The first part in a series by Pastor Steve and Bobi Whinery about how to raise children of all ages in a godly manner with practical …
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I am confused about how much the grandparents should be involved in the kids. I believe that grandparents should be involved, but not to the point of enabling the parents responsibility . I know grandparents should love and support a Godly life. But in some cases it's easier for the parents to allow the grandparents to do the will of God and actually have to raise them. So my question is how far is the grandparents to go before you're actually enabled the parents? My wife and grandparent puts the kids first and being a wife last. Am I wrong, as I have prayed about this for years? Help my marriage and family as what is the will of God on this topic!!! God bless all!!!
The only reason a parent would resent a child doing what they want and going thier own way is if the parent is dissatisfied with the amount of children they have. If they had more children, they would be satisfied with them because one would come along and fit the description of what they are missing out on.
John 4:7 Dear friends, let us love one another, for love comes from God. Everyone who loves has been born of God and knows God.
I know my Father is incomplete without my Mother, and I would not have been raised in heaven on earth without my Father treating my Mother how he would want to be treated. The spirit of God is not restricted to a specific gender. It moves through every living thing.
God is life, and through love the spirit is expressed by the combination of all three. When my Father, and Mother where married she took his name. Jesus is a man, and he was hung on the cross for the sin of inequity. He was betrayed, and the truth was silenced. I come in peace sent by the deeds of my Father. I am NOT here to change Moses law, and I mean you no harm.
John 4:4 We know that we live in him and he in us, because he has given us of his Spirit.
Keep in mind the disciples did betray Jesus, and a Father who loves his children respects the Mother of his children. He would not hollow out her value, and replace it with a ceramic statue. We are children of God. God is love not suffering, and death.
The Father contains the spirit of Jesus. The Mother is the Lord. Christ are the children on earth. Together as one body we are the Lord Jesus Christ. I heal you, and keep you safe from harm. I am forgiving, and I love unconditionally. I grew up to be just like my parents.
John 4:13 We know that we live in him and he in us, because he has given us of his Spirit.
The subconscious of humanity has been reprogrammed to put the son in the place of the female. As a result you have transgender bathrooms, older men molesting boys, sex change operations, gay marriages, the mother's are doing the Father's job, children are left unsupervised to raise themselves, the whole world is tilting on it's axis, the climate is bad, we are all starving for love, and everyone is wondering where is God. The opposite polarity is missing from the trinity.
Even though my husband and I are both Christians we don't see eye to eye on parenting. We are a blended family and he believes that his children are his children and not our children and because he is the head of the home, that he should be able to parent them however he chooses to do so with no regards to how I feel about it. As much as I tried to be submissive and quiet about his lax approach to parenting I could no longer keep quiet when a certain incident happened with his teen daughter and I expressed to him in a calm way that I felt like his "punishment" was too light on her. Because I do not agree with how he disciplines his children he has asked for a divorce and refuses to work it out. For anyone reading this, please pray for us, please pray for the Lord to soften his heart and for YHWH to remove any blockages that he has spiritually. Thank you.
The Gospel of salvation of our souls: 💜💕💜💖💞💜💕For what I received I passed on to you as of [first importance]: that Christ died for our sins according to the Scriptures, that he was buried, that he was raised on the third day according to the Scriptures, and that he appeared to Peter, and then to the Twelve. After that, he appeared to more than five hundred of the brothers and sisters at the same time,
“Father, I know that I have broken your laws and my sins have separated me from you. I am truly sorry, and now I want to turn away from my past sinful life toward you. Please forgive me, and help me avoid sinning again. I believe that your son, Jesus Christ died for my sins, was resurrected from the dead, is alive, and hears my prayer. I invite Jesus to become the Lord of my life, to rule and reign in my heart from this day forward. Please send your Holy Spirit to help me obey You, and to do Your will for the rest of my life. In Jesus' name I pray, Amen"
The absolute worst type of abuse that can be inflicted upon children is that of psychological abuse, far more damaging than even physical abuse, Christians seem to believe they have a right to terrorize the young pliable minds of children with stories of people being burned alive and continually tortured for eternity if they don`t fall into line and worship a mysterious entity that nobody has ever seen, would you subject your children to hours of the most realistic horror movies such as the Evil Dead series or the Texas Chainsaw Massacre and then expect your kids minds to not be affected? well the equivalent of that scenario is to give them hours and hours of horror stories about what will happen to them if they don`t love an invisible man who lives in the sky and dedicate their whole lives to the promotion of that belief. The sanity of whole generations is being put at risk by the vivid imaginations of religious fanatics all over the world, Don`t believe me? take the case of a young 11 year old child in Iran who suffered from Downs Syndrome, she was found absentmindedly tearing pages out of the Qur`an, the howling mob were intent on lynching her on the spot and she was only saved by a Police Officer who barricaded her inside a police station to protect her, later she would be convicted and sentenced to death for Blasphemy (since commuted) This is a prime example of what happens when generations of children are brainwashed from birth and grow up to follow any religious doctrine, The whole world is suffering from severe mental breakdown and religion plays a large part as a cause of this malady.
Wow. You don't seem very humble. Do you always want to be right? It seems it is impossible to please you. Sounds like you want a project or a convert not a child and parent relationship. I will pray for you and your family.
Thank you so much for this ministry, I might not know where to look but have been searching for ministry about raising my daughter biblically and found little to no resources this has blessed me I have a true medical miracle daughter and from the day I found out I was pregnant I surrounded her to God and asked him to guide me in scripture and through Holy Spirit to bring her up not according to the world but according to the Bible. But I am so aware of my iniquities and I need ministry like this to confirm the truth not shy away from it.
I remember reading scriptures of my own parenting one day "Honor your father and your mother so the Lord will give you life in the land you live; If he who is not with sin let him be the first to throw a stone." If I was father I'd never want to throw a stone to my own son or daughters I don't want them to remember me as a mad father I keep loving them as I love my girlfriend who I hope to have her as my wife.
First off, Judas Iscariot did humble himself and repented from his actions and look where that got him. When you truly repent you repent unto God not thyself. So how can this be accomplished if you haven’t believed in him FIRST?
While I cannot fully agree in his theology (overall I can indeed) this was excellent and very helpful! Thank you 😊 Romans 15:13 I go to a CC as well in Texas
A very good exercise to do is break a calendar down into awake hours per day and identify how much time your children are being discipled by other people, and try to identify where you actually fit in on raiding and discipling your children. Luke 6:40 tells us “A student is not above his teacher, but everyone when he is fully trained will be like his teacher.” Are you able to compete adequately for the minds of your children? How can you get more time with them?
This is an exercise to do alone and ideally if you’re married, to do with your partner.
Good message. I have a temper, an easy thing to have with three toddlers, but it is unacceptable to God. I need to do better. I'm going to make a huge picture in a main area that says "love joy peace PATIENCE KINDNESS goodness faithfulness GENTLENESS and SELF CONTROL" Maybe that will help me remember to stop and pray about it.
I am confused about how much the grandparents should be involved in the kids. I believe that grandparents should be involved, but not to the point of enabling the parents responsibility . I know grandparents should love and support a Godly life. But in some cases it's easier for the parents to allow the grandparents to do the will of God and actually have to raise them. So my question is how far is the grandparents to go before you're actually enabled the parents? My wife and grandparent puts the kids first and being a wife last. Am I wrong, as I have prayed about this for years? Help my marriage and family as what is the will of God on this topic!!! God bless all!!!
The only reason a parent would resent a child doing what they want and going thier own way is if the parent is dissatisfied with the amount of children they have.
If they had more children, they would be satisfied with them because one would come along and fit the description of what they are missing out on.
Proverbs 22:6 King James Version (KJV)
6 Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it.
Are you washed in the Blood of the Lamb ?
1 Corinthians 15:1-4 KJV
Romans 5:9 KJV
John 4:7 Dear friends, let us love one another, for love comes from God. Everyone who loves has been born of God and knows God.
I know my Father is incomplete without my Mother, and I would not have been raised in heaven on earth without my Father treating my Mother how he would want to be treated. The spirit of God is not restricted to a specific gender. It moves through every living thing.
God is life, and through love the spirit is expressed by the combination of all three. When my Father, and Mother where married she took his name. Jesus is a man, and he was hung on the cross for the sin of inequity. He was betrayed, and the truth was silenced. I come in peace sent by the deeds of my Father. I am NOT here to change Moses law, and I mean you no harm.
John 4:4 We know that we live in him and he in us, because he has given us of his Spirit.
Keep in mind the disciples did betray Jesus, and a Father who loves his children respects the Mother of his children. He would not hollow out her value, and replace it with a ceramic statue. We are children of God. God is love not suffering, and death.
The Father contains the spirit of Jesus. The Mother is the Lord. Christ are the children on earth. Together as one body we are the Lord Jesus Christ. I heal you, and keep you safe from harm. I am forgiving, and I love unconditionally. I grew up to be just like my parents.
John 4:13 We know that we live in him and he in us, because he has given us of his Spirit.
The subconscious of humanity has been reprogrammed to put the son in the place of the female. As a result you have transgender bathrooms, older men molesting boys, sex change operations, gay marriages, the mother's are doing the Father's job, children are left unsupervised to raise themselves, the whole world is tilting on it's axis, the climate is bad, we are all starving for love, and everyone is wondering where is God. The opposite polarity is missing from the trinity.
What is my name? Any guesses?
Even though my husband and I are both Christians we don't see eye to eye on parenting. We are a blended family and he believes that his children are his children and not our children and because he is the head of the home, that he should be able to parent them however he chooses to do so with no regards to how I feel about it. As much as I tried to be submissive and quiet about his lax approach to parenting I could no longer keep quiet when a certain incident happened with his teen daughter and I expressed to him in a calm way that I felt like his "punishment" was too light on her. Because I do not agree with how he disciplines his children he has asked for a divorce and refuses to work it out. For anyone reading this, please pray for us, please pray for the Lord to soften his heart and for YHWH to remove any blockages that he has spiritually. Thank you.
The Gospel of salvation of our souls: 💜💕💜💖💞💜💕For what I received I passed on to you as of [first importance]: that Christ died for our sins according to the Scriptures, that he was buried, that he was raised on the third day according to the Scriptures, and that he appeared to Peter, and then to the Twelve. After that, he appeared to more than five hundred of the brothers and sisters at the same time,
“Father, I know that I have broken your laws and my sins have separated me from you. I am truly sorry, and now I want to turn away from my past sinful life toward you. Please forgive me, and help me avoid sinning again. I believe that your son, Jesus Christ died for my sins, was resurrected from the dead, is alive, and hears my prayer. I invite Jesus to become the Lord of my life, to rule and reign in my heart from this day forward. Please send your Holy Spirit to help me obey You, and to do Your will for the rest of my life. In Jesus' name I pray, Amen"
The absolute worst type of abuse that can be inflicted upon children is that of psychological abuse, far more damaging than even physical abuse, Christians seem to believe they have a right to terrorize the young pliable minds of children with stories of people being burned alive and continually tortured for eternity if they don`t fall into line and worship a mysterious entity that nobody has ever seen, would you subject your children to hours of the most realistic horror movies such as the Evil Dead series or the Texas Chainsaw Massacre and then expect your kids minds to not be affected? well the equivalent of that scenario is to give them hours and hours of horror stories about what will happen to them if they don`t love an invisible man who lives in the sky and dedicate their whole lives to the promotion of that belief. The sanity of whole generations is being put at risk by the vivid imaginations of religious fanatics all over the world, Don`t believe me? take the case of a young 11 year old child in Iran who suffered from Downs Syndrome, she was found absentmindedly tearing pages out of the Qur`an, the howling mob were intent on lynching her on the spot and she was only saved by a Police Officer who barricaded her inside a police station to protect her, later she would be convicted and sentenced to death for Blasphemy (since commuted) This is a prime example of what happens when generations of children are brainwashed from birth and grow up to follow any religious doctrine, The whole world is suffering from severe mental breakdown and religion plays a large part as a cause of this malady.
Wow. You don't seem very humble. Do you always want to be right? It seems it is impossible to please you. Sounds like you want a project or a convert not a child and parent relationship. I will pray for you and your family.
Wow… “woe be unto women/moms”…
I love this teaching. It blessed my family. Thank you sir
Thank you so much for this ministry, I might not know where to look but have been searching for ministry about raising my daughter biblically and found little to no resources this has blessed me I have a true medical miracle daughter and from the day I found out I was pregnant I surrounded her to God and asked him to guide me in scripture and through Holy Spirit to bring her up not according to the world but according to the Bible. But I am so aware of my iniquities and I need ministry like this to confirm the truth not shy away from it.
This is vary good expecally in recent days of the world
Thank you for this brother. I know that if i take advice from God, even if, its correction, things will be ok. ❤
Where does the Bible say that God wants your kids to be Evangelists??
I remember reading scriptures of my own parenting one day
"Honor your father and your mother so the Lord will give you life in the land you live;
If he who is not with sin let him be the first to throw a stone."
If I was father I'd never want to throw a stone to my own son or daughters I don't want them to remember me as a mad father I keep loving them as I love my girlfriend who I hope to have her as my wife.
First off, Judas Iscariot did humble himself and repented from his actions and look where that got him. When you truly repent you repent unto God not thyself. So how can this be accomplished if you haven’t believed in him FIRST?
Wish I had heard this 18 years ago when my first daughter was born. I pray God forgives me for the late start.
While I cannot fully agree in his theology (overall I can indeed) this was excellent and very helpful! Thank you 😊 Romans 15:13 I go to a CC as well in Texas
A very good exercise to do is break a calendar down into awake hours per day and identify how much time your children are being discipled by other people, and try to identify where you actually fit in on raiding and discipling your children. Luke 6:40 tells us “A student is not above his teacher, but everyone when he is fully trained will be like his teacher.” Are you able to compete adequately for the minds of your children? How can you get more time with them?
This is an exercise to do alone and ideally if you’re married, to do with your partner.
Love love love this! ❤️ thank you for this guidance! Am I the only one hearing talking in the background??
Blessed by the message thank you Holy spirit. For directing me
Great word ❤
Good message. I have a temper, an easy thing to have with three toddlers, but it is unacceptable to God. I need to do better. I'm going to make a huge picture in a main area that says "love joy peace PATIENCE KINDNESS goodness faithfulness GENTLENESS and SELF CONTROL" Maybe that will help me remember to stop and pray about it.