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  1. I'm currently grounded, I'm on my sister's phone, I use video games as a stress relieving thing and to control my anger and to help control my ADHD, but my parents take it away whenever I get bad grades instead of talking to me about it and helping me get better with doing my work in school, I honestly hate how they think there doing something by taking my stuff

  2. i feel bad reading these comments. sure, some are relatable, but it's sad to think that sometimes you really can't communicate with your parents. things are awkward with my mum, but i can trust my dad a lot and they both make me feel happy (and annoyed at times, too). to those stuck with toxic parents/families, i hope your situation gets better.

  3. I really feel so terrible for the kids/teens who can't communicate with their parents well. I am one of six and I feel so loved by everyone in my family, it really pains me to know that not everyone feels that love.

  4. For those who do want kids in the future despite all these parent experiences…practice gentle parenting. Gentle parenting itsn't letting your child, adopted or not, walk all over you but instead gentle parenting sets boundaries without being strict and it about creating a safe enviornment emotionally for your child.

    An example: your toddler is throwing a tantrum because they suddenly upset and to them, being so young, this is the worst thing in the world and all they want is water. But, they aren't vocalizing this because they are so frustrated that it's so hard for their minds to think of how to vocalize this frustration. All you do is you hold them firmly but not tightly and let them throw the tantrum but in a controlled way. Then validate their feelings and calm them down, being as patient as possible, giving them all the time they want to calm down, and give physical representation of breathing patterns and such to calm them quicker because an example of what you expect is better than just telling. You validate their feelings the whole time by saying things like; "I understand you're frustrated but what can I do to help?" and anything similar. Then, once they've calmed down, calmly ask what they want and in a more upbeat tone, you and your kid go to the kitchen and get water after your kid finally has answered in a calmer manner they want water.

    This, gentle parenting, this gives you an amazing relationship in the future and lets your kid be open about feelings with you. It validates they have feelings and those feelings are heard, and teaches them how to work through these feelings to a better conclusion.
    There are gentle parenting tik toks if you want a visual representation of it

  5. i had to tell my mom today that i’ve tried so hard to be trustworthy and if she keeps saying i’m not i’m bout to start acting like it.. bc what’s the point i’m trying so hard if your never gonna trust me

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