Wtf should I do, I'm so tired of everything… Everybody says "go outside, if you want to make friends", but where? I go to the gym, taking walks, reeding books on a bench. I don't like to party, I like to just chill yk? For an example, I always liked it to just be in my own head while enjoying the company of someone I liked. I god damn know I'm not boring, everyone has his different interests, so as you. You are not boring, even if you can't find friends. With that said, I don't know how to make friends, I don't know where I can find some and I slowly but surely don't know what to do anymore
instead of nervous when the around people think how about us in the conversation. let changing we think how the opposite people. So we will active in the conversation.
Small talk used to be sooo intimidating to me, but now when I think about it. Small talk is a good thing, its a way to warm up and start a conversation with people😊
This was actually really validating! I am really shy and tend to be socially avoidant and overthink social interactions afterwards, but I have learned to do almost all of these tips and do implement them. Makes me feel like I'm doing ok after all 😅
Thx for the vid 😀 I'm going to a camp in a couple weeks with complete strangers and I'm an introvert with social anxiety but I also don't like being anywhere without someone like a friend so this will deffinetly help me make some friends 😀
i am in the process of loving people and not seeing them as a theat. however, my sensitivity, overthinking , and embarrasment always eating me. So, it made me sad.
if you ever listen to anything while reading comments let it be this find a book called Womens Magic Truths on borlest and read it , then come back and thank me
I have released that my problem is that I am so uninterested in other peoples lives (I mean people that I don’t know), that I can’t even fake being interested which leads me to not bother asking more questions about their life and the conversations just stop… (I think I’m so uninterested because of my depression which makes me feel like everything is pointless)
i love this video. im on my way to a summer camp and i really want to make friends but i always just wait for them to come to me which usually never happens. i watched other videos but they were talking too much and making it boring. this one you got straight to the point and made it entertaining. thank you! 😀
Thanks, great tips! Especially the last one on nobody remembering what you said but what they felt. I sometimes overthink things so i think this helped a bit haha
Can give a heads up to guys. We're builders. Make the convo about building up to something. Use that with all talking in your life. Eg. If I wanna do her hard in the ass I will say all the possitives towards her I have. Then how she wronged me and how I will punish her. Make a story everytime!
To be honest, I think I don't have the courage to act, communicate and get close to people. I’ve been like this since childhood, it’s from my genes. Social awkwardness is a much more serious problem than it seems. I'm moving to 8th grade and still don't have a single friend, it's really hard… especially if it's in kind.
9:23 when you think there is an awkward silence, it's shorter than we think, ways to break the silence: 9:38 connect with the environment, 10:02 be honest with how you feel (10:42 shows that you are human/not perfect)
I simply love you for this video. For years I was able to not talk to people out of fear. I really want to open up in my first job and I will use your advice. I feel better knowing that there are people who kind of understand it, but at the same time I wish that ppl would not have to feel the consequences of that kind of fears.
thank you for your video, sometimes we need to be remained, how important is to stay positive and be grounded to be able to enjoy other peoples ccmpany
Hey Jenn, this was a super helpful video! 🎉I appreciate your voice and passion.
I would recommend you starting a Podcast, you have a great Tone of voice, that is relatable and easy on the ears. 👂
Wtf should I do, I'm so tired of everything… Everybody says "go outside, if you want to make friends", but where? I go to the gym, taking walks, reeding books on a bench. I don't like to party, I like to just chill yk? For an example, I always liked it to just be in my own head while enjoying the company of someone I liked. I god damn know I'm not boring, everyone has his different interests, so as you. You are not boring, even if you can't find friends. With that said, I don't know how to make friends, I don't know where I can find some and I slowly but surely don't know what to do anymore
Amen 🙏 thanks
Thumbs up!
helped me a lot
instead of nervous when the around people think how about us in the conversation. let changing we think how the opposite people. So we will active in the conversation.
Small talk used to be sooo intimidating to me, but now when I think about it. Small talk is a good thing, its a way to warm up and start a conversation with people😊
I got real answers when I did IDENTI3 profiling.
Honestly I feel like you're the type of person I'd be so comfortable talking to
I love ur energy. Following u
This was actually really validating! I am really shy and tend to be socially avoidant and overthink social interactions afterwards, but I have learned to do almost all of these tips and do implement them. Makes me feel like I'm doing ok after all 😅
Why hadn't i watched this video before?🥹
Missed it🥰
If a girls body language and anwers are short should i just leave it
“No one remembers everything you say” am i the only one who remembers everything someone told me😃
The workaholic guys lived in Rancho Cucamonga for their show! 😮
Step one : look stunning
Step two: be female
Step three: profit
ебануться блять, 3,27 миллионов подписчиков на этот пустой трёп…. 3 блять с лихуем миллиона… этож пздц какой бред
That's me, overthink and overanalyze every word and detail. Guess I need to work at being more relaxed and casual and take everything less seriously.
Thx for the vid 😀 I'm going to a camp in a couple weeks with complete strangers and I'm an introvert with social anxiety but I also don't like being anywhere without someone like a friend so this will deffinetly help me make some friends 😀
i am in the process of loving people and not seeing them as a theat. however, my sensitivity, overthinking , and embarrasment always eating me. So, it made me sad.
Love this video but please look into better help a lot of people are having major problems with the system and some of the therapists on it
if you ever listen to anything while reading comments let it be this find a book called Womens Magic Truths on borlest and read it , then come back and thank me
I have released that my problem is that I am so uninterested in other peoples lives (I mean people that I don’t know), that I can’t even fake being interested which leads me to not bother asking more questions about their life and the conversations just stop… (I think I’m so uninterested because of my depression which makes me feel like everything is pointless)
i love this video. im on my way to a summer camp and i really want to make friends but i always just wait for them to come to me which usually never happens. i watched other videos but they were talking too much and making it boring. this one you got straight to the point and made it entertaining. thank you! 😀
pure BS
Thanks, great tips! Especially the last one on nobody remembering what you said but what they felt. I sometimes overthink things so i think this helped a bit haha
Ok now small talk for ugly people pls
Let's practice here "Hi"
Giving more than one word answers helps. Give at least 280 characters like on twitter.
It works because you are a young girl. Wait for ten years and tell if it is in the same difficulty.
Can give a heads up to guys.
We're builders. Make the convo about building up to something. Use that with all talking in your life.
Eg. If I wanna do her hard in the ass I will say all the possitives towards her I have. Then how she wronged me and how I will punish her.
Make a story everytime!
Immediete red flag when sponsored by better help ngl.
Nothing will turn people away faster than asking someone you’ve just met “how their soul has been”
Thank you
To be honest, I think I don't have the courage to act, communicate and get close to people. I’ve been like this since childhood, it’s from my genes. Social awkwardness is a much more serious problem than it seems. I'm moving to 8th grade and still don't have a single friend, it's really hard… especially if it's in kind.
Thank you for sharing this video, much appreciated!
this is honestly the best video i have found on yt about this tysm <3333 sending love hope your well!
weird hearing my city halfway through the video😭
Doing Uber eats has helped a lot with my social anxiety, fear of not being articulate and self esteem.
1:26 MOST RELATABLE THING I'VE HEARD TODAY
What is considered small talk, and why do people not like it?
(I like to save videos and then when something in a certain point of the video sticks out I make a note on why I saved the vid so ignore this comment)
NOTES FOR ME:
0:25 Self confidence vs self esteem
small talk: 3:29 people are like onions, 3:59 people are like ovens
Find commonality in questions: 4:40 ask "what neighborhood do you live in?", 5:18 examples to talk about, 5:26 ask "what are you drinking?"
6:07 kinds of topics examples to talk about
7:13 Be interested: 7:27 Genuinely listen for responding, instead of reminiscing on nervousness of what you will say next
8:14 ambervert: being a little bit of introvert and extrovert (this is also me)
8:55 if blanking, summarize what was talked about
9:23 when you think there is an awkward silence, it's shorter than we think, ways to break the silence: 9:38 connect with the environment, 10:02 be honest with how you feel (10:42 shows that you are human/not perfect)
@4:58 most American convo ever. Way too car-brained.
Anyone else here because there sat in their room crying because their lonely?
What if it’s sister in laws like your husband’s brother’s wives 😫
I simply love you for this video. For years I was able to not talk to people out of fear. I really want to open up in my first job and I will use your advice. I feel better knowing that there are people who kind of understand it, but at the same time I wish that ppl would not have to feel the consequences of that kind of fears.
thank you for your video, sometimes we need to be remained, how important is to stay positive and be grounded to be able to enjoy other peoples ccmpany