I don't understand, I think I am slow to anger but I always fall short of my own understanding and it's always with the same type of people those who's hearts are as if they where made out of stone and whom talking to them is as if you where talking to a wall and I don't mean people that do something wrong and repent and then do it again I'm talking about people who you try to understand how they think, try to put yourself in their place and have tried everything even giving up on them but it's useless because to them they have done nothing wrong to begin with and now you try to overlap the things they do that affect you by trying to better the situation or ignore it everytime they say/ act wrong, but some day you get tired and sincerely ask why they are the way they are they are, congratulations you have started a discussion, and now I'm stuck here because I can't pray to God if I don't apologize first, and yes I regret but not from the things I said but from the fact I have said them because they are true and I don't think that's enough for me to apologize, but even if they are true i know I'm wrong because she's my mother and even if I can't understand her I still owe her respect π.
After all Jesus had to deal with way worse things and I feel bad that this is even something I'm struggling to deal with.
Mary angry about trees and please pray for me not to be angry with just please pray for me not to be angry with junkies and angry because angry with just please pray for me not to be angry with we've
Yeah so my anger comes from my childhood where i was bullied, abused and s assaulted. So yeah its hard. Im not upset with my kids, im upset with spouse because no mater how much i talk to him, he doesnβt give a shit. Oh and he vapes in the house like its normal when you have 2 kids, sure let them have asthma or whatever. So yeah that anger wants to turn to a big slap! π
I canβt grasp how I LOVE my children SO MUCH, how I would DIE for them, how I would tear the world apart looking for them if they were ever taken from meβ¦ but yet, I yell at them in anger so quickly for the dumbest stuff. Father God, I pray that you would cover me in your peace, patience and understanding. That this sermon and your word would soak into me and create a renewed spirit in me. AMEN! πππΌππΌ
I'm too quick to get angry. With my kids and with their mother. I'm not abusive, I'm no monster, but still, I need to be better. I need to control what instinctually comes flying out of my mouth.
There have been so many times where what I say and how I say it have made a small issue 10 times worse. Theres been so many opportunities to show patience and understanding and instead I've chosen to be angry. It needs to stop.
This is my confession to my peers. Please pray for me. I need to be better.
This is me. When my kid does something wrong I ask him why and he says I donβt know. Or he will say I forgotβ¦ heβs eight. It upsets me . Any advice. Please and thank you to anyone who has advice Iβm trying and Iβm getting to the point where Iβm not wanting to be around my family at times. I feel bad even saying it
Glad we know more about mental health now then we have before. I thought I was just an immature and nasty person. Turns out I have a mental health issue that comes with difficulty with overstimulation. That isnt something that I throw my hands up and say it is what it is. It makes me feel less evil so I can have the clarity to fix it. Its been a hard journey filled with turmoil and difficult emotions though.
I have been thinking such hateful thoughts, being extremely rude and mean, and I honestly just don't care. That's the part that scares me. I want to care, but when I make my mom cry, when I am punished or yelled at, I feel nothing. Help me God, help me control my rage.
I have always struggled with anger , resentments, and unforgiveness. I have been working on it with a therapist and 12 step sponsor, and it is getting better. I was told that resentments only hurt you, not the wrongdoers. I had to write down my resentments and how they affected me to see the damage to motivate me to let go. I also had to write down my part in the resentments so I could see where i was in the wrong, make amends, change behaviors, build my character and reconcile relationships if appropriate. Obviously there are some situations you don't play a part like if you were abused. I really get into psychology and human behavior so I like to understand why people act how they do for example mental illness. It helps to have compassion on them and to wish them well. This is NOT justifying or condoning it just helps to understand, have compassion, and wish them well. Its also not good to get revenge, not only because of consequence but they will get their karma and there will be justice. If it motivates them to change and make amends be happy for them.
im always angry because iv got so called schizophrenia that turned out to be real people really did do this to me and i hate them, iv lost nearly everyone including the girl i loved that cheated then left just cant handle the anger
I often wonder of the apostles, as much as they presumably pulled their hair out back in the day, I do wonder how they would have fared in our modern day. It truly is quite a thought.
I am angry because I am afraid. I have to have control. I trust nothing and no one and this has caused me to lose the people I love which makes me more angry because my biggest fear is being alone. Fear of abandonment. I used to use substances to escape but I gave that up two years ago but the fear and anger is still there. Iβm running around in circles and cannot break the chain. I know God can but will He? Will He leave me to my own demise? Not knowing is what is killing me.
Lord , please grant me the moments clarity necessary between provocation and response. I know I am faulty and that I am too quick to react when triggered and I know that yours is the way of peace . I know my sinful nature opens the window for the adversary to lead my actions . Please help me be slower to react , that I may gain control and do your will. Let me be a vessel of your love , especially in times that I do not want to be . When I desire to feed my anger , remind me that it is like cancer to my soul and that Love and forgiveness is like the rain and sun to that which blooms . I ask only for your hand to gently touch my shoulder when i need a stutter step and I will do my best to recognize it and get out of my own way. I ask this of you Lord Jesus that I may be a better man , and live more in peace. I wish to better do your will and grow closer to you, and believe this prayer to be honest and true to that end. In your name I pray and as always I thank you for blessings and salvation you have given me . Amen
i need prayer please. i came back to Jesus awhile ago but i cant shake this anger and frustration with people. its one of the things left i have trouble controlling. i have prayed and prayed to take this away from me, and i don't want to be this way, but it all just comes out in situations. i feel bad afterword's even though what i say is true. i never used to be like this when i was younger, but after i turned away from God i got bad with it. now that i have come back to God i cant get rid of it no matter how much i pray for it or try. i don't deserve it but please pray to take this anger and frustration away from me. i dont want to treat people like this.
βRighteous anger doesnβt justify unrighteous responses.β βJosh Surratt
I don't understand, I think I am slow to anger but I always fall short of my own understanding and it's always with the same type of people those who's hearts are as if they where made out of stone and whom talking to them is as if you where talking to a wall and I don't mean people that do something wrong and repent and then do it again I'm talking about people who you try to understand how they think, try to put yourself in their place and have tried everything even giving up on them but it's useless because to them they have done nothing wrong to begin with and now you try to overlap the things they do that affect you by trying to better the situation or ignore it everytime they say/ act wrong, but some day you get tired and sincerely ask why they are the way they are they are, congratulations you have started a discussion, and now I'm stuck here because I can't pray to God if I don't apologize first, and yes I regret but not from the things I said but from the fact I have said them because they are true and I don't think that's enough for me to apologize, but even if they are true i know I'm wrong because she's my mother and even if I can't understand her I still owe her respect π.
After all Jesus had to deal with way worse things and I feel bad that this is even something I'm struggling to deal with.
Mary angry about trees and please pray for me not to be angry with just please pray for me not to be angry with junkies and angry because angry with just please pray for me not to be angry with we've
Yeah so my anger comes from my childhood where i was bullied, abused and s assaulted. So yeah its hard. Im not upset with my kids, im upset with spouse because no mater how much i talk to him, he doesnβt give a shit. Oh and he vapes in the house like its normal when you have 2 kids, sure let them have asthma or whatever. So yeah that anger wants to turn to a big slap! π
Jesus Christ please deliver me from bad anger ungodly anger in Jesus name Father GOD in Jesus name π
Thank you ππΎ
Thank you for the comments section itβs good to know I am not alone with this struggle
I canβt grasp how I LOVE my children SO MUCH, how I would DIE for them, how I would tear the world apart looking for them if they were ever taken from meβ¦ but yet, I yell at them in anger so quickly for the dumbest stuff. Father God, I pray that you would cover me in your peace, patience and understanding. That this sermon and your word would soak into me and create a renewed spirit in me. AMEN!
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I'm too quick to get angry. With my kids and with their mother. I'm not abusive, I'm no monster, but still, I need to be better. I need to control what instinctually comes flying out of my mouth.
There have been so many times where what I say and how I say it have made a small issue 10 times worse. Theres been so many opportunities to show patience and understanding and instead I've chosen to be angry. It needs to stop.
This is my confession to my peers. Please pray for me. I need to be better.
This is me. When my kid does something wrong I ask him why and he says I donβt know. Or he will say I forgotβ¦ heβs eight. It upsets me . Any advice. Please and thank you to anyone who has advice Iβm trying and Iβm getting to the point where Iβm not wanting to be around my family at times. I feel bad even saying it
Glad we know more about mental health now then we have before. I thought I was just an immature and nasty person. Turns out I have a mental health issue that comes with difficulty with overstimulation. That isnt something that I throw my hands up and say it is what it is. It makes me feel less evil so I can have the clarity to fix it. Its been a hard journey filled with turmoil and difficult emotions though.
In being "slow to speakβ¦", do we end up being "indecisive"?
Thus afternoon was crazy i hate when people talk to me like, im not anything i feel direspected , naybe defeatedi dnt like the tone
What do you do if you're the person that lives with the angry one
I get out of anger a lot and act disrespectful
And I really really really want to get a good approach to manage anger
I have been thinking such hateful thoughts, being extremely rude and mean, and I honestly just don't care. That's the part that scares me. I want to care, but when I make my mom cry, when I am punished or yelled at, I feel nothing. Help me God, help me control my rage.
I have always struggled with anger , resentments, and unforgiveness. I have been working on it with a therapist and 12 step sponsor, and it is getting better. I was told that resentments only hurt you, not the wrongdoers. I had to write down my resentments and how they affected me to see the damage to motivate me to let go. I also had to write down my part in the resentments so I could see where i was in the wrong, make amends, change behaviors, build my character and reconcile relationships if appropriate. Obviously there are some situations you don't play a part like if you were abused. I really get into psychology and human behavior so I like to understand why people act how they do for example mental illness. It helps to have compassion on them and to wish them well. This is NOT justifying or condoning it just helps to understand, have compassion, and wish them well. Its also not good to get revenge, not only because of consequence but they will get their karma and there will be justice. If it motivates them to change and make amends be happy for them.
I have to control my anger while my life is damaged its not like my life is perfect like everyone else.
I have had a lifelong struggle with anger and rage. Lord Jesus, please help me.
So angry. And so much energy spent.
God bless brothers and sisters. π
Thank you for this wonderful message, Pastor Josh. I really needed to hear it.
Been listening for 3 years. Been slow to speak. This has not worked.
Thank you
im always angry because iv got so called schizophrenia that turned out to be real people really did do this to me and i hate them, iv lost nearly everyone including the girl i loved that cheated then left just cant handle the anger
Lord please take away my anger and replace it with love and compassion
I often wonder of the apostles, as much as they presumably pulled their hair out back in the day, I do wonder how they would have fared in our modern day. It truly is quite a thought.
It angers me when pastors say "say it with me" for no reason.
"Jesus' brother"β¦. wrong context of the wordβ¦ BRO
I'm in the middle of people tryna bring the anger out of me right nowπππ
Iβve struggling with anger and temper issues all my life. Lord please Help me!!
Man I pray my anger goes away. I get upset then go on a tangent
I am angry because I am afraid. I have to have control. I trust nothing and no one and this has caused me to lose the people I love which makes me more angry because my biggest fear is being alone. Fear of abandonment. I used to use substances to escape but I gave that up two years ago but the fear and anger is still there. Iβm running around in circles and cannot break the chain. I know God can but will He? Will He leave me to my own demise? Not knowing is what is killing me.
Lord , please grant me the moments clarity necessary between provocation and response. I know I am faulty and that I am too quick to react when triggered and I know that yours is the way of peace . I know my sinful nature opens the window for the adversary to lead my actions .
Please help me be slower to react , that I may gain control and do your will. Let me be a vessel of your love , especially in times that I do not want to be .
When I desire to feed my anger , remind me that it is like cancer to my soul and that Love and forgiveness is like the rain and sun to that which blooms .
I ask only for your hand to gently touch my shoulder when i need a stutter step and I will do my best to recognize it and get out of my own way.
I ask this of you Lord Jesus that I may be a better man , and live more in peace. I wish to better do your will and grow closer to you, and believe this prayer to be honest and true to that end.
In your name I pray and as always I thank you for blessings and salvation you have given me .
Amen
i need prayer please. i came back to Jesus awhile ago but i cant shake this anger and frustration with people. its one of the things left i have trouble controlling. i have prayed and prayed to take this away from me, and i don't want to be this way, but it all just comes out in situations. i feel bad afterword's even though what i say is true. i never used to be like this when i was younger, but after i turned away from God i got bad with it. now that i have come back to God i cant get rid of it no matter how much i pray for it or try.
i don't deserve it but please pray to take this anger and frustration away from me.
i dont want to treat people like this.