Hi everyone! In this video Ernesto and I share some of the dating boundaries that we have established in order to wait until …

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  1. wow, that sentence "if someone is forcing you to do something they don't truly love you" hit me really hard. im in a relationship with someone that has been really pushing me to be social and finding people to rely on instead of allowing God to bring the right people. to bring me to a place where she not just the only person i go to. i see the good in this and there has been other areas of my life she is trying to push for me to do or have that it makes me feel like its her wanting me to tick off her list of demands. someone please help me with some advice here?! and yes she is a born again Christian and loves God

  2. Can you do a video or put this in a Q&A…. I’m unclear on boundaries for cuddling. Like what is too much? I know it’s kinda of a intimate thing but me and my bf have boundaries still and we are in the same page for the most part. But it’s just one of those things that I’m ok most of the time but other times I question if God is ok with it even if it does not give us temptation for sex

  3. I’ve never read this in the Holy Scriptures—just many words taught by preachers. The Lord does not mention it in his word or pull up anyone for sex before marriage. So, I say, why sweat about it? Enjoy your freedom in God.

  4. Hi everyone! Quick UPDATE: A few months after making this video the Holy Spirit convicted both Ernesto and I to stop kissing all together… this may or may not be something others feel convicted to do but we certainly did and since this video is all about boundaries we wanted to give that update because God has changed our hearts & minds in regards to that area of boundaries– and it might help you to consider having this boundary as well! Of course, we are not saying "don't kiss" or "do kiss", but rather pray about it to see what the Holy Spirit is leading you and your boyfriend or girlfriend on doing in regards to the boundaries to have in your relationship.

    If you'd like to hear more on why me made this decision, you can watch us talk about it in this video: https://youtu.be/zEZH1I7VgTE?t=710

  5. Not a problem for me! I despise today's dating scene and have no plans to look for a relationship. I have been single and celibate most of my life, and now I want to remain as a single person free of dating, looking at them with lust, and sexual relations. I have been celibate for several years now.

  6. The Holy Spirit definitely wasn't leading me to kiss, it was my flesh still in control, because kissing stirs up sexual desires and prepares the body for sex and that's exactly what we had sex, therefore kissing is a boundary I set. I don't play around with kissing when dating no more, it led me to a big sex hole.

  7. Kissing? No, please don't. Anything that would sadden the Holy Spirit is a no for me. This time around, my flesh is crucified, i want to honour God more than pleasing my flesh. Thanks God, my boyfriend supports this too. We will kiss on our Wedding day in Jesus's name

  8. God Condones Child Rape
    No.s 31: 17-18

    God Condones Rape
    Deut. 22: 28-29

    God Condones Abortion
    No.s 5: 11-31

    Unquestioning Obedience to Government
    Rom.s 13: 1-7

    The highest Abrahamic value is Ignorance of Good and Evil. It's right there in Genesis. You worship Yaldabaoth.

  9. Mam, i believe in my god and i love my Christ.
    I like one of the boy even their are christian and i am dating.
    But the thing is that i never being so close or i won't allow myself to kiss or hold him.
    I don't know i feel like its against to god.
    The person use to say that you don't like or love me i guess.
    What should i do?
    Should i continue or leave mam
    Let me know…

  10. Cheating is a personal decision. Some people will never cheat no matter how hard things are; others will always cheat no matter how good they have it.

    This is where true beauty comes in!

    Beauty isn't about having a pretty face. It's about having a pretty mind, a pretty heart, and a pretty soul.

    ✨ if you played your part and loved someone with all your heart

    ✨ if you spoke on your feelings & tried to communicate

    ✨ if you waited for change & none came

    it’s not your loss, it’s theirs. let go, heal, & move on to someone that deserves you.

    You deserve someone who you were created for and who was created for you, to understand and love you properly

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