he says on how to treat children
WOOOOAHHHHHH I AM ONLY AT 2:38 AND WOW SO SO CONVICTED!!! JESUS!!! THAT IS A WHOLE SERMON!!! TRYING TO RUSH THE PROCESSING IN OUR CHILDREN THAT GOD HIMSELF IS DOING. WOWO WOWOWOW. THIS IS REALLY MESSING ME UP. can we have an altar call after this lol omgosh. i am scared to even keep going cause i might be on the floor ugh. Jesus. this is going to mess me up in the best way possible. i came here because i am so lost on my parenting. i need Jesus to intervene ASAP and you start off the video like this?? wow….sigh…
Is there a full episode of this?
I love this but I need real concrete examples of what was said.