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  1. Questions to answer to understand better yourself between at 31:0043:00
    1. Who is the person that you admire the most? and what qualities draw you to that person?

    2. What is your biggest trait and pattern among the members of your family?

    3. What book has shaped your philosophy of life aside the Bible?

    4. Who is the most important person in my life and why?

    5. Who is the person that has the capacity to get me angry and why?

    6. How much money is enough for you and why?

    7. If you are left with one day in your life what will you do

    8. What quality do you like the most in your father

    9. What quality do you like the most in mother

    10. What quality do you not like in your father

    11. What quality do you like not in your mother

    12. Have you attracted people with qualities you do not like?

    13. Which role should you play for your partner? and what the three most important things you will provide for the person

    14. What role should your family play in your marriage?

    15. What if conflict arises between your spouse and members of your family? How will you intervene it

    16. What dream do you want to achieve the most in your life as an individual?

    17. Place this in order of priority for spirituality in your life ( Reading the bible, praying and worship God, going to church)

    18. How do you manage conflict?

    19. Are you a spender or a saver?

    20. Where does your money go to the most?

    21. Who has made you feel the most loved and what did they do to make you feel loved?

  2. S or D or N (Similar, Different) between you and the person you aspire to marry
    1) Family socio-economic background
    2) Level of intelligence
    3) Formal education
    4) Expected roles for both person in marriage
    5) Views of power distribution between the family
    6) Views on raising children
    7) Political philosophy
    8) Views about alcohol and partying
    9) Views about involvement with inlaws
    10) Views about punctuality
    11) Views about sense of humor
    12) Views about how friendship with the opposite sex to be handled
    13) Views about level of ambition
    14) Views and attitude about weight
    15) Views about spiritual beliefs
    16) Views about church involvement
    17) Views about handling sickness
    18) Views about amount of money to be given
    19) Views about verbal intimacy
    20) Views about physical intimacy

  3. Thank you Pastor Poju for uploading this video.
    It has brought to my consciousness that I have to know myself better in order to identify the person fitted for me. I will take some time later in the evening to answer the questions.

  4. Thank you for speaking about emotional health. I desire to be an emotional healthy person that I regulate and in control of my emotions (practicing kindness while maintaining boundaries)

    Thank you Lord for this sermon. Father, I desire your guidance, favor and wisdom in my choice of a partner and marriage flood me with your light. Father , I pray that you enable to practice daily the virtues of kindness and temperance till it becomes part of me.

    Lord for every single person trusting you about marriage, May you open their eyes as they seek your guidance, refine their character and align their paths with that of their spouse. In Jesus Name. Amen!

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